₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
So many people in today's world have been doing exactly that... refusing to make the same mistakes those before them did. And the journey begins with one very important step. And that is accepting the mistakes your parents made for what they are, mistakes which do not need to be brushed aside as anything less.

2.There are people out there who are going as far as not to have kids at all because they refuse to perpetuate the same horrors that were inflicted on them by planless parents. These are wise individuals... wiser than many of those parents Nigerians seek to have praised.

At the bolded, I'm very much inclined.

Genesis and Revelations.

Tensazagatzu must not see this post.

Apus:
The word "Listen" and "Control" are two different things. Make una no dey misquote people.
Wondering how the word "control" take enter a simple sentence.

I will assume i heard you.

In nigeria's most home, listen to me translates to control in most cases. Most nigerian men likes to dominate their women which is gradually going out of fashion.

Personally, my own style of leadership is mutual respect and reasoning together so we can have an accord. Not the one of squeezing face everywhere, showcashing your muscles and telling a grown up person they must listen because you pay the bills.

Even if a woman pays her bill and even spend on you, She will still respect you if you have a good personality. Besides it is nigerian men who started this control stuff with money. They believe once you have money, The next thing is to start telling people they must listen to you.

Listen to what exactly?? To control her abi??

Why would you want to control a full grown human being in 21st century.

The most important thing is the couple should respect and honor each other, then the woman would double the respect and honor for her husband. Trust me.

Personally, i dislike this nigerian manhood control stuff, like bouncing people around, hey you, do this, do that and i don't want anyone controlling me as well.

ukaface:
But the man fine sha

Na old e old sha

12 more characters?

Fine abi wetin i hear

Person wey hin neck be like chameleon neck😂

Op, I'm chasing women first and there is nothing you can do about it.

Chasing women first most especially nigerian women brings a lot of blessings into a man's life. I wish i knew this when i was young. I would have been a billionaire by now.

You won't escape sexxual urge till you are above fifty years of age to say the least.

Thirty's and Fortys period are the most intense.

I laughed so hard when i saw a young boy's post on here recently where he stated he won't have seexx nor mastvrbate till he'll leave earth bla bla bla😂

I laughed so much at his authentic ignorance😂

Stale to me though.

Announce this to the regular nigerians.

Because i have firsthand informations.

This is True.

My electricity bill have increased astronomically over the past months.

At least she roofed the house.

What a kind woman if you ask me.

Lastly, I do not believe his story. I would like to hear from his wife.

Badmashii:
but boss this particular issue have a good counter-approach na.

Normally I don't support visiting brothel or the likes for sex,it is always recommended to have sex in your place because you're in full control in such instances.

That's why paying for hookup is actually better than visiting a brothel.

And I have many reasons to believe you because most brothel girls can never follow you anywhere no matter how much you're willing to pay.

Better still avoid any sex vendor and focus on your social skills. They're thousands of girls available to lay with using just your looks and game.

One more thing,ordinary waka is never wise in today's world. most players tend to end up unfortunate in life. The other fortunate ones more or less have their spirituality well protected.

In other words,get a solid protection if you want to life a player life and retire with grace .

Exactly you understand the whole thing.

Even many among those hookup girls aren't operating with pure intentions, I tell you. Humans are extremely mean Forget all those flashy suits, shiny clothes and flashy material things you see. Isale oro legbin.

This is the reason why if you meet good and kind people, please hold on to them very dearly. Surviving with ease in some places in the world is not so easy.

It took me a while to assimiliate the real meaning of the phrase "Work Smart" the smart part, there is a lot attached to it.

Best of luck!

Be like News don finish for Nigeria.

Well one shouldn't underestimate the level of reasoning of the "gulleeble ones, their fans" to be in tandem with their rulers🤣

Badmashii:
Senior man abeg educate your younger ones make we learn from you. portal as how na?

My Chief, I will be brief on this topic.

The Spiritual World is real and our Soul is also a spirit.

One of the easiest way, if not the easiest way to scramble a human's life most especially a man is through corrupted sex.

As a man, If you are still a virgin, I mean never had any form of intercourse with the other gender. If you mastvrbate, you are still intact. Make sure you guide your virginity so well because you are carrying a pure spirit at least to some extent. I discovered most of these secrets myself.

Many of, "If not all" those we call Elite, Wealthy and the Rich knows these secrets and are still manipulating this situation to their own advantage up till this moment.

See, I have to tell you one particular secret i discovered before i leave and it applies to men precisely. There are too many dark sides to men lives, I mean absolute dark sides. Most men (prevalent in nigeria) usually makes mistakes when they were young (Ignorance Precisely) (Not Having A Good Guardian/Custodian) and when they eventually grow up, they will make sure the upcoming generation must not escape it too. They do these things out of pains, regrets, emotions and stupidity because they felt they were cheated and manipulated by those who have grown and wiser in life so they have to return the same favor to the upcoming generation in order to satisfy themselves.

