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PrinceMario:
Spot on.


My NL crush dey burst my head.

Maquin you still never tall anything.

princeakins:
Lool. As in very funny. Dts doesnt kip her man, it only mks her luk more appealin to her man. Dazzol



HOw u

IffaCatchYouEhn:
Memes by iffacatchyouehn

IffaCatchYouEhn:
I don't have yours either

dasparrow:
Why should it sadden your heart? Not everyone desires to have sex. Should they force themselves to get married all the same and live a life of misery? What of those who genuinely do not desire children? Would you prefer they have kids anyway to appease society and behind closed doors be abusive towards them? What about the mentally ill? Should they get married too? What of people with trust issues, should they get married too? What of those that were raped as children and are psycologically messed up for life, they have been to counselling but its not helping. The mental damage is already done. Should they get married too?

My point is, the only way we can raise healthy families is to allow people decide if they indeed want a spouse. Once you force people into something they really don't want, they won't give it their best shot. Allow people decide if they want it or not so we don't have a society filled with bitter married couples and children who grow up afraid of marriage because of what they witnessed in their parents' marriages.

Other than that, I have no problem with your opinion. Marriage is beautiful if done right and for the right reasons WITHOUT force and undue pressure from society, family members and loved ones.

Shalom! Peace!I hear you sir

IffaCatchYouEhn:
Uhnnn.. Seriously??

IffaCatchYouEhn:
Hello Maclean

Fanirandele:
ode, only a miserable soul goes around saying what she doesn't know what do pathetic women like yourself benefit from trying to drag other women down the only one with bad character here is you , if you are this evil to women you don't know can't imagine how you are in real life. Miserable woman

obyno1011:
Good points listed. I'm not married yet.
It will be a wonderful life experience.
Are you married?

missKiffy:
Fine, marriage is important, God ordained it, nobody is disputing that, so what should they do if they've not found a partner yet. The undue pressure we give people over marriage is so unnecessary

Fanirandele:
May God forgive you for saying what you don't know where you in the marriage with them? how do you know she didnt divorce him because of some mistreatment from him women truly are their own worst enemies. Remember what the Bible says about those who bear false witness. Yes marriage is important but not everyone must marry , many of those who achieved the most in the bible were never married.

go and face your own miserable life and stop worrying about how others live theirs.

Chukazu:
what utter nonsense!
the ex husband reported her character to you?
abi na you be their divorce lawyer?

can't believe a woman is badmouthing her fellow this way, or maybe you a kid

ammyluv2002:
Op, i read all your comments on the other thread so i decided to check your profile and viola!

I know marriage is a good thing and everyone is encouraged to get married because of these great points you've listed, but i also want you to know that marriage isn't for everyone. You are a Christian so can relate to this. check 1 Corinthians 7: 1 - end especially 7 which says...

"Sometimes I wish everyone were single like me—a simpler life in many ways! But celibacy is not for everyone any more than marriage is. God gives the gift of the single life to some, the gift of the married life to others."

Now, this verse is not encourage baby mamas, but God's gift to some. If you have that gift to be single, you are to use it in serve to God ie Paul. It's not an opportunity to have a child outside wedlock or an avenue to sleep around. St Paul was able to do exploits for God because he was single, he sees marriage as been complex so he chose a simpler life.

Don't get me wrong dear, i totally get your point. You are on the right track, but i just want you to create room for the celibates.