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PropertiesRe: Please I Need Urgent Help On My Building by Manjapa(op): 8:49am On Mar 13
dawnomike:
Where is your location... Use the house to get a loan, use the loan to get a car, entwr lagos and start Uber while you repay the loan little by little
Good morning sir.
My location is Benin sir.
Where can I get a loan from that's the problem.
Because I don't know if bank can give me a loan up to 10 million naira
PropertiesRe: Please I Need Urgent Help On My Building by Manjapa(op): 7:56am On Mar 13
untoldtruth:
First of all, you clearly want to sell it, you just want someone to validate it for you. Since that's what you want to do, why bother seeking validation? I've seen your post before this sha, since Na business you wan float, sell the land with your full chest and go into business, just make sure the business is a feasible one, before you do 2 zero.
Not that I want to really sell it,but I am just here to seek for the best advice
PropertiesRe: Please I Need Urgent Help On My Building by Manjapa(op): 7:54am On Mar 13
Genes1s:
Don't sell that building.
Remove your mind from the fact that you have it somewhere. What if it's not there in the first place?

Find alternatives. It's not easy but I knw you can bounce back. All the best.
Thank you for the advice sir.
I am trying but it's not easy at all
PropertiesRe: Please I Need Urgent Help On My Building by Manjapa(op): 7:39am On Mar 13
Manjapa:
Please I need urgent help on my property.
I lost my job last year,and because of that I couldn't finish up my 3 bedroom flat with a selfcon project.
The building is on roofing level.
I have been like this since I lost my job,all the money I saved alittle is finished.
I can't continue like this,I want to sell the building to start business.
Please is it a good risk,alot of persons said I should not sell it,but I can't have a building and be stagnant,I have been like this for almost a year now
Please very urgent I need advice please
PropertiesPlease I Need Urgent Help On My Building by Manjapa(op): 7:39am On Mar 13
Please I need urgent help on my property.
I lost my job last year,and because of that I couldn't finish up my 3 bedroom flat with a selfcon project.
The building is on roofing level.
I have been like this since I lost my job,all the money I saved alittle is finished.
I can't continue like this,I want to sell the building to start business.
Please is it a good risk,alot of persons said I should not sell it,but I can't have a building and be stagnant,I have been like this for almost a year now
PropertiesRe: Please Help Me,i Need Advice On My Property by Manjapa(op): 7:13am On Mar 13
Manjapa:
Please I need urgent help on my property.
I lost my job last year,and because of that I couldn't finish up my 3 bedroom flat with a selfcon project.
The building is on roofing level.
I have been like this since I lost my job,all the money I saved alittle is finished.
I can't continue like this,I want to sell the building to start business.
Please is it a good risk,alot of persons said I should not sell it,but I can't have a building and be stagnant,I have been like this for almost a year now
I am 30 years now I feel there is a need to take some steps now
PropertiesRe: Please Help Me,i Need Advice On My Property by Manjapa(op): 7:11am On Mar 13
Manjapa:
Please I need urgent help on my property.
I lost my job last year,and because of that I couldn't finish up my 3 bedroom flat with a selfcon project.
The building is on roofing level.
I have been like this since I lost my job,all the money I saved alittle is finished.
I can't continue like this,I want to sell the building to start business.
Please is it a good risk,alot of persons said I should not sell it,but I can't have a building and be stagnant,I have been like this for almost a year now
Please I really need urgent advice please
PropertiesPlease Help Me,i Need Advice On My Property by Manjapa(op): 7:10am On Mar 13
Please I need urgent help on my property.
I lost my job last year,and because of that I couldn't finish up my 3 bedroom flat with a selfcon project.
The building is on roofing level.
I have been like this since I lost my job,all the money I saved alittle is finished.
I can't continue like this,I want to sell the building to start business.
Please is it a good risk,alot of persons said I should not sell it,but I can't have a building and be stagnant,I have been like this for almost a year now
PropertiesRe: Please Urgent Advice On My Property by Manjapa(op): 7:09am On Mar 13
Boladogailese:
I am also in the same dilemma too but mine is a small piece of land still looking for where to process the collateral loan. Will let you know when I see one or two updates
Alright sir thank you very much 🙏🙏
PropertiesRe: Please Urgent Advice On My Property by Manjapa(op): 6:55am On Mar 13
Boladogailese:
If you have a way of using it to secure a long term loan of let’s say 5 years and an amount of about 10 to 15m you should be able to do something productive to repay it back before that time
The problem is that I don't even know how to go about it because of the location of the building.
Because the house is not that close to main road,I don't know if bank will agree
PropertiesRe: Please Urgent Advice On My Property by Manjapa(op): 9:48pm On Mar 12
Manjapa:
Please I need urgent help on my property.
I lost my job last year,and because of that I couldn't finish up my 3 bedroom flat with a selfcon project.
The building is on roofing level.
I have been like this since I lost my job,all the money I saved alittle is finished.
I can't continue like this,I want to sell the building to start business.
Please is it a good risk,alot of persons said I should not sell it,but I can't have a building and be stagnant,I have been like this for almost a year now
@oga Seun help me push it please
PropertiesRe: Please Urgent Advice On My Property by Manjapa(op): 9:47pm On Mar 12
Manjapa:
Please I need urgent help on my property.
I lost my job last year,and because of that I couldn't finish up my 3 bedroom flat with a selfcon project.
The building is on roofing level.
I have been like this since I lost my job,all the money I saved alittle is finished.
I can't continue like this,I want to sell the building to start business.
Please is it a good risk,alot of persons said I should not sell it,but I can't have a building and be stagnant,I have been like this for almost a year now
Please I am 30 and I feel time is going.
If I can start something after selling the property I can still build a better house.
And I feel this is not the only house I will build
PropertiesRe: Please Urgent Advice On My Property by Manjapa(op): 9:37pm On Mar 12
Manjapa:
Please I need urgent help on my property.
I lost my job last year,and because of that I couldn't finish up my 3 bedroom flat with a selfcon project.
The building is on roofing level.
I have been like this since I lost my job,all the money I saved alittle is finished.
I can't continue like this,I want to sell the building to start business.
Please is it a good risk,alot of persons said I should not sell it,but I can't have a building and be stagnant,I have been like this for almost a year now
Please I need urgent advice please
PropertiesPlease Urgent Advice On My Property by Manjapa(op): 9:36pm On Mar 12
Please I need urgent help on my property.
I lost my job last year,and because of that I couldn't finish up my 3 bedroom flat with a selfcon project.
The building is on roofing level.
I have been like this since I lost my job,all the money I saved alittle is finished.
I can't continue like this,I want to sell the building to start business.
Please is it a good risk,alot of persons said I should not sell it,but I can't have a building and be stagnant,I have been like this for almost a year now
RomanceRe: What Can You Advise A 30 Years Old Man About This Please by Manjapa(op): 8:33pm On Jan 05
intruder15:
You learnt the hard way. Let me tell you the bitter truth. Your parents being kidnapped was either staged or someone close to your father made that happen.

