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If you are looking for some general, high level stuff you need to do to improve your pre-intimacy game, read first How To Tease A Girl During pre-intimacy. After you’re done, come back here and use one of these specific pre-intimacy ideas to boost your lovemaking skills to stratosphere.

I strongly suggest that you bookmark this article, and come back and read it for inspiration and ideas every now and then. Don’t try to remember all of these techniques – choose one or two that look most interesting, try them out, and then come back for more. That way you’ll get the most out of this guide.

O.K., with that out of the way, let’s talk about some unique pre-intimacy ideas that can leave her dripping wet with pleasure.

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KISS HER NECK
kissing her neck_foreplay ideas

This is a great example of an advice that is widely known, but still wrongly applied. Everybody knows what you should kiss, lick and even bite her (gently) on the neck.

But, what most men get wrong is HOW they do it. They do it without passion and excitement, just a little peck here and there and then they are done.

Well, their loss. Because if you do it with passion and fervor she will get turned on beyond your wildest dreams.

So, be sure to kiss her on her neck. But, more importantly, also use your tongue to lick her all over. (if she’s wearing perfume this will leave a sour taste in your mouth – be a soldier and endure it)

Also, gently use your teeth. A little bite here and there will leave her trembling with desire – just make sure that you don’t leave any marks; she probably won’t appreciate it.

TALK DIRTY TO HER
Talking dirty is something everybody wants to do, but they are afraid they are going to sound stupid. And with a good reason – some things that girls have said to me in bed were real erection killers.

So, how can you talk dirty without making a complete fool out of yourself?

Easy. Never “just” talk dirty. Always be doing something else while you are whispering raunchy, naughty things in her ear.

It can be kissing and biting her neck as in the previous example. It can be going down on her, as you’ll see later. It can even be just pinning her arms down and kissing her.

Now, the other thing you can do is to simplify your dirty talking when you are starting out.

Instead of calling her a bitch, cunt and a LovePeddler right off the bat, use these two techniques.

First, just tell her what you are going to do next. “Now I’m going to down on you…and lick you all the way down…lick your entire body…” etc. Be sure to show off desire in your voice, as you can’t wait to do those things.

Second, just ask her if she likes what you are doing. Provided that she is gasping and clearly enjoying herself, the answer will be yes. “You like it when I bite you on the neck, don’t you?” etc.

Using just these two tips will definitely spice up your sex life and introduce you to the wonderful world of dirty talking.

JUST THE TIP
This is usually the technique you should use when you are ready to finish pre-intimacy.

Why? Because when you are using this technique you will end up having sex – guaranteed.

Basically, what you should do is put just the tip of your penis inside of her…and then pull it out. Then put it back in. Then out. Then in. Then…you get the idea.

The idea is to tease her with “just the tip” of things to come.

This technique is extremely powerful. Don’t be surprised if she tries to grab your ass and tries to push you all the way in. Resist that.

Instead, ask her: “What’s wrong? You seem a little bit impatient…” or “How bad do you want it?” – all with a mischievous smile on your face.

When you are done with pre-intimacy and just want to start having sex, just push your dick all the way in when she least expects it and start fucking her incredibly fast and hard. Don’t be surprised if she comes right then and there.

PULL HER HAIR
This is a caveman move that works extremely well, but it can hurt her if you don’t know what you are doing.

What most men do is grab her by the end of her hair and pull with all their strength – which will hurt her and suck out the horniness out of the room.

The key is to grab her by the root of her hair and squeeze your fingers in a fist. Don’t try to yank her head – instead, strong and slow is the way to go.

When you try this technique for the first few times, err on the side of caution and pull lightly.

Then, as you see that she clearly enjoys it, slowly increase your grip strength until you’re Zorg the Caveman reincarnated.

PLAY WITH HER BREASTS
boobies pre-intimacy ideas

Ah boobies. One of the greatest pleasures in life a man can have (besides beer).

Too bad most guys are clueless when it comes to the proper way of turning a woman on just by playing with her nipples.