You see those Joint Houses people usually visit and have FUN with their hard laboured wage for just Five Minutes or More lol, Many of them have signed up for either immediate or future miseries unknowingly. The only option they have so they can evade misfortunes is to seek spiritual help to salvage their situation.

Most of the Elite, Wealthy and The Rich are the biggest patronizers of those joints. But you know the funny thing? They aren't there for seex, They are there for Real Spiritual Business which is acquiring your Semen from the seex workers.

There are too many daark thin things i can't put up on here. It's not meant for public consumption.

I will recommend this comrade to you Deepspirituals incase you need more insights about life generally, Help and how things work in Nigeria precisely.

NB: I am not in any way affiliated to him, I just like his expertise. Best of luck.

Talking with Emotions.

In as much as i am an advocate of financial literacy and building good legacy.

He spoilt everything with the "Jailing Part" what is jail connection with financial illiteracy or squandering your personal income.

Kobojunkie:
You are asking a meaningless question, though.🥱🥱

I said I would consider her actions quite justified in the case that those 3 kids were to face hardship without. What does it matter whether you are married or not when the lives of children, who never asked to be pulled into such a situation and do no deserve such treatment, are involved?😩😩

Your heaven na view once

brain54:
Having sex with someone who normally wouldn't have nothing to do with you.

Having sex with random people.

Comrade please leave them.

Most of them do not know how sacred seex is to both gender.

Sex is a gateway and portal in both gender.

I was ignorant of these important informations in my teenage years but not anymore.

Afterall, Everybody learns in the end!

Until you understand that black men(enablers) are the cause of these menaces. You will keep getting frustrated and going round in circles.

These stuffs happens in other climes too but it is not as worse as it is in Nigeria. Besides those countries aren't suffering and experiencing Poverty like Nigerians.

I have seen and understood lot of things in this world. I hardly advice blavk people. When people are ready to make things work and have decorum, they will, but for now, let them immerse themselves in madddness.

Besides, This Whatsapp Open Once always amuse me. If the person you sent pictures to with this feature has Two Camera Phones, You are only wasting your time using the feature🤣

Juoflife1:
My advice to men is to remain men. If you guys masculine women, it will not be in your favour. The only upper hand you have is that you make more money than women. I won't say much.

Sweetheart, Please come back here and say more. I want to learn from you.

NNEVERAGAINN:
the thing be say,

Time dey come when men nor go look women face again.

because knowledge dun make us open eyes (to get awareness), and the economy dey tell on everyone just as you pointed. No man one marry woman when lazy. Sex self dey tire person!

It's already happening.

Personally, Women hardly comes to my mind these days. It's not hatred or grudges.

My full concentration is on my FUTURE and my intending offsprings.

Morso as you pointed out, The Diaplated Economy is a very big factor which has contributed to all this brouhaha

Any Woman who will come into my life at this moment has to be my helpful soulmate.

LONG STORIES

The SHIP has sailed long ago and out of your sight. You seems very late.

Seems you aren't aware of the Great Movement of liberation of "Reasonable Men" which I and other great Legends pioneered on here Nairaland eight years ago.

I will be back soon.

Don't ask Nairaland members for contact details (email, phone, bbpin) or investments.

bigdawg7:
Lol they must always find you in conversations like this because you can relate to the topic wella

Nigerians Una too like wahala

I dey mind my business these days😂

If your body no full, No put body for politics.

May she rest in peace.

easytig:
4m for that outdated thing,it's been long I price motor be dat

Check Auto Section.

You go run comot for there😂

easytig:
Even the 2001 corolla that was 400,000k is now 1,300,000k nonsense country

Where you see am for N1.3??

The Toks is N4M flat.

I don't think you can even see clean nigerian used for such amount lol.

TheStranger:
I remember when Amdman was selling it for 1.7 million before

"I will pight kwarupshun" entered and everything changed

Amdman is the Car Dealer Angel of our time.

I'm not sure those days are coming again in this century. Even the next, I'm not sure.

ednut1:
2009 to 2014 version obviously. Drove the 2020 version recently it felt fragile 😩

Be like you don drink your kain kain again.

No be only 2014, Na 2040.

softy:
She is like a live cobra or mamba snake cut in the middle.......................you wanna learn in a hard way

at bolded, for your future peace sake, for your unborn children sake, for the spiritual peace of your future wife, for continuous prosperity coming your way in the near future: LET THIS LADY CARRY HER WAHALA GO! DONT have anything to do with her, her spirit, her body, her existence. SHE is going to be the CLOG in your wheel. It is going to be disastrous at the end. Fleeeeeeeeeeeee!!!

I seldom advice people these days.

Because people usually prefer to learn the hard way. Pain and Suffering are good remedy for human beings.

Na this kind thread dey sell well well.

I knew this will come to fruition eventually.

At least we will rest from hearing the phrase "No Be Woman Born You"😂