Secondly, landed properties are bought in secret and only revealed when necessary. In your case, you told who you were not meant to tell. Again, you learnt the hard way.

Thirdly, if it is not life and death scenario, don't sell the property for cash flow. The skill you gained, is it not transferrable? Wondering why it is suddenly irrelevant because the white men left. Keep searching. You will see. Just that the salary may be less than it used to. At least it is something.

Lastly, you are 30 years of age. Not 40. So I see no reason why you will be feeling pressured to give your dad a grand child.
Thanks for your contributions
RomanceRe: What Can You Advise A 30 Years Old Man About This Please by Manjapa(op): 8:30pm On Jan 05
sacajawea:
Which state is this that you built this House and bought the Land, the Two lands?
Benin Edo State boss
RomanceRe: What Can You Advise A 30 Years Old Man About This Please by Manjapa(op): 6:45pm On Jan 05
LeoThaGreat:
Sorry about the unfortunate cases of kidnapping. They are the main culprits of your current situation.

Before you get into a situation of needing money badly, list your property for sale at a good price. Don't sell yourself short or assume you will get 10m for a place you've spent 12m on.
I'm a property agent and I know what I'm saying.
List it for 18m and accept 15m as last price. Please don't show desperation or defeat, you've only had setbacks and will bounce back.


When you've sold the property, relocate your parents to avoid a repeat kidnap case that will leave you financially stranded this time around.


Manage yourself till you get a new job. Or open a business you are already familiar with its operations. Maybe a business you learnt or the ones your parents are/were into.

Wishing you the best of luck my bro
Amen thank you Sir
RomanceRe: What Can You Advise A 30 Years Old Man About This Please by Manjapa(op): 6:44pm On Jan 05
Sandralight:
I am very sorry about your situation 😔
If we live in a safe country, all you have worked for won't go down the drain because of insecurity.