Firstly, don’t bite her nipples. While it can be done so the girl enjoys it, most guys are inexperienced in this and bite too hard. I don’t have to tell you that that is a major mood killer.

Second, do use your tongue and suck, lick and kiss both her nipples and her entire breasts. A good way to do this is to start of slowly and then, as she gets more turned on, escalate your speed.

And, third, some girls like it when you squeeze their boobs hard, while some only want gentle treatment. You will have to find out which type of girl she is. (Pro tip: Just ask her.)

GO DOWN ON HER
Eating a girl out is both an art and a science.

The main thing to remember is to do it with enthusiasm. You can have all the techniques in the world, if you are silent and lack passion, she will never get turned on. So be sure to check out my other article, How To Tease a Girl During pre-intimacy for a complete mindset change when it comes to pre-intimacy.

That’s the art part. Now onto the technical stuff.

Because this is such an important subject, and there is so much there needs to be said, I wrote an entire step-by-step guide on how to eat a girl out.

It’s 5000+ word complete guide to eating a girl out, so be sure to check it out.

BITE HER LIP (GENTLY)
This is another technique that sounds simple, but where you can horribly mess up.

This lip biting should be slow, sensuous, and erotic. It should be a natural extension of kissing.

There should never be any pain involved. You should bite her hard enough to make her Hot, but not hard enough to break the mood.

Because every girl has a different pain threshold, this will require some experimentation on your part.

Just don’t go overboard with it.

PIN HER ARMS
Pinning her arms is a great move that can be used both during pre-intimacy and during sex.

It’s best used when you are on top of her, and can control her completely.

This is a great time to add some other things from this article to the list: kissing, biting, dirty talking, etc.

She’s completely under your control and this fact will immensely turn her on.

You can now use this as a starting point to introduce some light BDSM and domination stuff inside your bedroom.

After all, 50 Shades of Grey is not a multimillion bestseller because of its writer’s ability, right?

USE YOUR FINGERS INTELLIGENTLY
As with eating a girl out, this is an enormous subject that needs to be covered more thoroughly than I can do in this article.

(Which I did in my other article: How To Finger A Girl: The Ultimate Guide)

Also, every girl is different and has different preferences, so you’ll need to both ask her what she likes and experiment to find that winning, “Oh my God!” combination.

Basically, you can either finger her clit or her vagina.

When it comes to clitoris, be sure that your fingers are wet and follow her (verbal or nonverbal) cues.

When it comes to vaginal stimulation, the best thing you can do is finger her center of gravity. Here’s how to do it:

First, locate the center of gravity.

What you do is use your index and middle fingers, slide it in, and make a “come hither” motion with them. Do this for a few minutes and you should feel her center of gravity growing. Keep fingering it until she comes or becomes so turned on that she demands you have sex with her that instant.

BLINDFOLD HER TO INCREASE HER PLEASURE


If you can keep your woman in suspense, she’ll be dripping wet with excitement.

And what better way to keep her in suspense than to blindfold her? If she can’t see what you are about to do, every move you make will be a delightful surprise.

I suggest you purchase a blindfold in secret and then tell her that you have something to show her later, in bed. This will peak her curiosity and then, after you show her what you’ve bought, she will be more than happy to try it out.

By the way, getting a Mouth Gig while being blindfolded is an amazing experience, so don’t think that blindfold is only for her.

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Most guys approach sex in a very mechanical way.

It usually goes like this: get naked, insert penis, have sex in missionary position at precisely 2.7 thrusts a second. Proceed to have an orgasm after 5-10 minutes (at best). No variation in speed, positions or thrusting techniques.

The end result ends up being a robotic sex devoid of any emotion (and it also shortens your lasting time dramatically.) The only sounds made are minor creaks from the bed. No words from you or moans from here, just dead silence.

I’m exaggerating here to make a point, but there is a serious lack of creativity among men when it comes to variety in their sex life which is a real shame.

I totally understand it, because I used to do the same thing. Growing up, we watch a lot of porn, and end up trying to emulate what the actors do. The problem is just that, these guys are actors, and only do what looks good on camera, not what actually feels good.

