I did security job for 4 years and I know about all these your experiences and even more, from my experience elderly people and rich people use to respect security men a lot but most young people especially girls have little or no regards for security men.. I'll encourage you to continue the job for now and set a target for yourself, set a target that by this time next year or next 2 years you must quit no matter the odds, try and save something even though I know it's difficult to save because of the very poor salary.. I can tell you that there's hardly any happy security man out there, we were 6 guys then working together that year but none of us was happy with the job, because of things like this and the poor salary.. I know the insults I received as a security guard and the stigmatisation but I just looked back now and laugh over those moments, they are like fun to me now.. I learnt patience and endurance from the job.. Remember set a target for yourself.

Although I have a very strong immune system but I will go for the std test.. thanks for the advice �

hmm thanks for the positive comments.. You all saying I must be a cheap guy for ur info I'm not cheap this is my friend not a random stranger.

It's a long story but I will make it short, pls don't mind my ... There's this good female friend of mine in my department, we are close friends and she even helped me to squat my girlfriend in 2nd year but I noticed this girl was giving me serious green light cuz she always visited me in my hostel and brought food sometimes, so she visited me one day and before I could say jack she was on my bed already. After eating the food she brought I joined her on the bed and we started watching a movie on my laptop, one thing lead to another and before I knew it we were involved in deep romance... Some weeks past and my girlfriend started complaining that my friend was picking up issues with her over little things, so I beg her to endure that it's just for a while, she'll be out of there soon.. I knew my friend was now getting jealous of my girlfriend cuz me.. Few days later my friend visited me again in my hostel another round of serious romance happened and it was very intense but just romance.. Now some days past and my main girlfriend travel home for about a week and my friend that was squatting her called me to come and sleep over that she was feeling lonely in her room, I knew the caretaker don't allow guys to sleep over there, I reminded her but she insisted I shouldn't worry about the caretaker.. So I went to her lodge ready cuz I know something may happen, she sneaked me into her room and gave me very delicious fried rice she prepared after eating we played pes game with her laptop and I retired to bed, few minutes later she joined me in her bed and started forming cold so I held her tight and before I knew it we were involved in deep romance and this time sex... We literally had sex throughout the night, we finished the condoms I came with (I came ready) but my friend insisted I should fvck her without condom that she was safe.. I continue drilling the hole without condom but was careful not to cum inside her, I got very tired at a point but she begged me not to stop that I should put it inside her, I fvck her till day break.. In the morning she gave me food after eating I drilled the hole one more time before she sneaked me out of her lodge.... Now after a week my friend texted me that I'm a bad friend, she always respected me but I nearly raped her in my hostel, she invited me to her room and I ended up fvcking her and had it been she was a virgin I would have disvirgin her, that she's mad at me and very angry and she don't want my girlfriend to stay with her again... Now my question is why are girls like this?
Note I never tried to rape her at any point but she's now forming victim... Somebody that was begging me to drill the hole non stop, gave me doggy style, ride on top of me all night long is now telling me she's mad at me, disappointed and don't want my girlfriend to stay with her again... Girls why una de form victim like this?