Personally I would advice not selling, that building will be like a safety net for you, keep looking for job and also learn tech skills if you can on your free time and try to create a big network, maybe someone will connect you to an opportunity.
Good luck to you
Thank you very much I appreciate
RomanceRe: What Can You Advise A 30 Years Old Man About This Please by Manjapa(op): 6:44pm On Jan 05
LeoThaGreat:
Sorry about the unfortunate cases of kidnapping. They are the main culprits of your current situation.

Before you get into a situation of needing money badly, list your property for sale at a good price. Don't sell yourself short or assume you will get 10m for a place you've spent 12m on.
I'm a property agent and I know what I'm saying.
List it for 18m and accept 15m as last price. Please don't show desperation or defeat, you've only had setbacks and will bounce back.


When you've sold the property, relocate your parents to avoid a repeat kidnap case that will leave you financially stranded this time around.


Manage yourself till you get a new job. Or open a business you are already familiar with its operations. Maybe a business you learnt or the ones your parents are/were into.

Wishing you the best of luck my bro
Amen,thank you sir
RomanceRe: What Can You Advise A 30 Years Old Man About This Please by Manjapa(op): 4:46pm On Jan 05
Gotocourt:
Japa oOoOO, no say I no tell you. What course did you study at the University?
Can 8 million take me out please?
RomanceRe: What Can You Advise A 30 Years Old Man About This Please by Manjapa(op): 4:42pm On Jan 05
Gotocourt:
Japa oOoOO, no say I no tell you. What course did you study at the University?
I studied elect elect boss
RomanceRe: What Can You Advise A 30 Years Old Man About This Please by Manjapa(op): 3:16pm On Jan 05
Talkisneeded:
I don’t have any advice,just word of hope,do not sell the building bro…
Thank you sir for your contributions
RomanceRe: What Can You Advise A 30 Years Old Man About This Please by Manjapa(op): 2:50pm On Jan 05
SixSeven:
Do not sell that building. I repeat, do not sell that building. Life comes with troubles but it's in seasons. One season, you were doing well and you thought God was favoring you, now you have a life challenge and think God has forsaken youhuh

God is with the patient. You can still work your way towards another job, another business or something else but a landed property is an investment asset that yields more profit with time so I am surprised you even want to sell it to japa. You will regret that action. I think you need to calm down and redraw a plan. What you are doing now is irrational thinking instead of rational thinking. Take your time and grind, every business man has always faced a serious crisis in life. But what they do is to always keep bouncing back.

Go and watch My Worst Day with Peace Hyde and you will find out that every big man has his own wahala. This is your time to shine. What is this experience teaching you as a manhuh

Everyman needs solitude, spirituality and faith. This is what makes men. You too shall rise above these challenges.

FORBES AFRICA TV | My Worst Day with Cosmos Maduka | S1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kqrwX2o-h7M
Thank you very much sir
God bless you for the words of encouragement 🙏🙏
RomanceUrgent Advice Needed Please by Manjapa(op): 12:38pm On Jan 05
It's all started 2023,when I got my first job with a shipping company.
I was connected by one of my old time friend.
Fast forward,I started the job,a well paying job, within a short period of time,I bought a landed property in my state, because I am the kind of person that love properties from a very young age I always wanted to own alot of property.
And because of the kind of life I live,it was easier for me,I don't smoke or do drugs or womanize or drink.
I will cut the story short, because of time.
After few months which was last year again,I bought another property and started building,I felt like God has finally favoured me forever,I built the house up to roofing level which I had to stop because of some advice I got that I shouldn't rush everything once by my father.
As of this time it was June last year.
By July suddenly some of us where laid off, because the whites sold it to a Nigerian company, because of the whole economy policies.
That was how,I started managing myself,then fast forward to November my dad was kidnapped,which I paid 6 million to get him released,inside that Same November my mum was kidnapped,had to sell my two landed property to get her release which they demanded for 5million last,it all happened like a dream, seeing everything I worked to gather widering way without me unable to help myself.
I became depressed,and Said,but I believe God will do it again.

I only have my building left,I am 30 years now,my only thing I own now is that building.
My plan is to sell the building,and start life again, please I need advice my fellow brothers
and sisters.
Should I sell it and start business, because I promised my dad I will give him grandson before he leaves this world,apart from the marriage I am just stuck,I need to move forward,at least I can get 10 million from the building,but I spent up to 12million though,I know I can't get up to that amount back.
I need to keep moving,if 10 million will take me out of this country I would have traveled if I sell it,but 10 million can't.