Believe me, after shooting hundreds of porn scenes, I’d much rather have sex off camera. Even though you get to be with super hot porn girls, the sex itself is robotic…constant thrusting while the cameraman hovers behind me. Not fun.

The other problem is that men are scared to try something new. We get in the habit of doing the same thing every time, and that’s what we do in bed. Doing the same thing every single time is easy, so we do it without considering the alternatives.

Women go absolutely wild for men that surprise them and always keep them guessing in the bedroom. Keep her on her toes and spice up your sex life by constantly introducing new things in the bedroom – that’s the key to a happy and fulfilled sex life.

One of the best ways you can accomplish this is with different thrusting techniques. The key here is to mix and match – if you keep doing just one thing, no matter how good she feels in the moment, you will become predictable and she will get bored, which is a death sentence to your sex life.

You can have the best technique in the world, but if you do the same “trick” for hours, the novelty will wear off. Avoid this by introducing new methods every few minutes. This’ll keep her coming back for more – that night, the next day, and beyond.

Here are a few tips to get you started.

MIX IT UP A LITTLE


One of the easiest ways to introduce variety into your thrusting techniques is by changing the speed and tempo of your thrusting.

Go fast for 10-20 seconds, then pause and go really slow for the next minute. Have a dozen shallow thrusts before going all in with the deep ones. Vary the speed and depth – that way she can’t predict what you will do next.

Of course, common sense applies here. If she is grabbing you and telling you to go faster or deeper, don’t suddenly slow down – that will just piss her off. Watch her reactions and adapt to that. On the other hand, if you feel you are near an ejaculation, it would be best if you slow down.

It’s usually best to start slowly and then escalate. If you’re just starting with sex, don’t start jackhammering right away. She might not be that wet yet and it will be unpleasant for her.

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Next, , start off with slow thrusts for a few minutes and then introduce more speed and variety.

Slow thrusts should be the opposite of wild jackhammering. Take your time and make sure your strokes are long, hard, and deep.

To do this, you can use positions that don’t facilitate thrusting, but are great for deep penetration. This includes spoons position, or if you’re looking for a challenge, seated position. Sit upright in a chair or on the edge of the bed and have her straddle you, for deep penetration.

You can also use this time to add positions that’ll help you last longer. As long as you’re mixing it up, you’ll do great.

Over the time, as you become more experienced, all of these techniques will become instinctive and you won’t even have to think about what to do and what techniques to use – but for now, try to consciously think and change the depth and speed of your thrusting.

TAOIST THRUSTING TECHNIQUE
At this point, you know you have to add variety to your routine, but you’re not sure exactly how. Don’t worry, Big Mike is going to help.

Here’s a technique to get you started. It’s called the “Taoist Thrusting Technique” and it goes like this:

First you do 9 shallow thrusts and 1 deep thrust.

Then 8 shallow thrusts and 2 deep ones.

Then 7 shallow ones and 3 deep thrusts.

And so on, until you do 10 deep ones.

Then, if you want to keep going, reverse the practice until you’re back at 9 shallow thrusts. The number doesn’t have to be exact, but progress the number of thrusts like described.

This technique is great because the variation in thrusts will keep her in suspense – and it will be infinitely more enjoyable than the same-old boring pumping.

It is also great for you, because you will never wonder what to do next – just count the thrusts and follow the plan. Eventually you’ll develop a rhythm and the counting will become unnecessary. Until then, follow the technique as described.

This is also one of the great first thrusting techniques to try out because you’re not doing anything drastically different than before so she won’t freak out, but still it is different enough that she will be able to enjoy it immensely.

There’s another thing about different thrusting techniques, you don’t have to warn her or prepare her in advance. There’s a ton of kinky tricks you can keep up your sleeve, but a lot of them require her agreement before you start.

For example, anal. You’re not going to just stick your penis in her butt. It takes preparation and confirmation that she wants it. Different thrusting techniques, you can break out anytime, and they can even help you last longer.

THRUSTING TECHNIQUES TO LAST LONGER IN BED
When it comes to thrusting techniques, if you want to last longer in bed, you’ll need to know several things.

