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shortgun:
First off,there's no demon anywhere making you have an erection when you see a lady you are attracted to.
It's all natural and biological.

Okay sir
I don’t want the attraction
How can i kill the attraction

Good evening all,
I have an issue here and I need matured advise please.
I have been celibate for 2 years now and trying to improve my spiritual life being a Christian
Now last month
One thing let to another I was left alone at the staff quarters with a female staff as the others left for Valentine’s Day and we had sex..
I regretted and decided to move on
But ever since that day
1) I’ve not been able to pray or study the word of God
Like it’s not enough self
Seeing this lady at work keeps making me get attracted to her more and more
I’ve tried to pickup unnecessary fight, I’ve been sincere to her that we can’t be doing this and have to stop talking to each other but 2 hours later we are back to square one
It’s beggining to affect my productivity like I feel a part of me is no longer there.
N.B we’ve not had sex since that day but it’s not because we don’t want to but because we don’t have the time anymore and opportunity
Please how do I stop and break free from this mess I’ve gotten myself into
If I pray I feel like I’m wasting my time because my conscience keeps judging me

The worst part is that when we talk we begin to talk about how attracted we are to each other but I know it’s the devils hand work and he is laughing at me now
Please how do I stop this situationship before it’s too late
If we didn’t have sex and we were close like this I wouldn’t mind
Thank you

ACGPN:
are you a graduate and where are you located?

Yes I am a graduate


Asaba

Good morning all
So I work as a resturant manager awaiting nysc
Pay + incentives in a month is 90
I share a room with 4 other guys
And work from 6:30 to 11pm everyday except Wednesdays

Lately I feel like I’m wasting my time here
I want to go and squat with an elder brother and learn painting from there for the next 3 months
At least that is a survival skill that can help me anywhere and anytime while I learn other things because I’m educated at the same time


Is this a good decision abeg