I seriously need advice
Had to cut the story short, because of time
Thank you all
RomanceRe: What Can You Advise A 30 Years Old Man About This Please by Manjapa(op): 11:36am On Jan 05
Karlifate:
Be careful of who you reveal your income & your next move to.
Thank you brother.
I know this was also part of my problem, because everything I was doing,my parents will hear first out of excitement
RomanceRe: What Can You Advise A 30 Years Old Man About This Please by Manjapa(op): 11:35am On Jan 05
MONEY247:
Don't sell brother...
That's investment right there look for another job to argument.....

Short story.....
I remember when my family was going through so much financial challenges... My dad wanted to sell the land... Mum on hearing the matter" stole" the documents and hid for several weeks.... My old man was troubled....
After the whole heat died down she brought it out...

Today they have built the house to an upstairs, have some tenants... Things are better...

My advice is, get a job try to complete the building.... But don't sell the property..
I appreciate your advice sir
Thank you
RomanceRe: What Can You Advise A 30 Years Old Man About This Please by Manjapa(op): 11:34am On Jan 05
Lalami3232:
Make I advise you as a fellow man, try pick whatever you think is sensible.
1. Don't be pressured to marry or produce grandchildren because of anybody, not even your parents. At this phase of your life, you need to rebuild and not the other way around.
2. Don't be pressured by your age. I saw you making a state of "I'm 30yrs" bla bla bla. Bros, 30yrs old na still a young man for this Nigeria. You're doing well already for a 30yrs old if we're to go by 9ja standard.
3. If you must go abroad, get a skill. Any good skill you can think of but I will suggest tech for you because I'm a techie and I know what I'm saying. Go for cyber security or data science and try to get a certification, thank me later.
4. Stop carrying entire family's problem on your head at this stage because it will wear you down completely. You're a growing young man who needs time to find his root
5. Don't ever feel pressured because it's obvious from your writeup that you're pressured. Life happens but the fact say we fit dust ourselves and start over again na make us winners.
6. Sell that your landed property and invest it into a good and profitable business you know very well. Bros if you no know well about the business, don't invest in it.
7. Avoid women for now, majority of them won't help you. You already dey carry big load like this, no need adding a non-virgin to your burden.
I wish you nothing but the best bro, it's going to be well. I know say you dey fear to start all over from the ground. It's going to be well someday and you will smile. But if for whatever reason you choose not to adhere to my advice and you go marry a non-virgin (fairly used), then make sure say you save money for DNA test because non-virgins can't be trusted atall

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA test
Thank you sir.
How much do I need to Learn the CYBER SECURITY STUFF AND GET CERTIFIED SIR
Nairaland GeneralUrgent! What Advice Would You Give A 30 Years Old Man On This Please by Manjapa(op): 10:36am On Jan 05
It's all started 2023,when I got my first job with a shipping company.
I was connected by one of my old time friend.
Fast forward,I started the job,a well paying job, within a short period of time,I bought a landed property in my state, because I am the kind of person that love properties from a very young age I always wanted to own alot of property.
And because of the kind of life I live,it was easier for me,I don't smoke or do drugs or womanize or drink.
I will cut the story short, because of time.
After few months which was last year again,I bought another property and started building,I felt like God has finally favoured me forever,I built the house up to roofing level which I had to stop because of some advice I got that I shouldn't rush everything once by my father.
As of this time it was June last year.
By July suddenly some of us where laid off, because the whites sold it to a Nigerian company, because of the whole economy policies.
That was how,I started managing myself,then fast forward to November my dad was kidnapped,which I paid 6 million to get him released,inside that Same November my mum was kidnapped,had to sell my two landed property to get her release which they demanded for 5million last,it all happened like a dream, seeing everything I worked to gather widering way without me unable to help myself.
I became depressed,and Said,but I believe God will do it again.

I only have my building left,I am 30 years now,my only thing I own now is that building.
My plan is to sell the building,and start life again, please I need advice my fellow brothers
and sisters.
Should I sell it and start business, because I promised my dad I will give him grandson before he leaves this world,apart from the marriage I am just stuck,I need to move forward,at least I can get 10 million from the building,but I spent up to 12million though,I know I can't get up to that amount back.
I need to keep moving,if 10 million will take me out of this country I would have traveled if I sell it,but 10 million can't.

I seriously need advice
Had to cut the story short, because of time
Thank you all
RomanceRe: What Can You Advise A 30 Years Old Man About This Please by Manjapa(op): 10:32am On Jan 05
FreeSpirited:
Maybe you shouldn't tell your father and mother any of your big projects or plans until it's finally done. If I were you, I won't tell them again.

Even if they are not the problem, their mouth might probably be basket that leak and narrate anything you are doing to their enemies. because its not coincidence that both of them were kidnapped and u had to release them with everything u had worked for. If you think it's coincidence then you never know life. Even if you sell that house they don't have to know till you accomplish what u want to use the money for.