One of the most common causes of premature ejaculation (due to thrusting techniques) is overstimulation of the head of the penis.

In plain English: when you only do fast, shallow thrusts, the head of the penis (which is the most sensitive part) is constantly stimulated. The entrance to the vagina is sometimes the tightest part, and if all you do is attack this area, you’re missing out. That often leads to overstimulation and premature ejaculation.

One of the ways to combat this is to thrust your penis deeply and to keep the head of the penis inside of her. That way the head is not stimulated and that alone can buy you at least 5-10 more minutes.

If you feel that you are near an ejaculation, just thrust your penis deep inside of her and then start grinding your pelvis against hers. This will lower the stimulation of your penis, but at the same time your pelvis will grind against her clitoris, which will be immensely pleasurable for her.

Believe it or not, women do not need constant thrusting like men do. This is due to the anatomy of the Instruments in men and women.

Men’s joysticks are just sticks wrapped in skin. We receive pleasure by rubbing something (hand, lips, vagina) against it.

Women’s vaginas do react the same way, but they have two other pleasure pathways men do not have. First is the clitoris. As you know from learning how to finger a girl, you can pleasure your woman without even entering her.

The second pleasure pathway is through the enlargement of the vagina. You see, there are muscles around the vagina that keep it tight. When these are pushed up against, women receive massive amounts of pleasure, so you can make her moan without even thrusting.

Combine these two and you can see how you can make a woman orgasm without even thrusting. Push your penis all the way into her vagina, stretching it out, and rub her clit until she comes. Don’t worry, she’ll forget all about the thrusting as soon as you starting doing this.

I mentioned another technique earlier in this article, but it bears repeating – if you feel you’re near an orgasm, slow down. The change in the tempo will provide you with a necessary break you need in order to keep going.

BEST THRUSTING POSITIONS


Best positions for trying out different thrusting techniques are generally the ones where you have the most control. This is because your woman doesn’t really know how you’re feeling, so she’ll just do whatever makes her feel good in the moment. She could do something that feels terrible for you, and even be suboptimal for her too.

It is difficult to try out new things when she is riding you, and you have limited options for thrusting. She’s the primary mover, and there’s not much you can do lying on the bed.

On the other hand, positions like missionary and doggy style are great because you have much more control over everything. You’re the primary actor, and she’s staying stationary, so you can do whatever you want.

Despite this, you can still turn girl on top into a position where you control the movement. Cowgirl doesn’t have to be the variation you use, where she sits up and rides you like a horse.

If you want to have control over her while she’s on top, do this. Grab her by the neck and push her head next to hers. This will make her body in line with yours. She won’t be able to bounce up and down, but you will be able to thrust into her.

Bend your knees so she’s lifted up, and start going to town. This angle will not only stimulate her clit with your body, it’ll also create deep penetration from how close your bodies are.

As always, try to mix and match and find out what positions work best for you. The #1 tip I can give you is to experiment.

Every couple is different. Penis and vaginas come in all different shapes and sizes, and everyone’s body works best in different positions. You wouldn’t suggest the same positions for a 6’7” basketball player as you would for a midget.

Keep trying out positions and thrusting styles, keep trying new things, and you’ll find success. If you continue to push the envelope and leave your comfort zone, I’m certain you’ll be having mind blowing sex in no time.

P.S. Thrusting techniques are what it takes to deliver electrifying orgasms up and down your woman’s spine, but they’re only useful if you’ve got the stamina to take her down the path to pleasure.

Studies have shown that the average duration of sex is a measly 6 minutes, but also, that most women require at least 15 minutes of penetration to orgasm.

It doesn’t matter how you thrust, if you only get a few strokes before you bust.

If you’re reading this article, you’ve learned what it takes to become a sex god, now all you have to do is take the tools I’ve given you, and apply them.

The best way, hands down, to rock her world is to last longer in bed. No matter what techniques you use, if you can’t control your orgasm, you’re facing an uphill battle to keep your woman satisfied in bed.

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