Be wise O.... And ur talk of grandson shouldn't be priority or a motivation to go and rush into a woman that will frustrate your life. Better calm down. Shay are you the one that gives baby or God. This boy never know life. Better grow up and not waste opportunities, many don't come often, many come once, some every 5 yrs, some every 10 or 20 years, if u don't use it, before u will get it, it will be struggle to struggle and regret.
If you like tell them about this travelling out, you will learn
Thank you boss I appreciate your contributions too sir 🙏🙏
RomanceRe: What Can You Advise A 30 Years Old Man About This Please by Manjapa(op): 10:29am On Jan 05
obinna58:
Keep grinding hard, business is not guaranteed especially in this economy, I’m nearing 30 and I’ve not achieved anything spectacular either except poultry house and farm truck which I have been managing until this economy failed me completely, now I’m learning welding. Do not sell it for petty money, keep it.
I really appreciate your contributions brother 🙏🙏🙏🙏
RomanceRe: What Can You Advise A 30 Years Old Man About This Please by Manjapa(op): 9:28am On Jan 05
Manjapa:
It's all started 2023,when I got my first job with a shipping company.
I was connected by one of my old time friend.
Fast forward,I started the job,a well paying job, within a short period of time,I bought a landed property in my state, because I am the kind of person that love properties from a very young age I always wanted to own alot of property.
And because of the kind of life I live,it was easier for me,I don't smoke or do drugs or womanize or drink.
I will cut the story short, because of time.
After few months which was last year again,I bought another property and started building,I felt like God has finally favoured me forever,I built the house up to roofing level which I had to stop because of some advice I got that I shouldn't rush everything once by my father.
As of this time it was June last year.
By July suddenly some of us where laid off, because the whites sold it to a Nigerian company, because of the whole economy policies.
That was how,I started managing myself,then fast forward to November my dad was kidnapped,which I paid 6 million to get him released,inside that Same November my mum was kidnapped,had to sell my two landed property to get her release which they demanded for 5million last,it all happened like a dream, seeing everything I worked to gather widering way without me unable to help myself.
I became depressed,and Said,but I believe God will do it again.

I only have my building left,I am 30 years now,my only thing I own now is that building.
My plan is to sell the building,and start life again, please I need advice my fellow brothers
and sisters.
Should I sell it and start business, because I promised my dad I will give him grandson before he leaves this world,apart from the marriage I am just stuck,I need to move forward,at least I can get 10 million from the building,but I spent up to 12million though,I know I can't get up to that amount back.
I need to keep moving,if 10 million will take me out of this country I would have traveled if I sell it,but 10 million can't.

I seriously need advice
Had to cut the story short, because of time
Thank you all
Please @seun sir

Help me to move it front Page sir
RomanceRe: What Can You Advise A 30 Years Old Man About This Please by Manjapa(op): 9:26am On Jan 05
Manjapa:
It's all started 2023,when I got my first job with a shipping company.
I was connected by one of my old time friend.
Fast forward,I started the job,a well paying job, within a short period of time,I bought a landed property in my state, because I am the kind of person that love properties from a very young age I always wanted to own alot of property.
And because of the kind of life I live,it was easier for me,I don't smoke or do drugs or womanize or drink.
I will cut the story short, because of time.
After few months which was last year again,I bought another property and started building,I felt like God has finally favoured me forever,I built the house up to roofing level which I had to stop because of some advice I got that I shouldn't rush everything once by my father.
As of this time it was June last year.
By July suddenly some of us where laid off, because the whites sold it to a Nigerian company, because of the whole economy policies.
That was how,I started managing myself,then fast forward to November my dad was kidnapped,which I paid 6 million to get him released,inside that Same November my mum was kidnapped,had to sell my two landed property to get her release which they demanded for 5million last,it all happened like a dream, seeing everything I worked to gather widering way without me unable to help myself.
I became depressed,and Said,but I believe God will do it again.

I only have my building left,I am 30 years now,my only thing I own now is that building.
My plan is to sell the building,and start life again, please I need advice my fellow brothers
and sisters.
Should I sell it and start business, because I promised my dad I will give him grandson before he leaves this world,apart from the marriage I am just stuck,I need to move forward,at least I can get 10 million from the building,but I spent up to 12million though,I know I can't get up to that amount back.
I need to keep moving,if 10 million will take me out of this country I would have traveled if I sell it,but 10 million can't.

I seriously need advice
Had to cut the story short, because of time
Thank you all
Please Oga @seun help me move it front Page sir

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