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Demolition next

peetay:
Alas, my friend from afar, the worst is over isnt it. I suppose you have navigated the waters succesfully. It hurt at first but you must have healed, or very much on the path of healing by now. Develop a strong persona and keep respecting your space. Do not be his copycat at work with regards his approach to the ladies. Outside the workplace is a different ball game altogether.

If you do need any further help in developing a more extroverted personality drop me a mail. I will ask a few questions and develop a tailor made program for you. This isnt a one-size-fits-all thing: apparently we dont belong to the same behavioural type. But i must admit that you have held yourself together quite admirably.

I really need the life of confidently approaching and communicating with girls.

I have a market customer who sidelined me because of my naivete. She called yesterday and I didn't pick because I lack what to respond.

Although, I know she called to inquire if I will be needing her product but deep down, I know she wants me just that I've not been bold enough.

I took her out on vals day and then screw things a bit.

We quarreled the next week and after six weeks, she reached out to me yet, our conversation or communication has been dead

I've sent u a mail.

Beremx:
Wike and his demons will not allow Gov Fubara to work. Make dem leave the man na! How will he concentrate on his job if he's been attacked politically?

Haaa!! Na wa o!

I told a friend supporting Fubara that the governor will spend all his first tenure fighting Wike and may still lose.

He will not have peace and that is why he should have relaxed a bit before thinking of the fight.

Well, he's playing well to keep Wike on his toes.

Wisdomkosi:
If you kn@ck a girl finish and she said am sorry for doing this to you. Abeg wetin she mean?

Just go hospital for hiv exposure drugs. I heard after the third day, u are doomed.

Wittyglam:
Most times it feels good to be complimented by your spouse. Those simple things matter. My husband looks good for me and I do for my husband too, there are some hairstyles my husband will request I make and I do them for him. It's very simple.

My female friend made her hair. She told me that her husband was over happy with her new look and was praising her. I asked her if the husband is aware that she made that hair for another guy?

sow4me:
Bro, u shld make new friends.
Lagos right?

No, East.

That's his business.

oluwaahmed:
Stop talking like a child! Constitutionally those assembly members lost their seat the moment they decamped to APC. so they can't impeach him that was their Bleep up. They should have stayed in PDP then impeach his ass.
Section 109 of the Constitution provides,thus:

(1) A member of a House of Assembly shall vacate his seat in the House if:

g) Being a person whose election to the House of Assembly was sponsored by a political party, he becomes a member of any other political party before the expiration of the period for which that House was elected: Provided that his membership of the latter political party is not as a result of a division in the political party of which he was previously a member or of a merger of two or more political parties or factions by one of which he was previously sponsored;

They stated their course of defection, "Secretary position of the national party." Now, the pdp is the only body to tell the court that their was no issue in the party in regard with the position.

Anyways, let's wait and see.

Moseshasss:
If kicking FABURA out was that simple they would have done it since... They won't even mention it...
The Lawmakers knows there own defection can be challenged too.. And it's obvious they know what will happen..

They also have skeleton 💀 in their cupboard..

I believe that they are waiting for PDP new excos. Those are the people to take the lawmakers to court. If they don't, no body can touch the lawmakers.

Inside life

The feeling

sow4me:
Bro, u shld make new friends.
Lagos right?

Don't you think learning OT is the best?

I have few friends, both male and female but bantering has kept us apart.

Am not good at winning someone and I feel weak and let things go easily.

A lady I had few calls with just told me to stop calling because the discussion is not going anywhere.

I think I need ot instead of friends.

Celplas1010:
Don't feel like replying u, but...
Let me speak from experience. I was in your shoe, but u know what saves me, "street ot".
Now, if am to advise you, don't chase her away nor run away from her. Because if u do, believe me, u're hurting urself. Still be friend with her. Once a while, go to her office, laugh and joke with her, maybe once a day. Don't show any sign that u are jealous or angry with her, no. Flow with her but, never again raise any friendship or visiting talk with her. Even when she calls u my boyfriend, don't rebuke her for calling u my boyfriend. Give her time,she will come back to you.
Also, most guys are diabolic. Outside been smart, most guys uses charm on ladies.
Secondly, don't date in where u are working. Have a dignity. Don't loose your respect or dignity just because of "Nigeria girls" that has no value.
Lastly, the quickest way to die is to sleep with married women. the advice I gave u above is for future purpose Incase u find ur self in such scenario again and not for married women

I won't go to her office again. Why would I?

I just left her for herself and the guy. That's what she wanted by avoiding me.

I've been heart broken for years with different girls.

How I wish say I get OT, that guy girl is throwing herself on me, probably as his guy is all over other girls.

The guy was smart enough to isolate the girl from other girls. I however pulled her out of the isolation by asking her to mingle with staffs. I am currently her go to person but the issue na OT, and that's all my 99.9 % problem.

skj1377:
What is wrong with you oga?? Can't you date a single girl. You guys don't have much doing in your Government job.

These single girls, I no understand them. Them no want reason my matter at all.

This lady and I were just friends o before. Although she dey always call me my love, plus we are always seen together outside for shopping and all that people mistake her to be my wife it was never my intention to strike because she's someone's wife.

Although, i was pained that she left but my anger stemmed from her trying to engage me on errands that she wouldn't before.

Well, I've completely ignored her and for now, we are not in talking terms. If I need anything for the job, I just request and leave.

It's going to hurt gravely but am well prepared.

fabulous85:
it is because she has alot to loose that's why she respects him more than you. He definitely slept with her or something close to that.

Most definitely, he has banged her. I believe that the come she told me that she's coming to my house was a hint that she'll be seeing that guy because they were both on off duty that day.

Thanks for your input.

PaaRichie5:
You have said it all. The guy has given you a timely lesson on the sexual behaviour of ladies. The ladies deem him superior to you. Your lady friend puts him above you and her husband. Do you know why? Because she has something to lose if this guy walks out of her life. Unfortunately it's not the same scenario for you. The role she wanted you to play from the start has been filled by this new guy. So beyond some few semantics here and there you are disposable in her eyes for now. She is just trying to be nice with her words.

Keep off the ladies at you workplace like you said. Going after them will make you look weak. They are his leftovers and are still drooling over him. You cannot be his backup option Sir. It's not that hard. Set your boundaries, be nice to them but keep off on the extracurricular aspect.

The funny thing is that you will get the lady on a silver platter las las. She is going to get heartbroken by the guy. The signs are clearly on the wall. And whose arms do you think she will ran to when the inevitable happens?Whose shoulders will she cry on. Your guess is as good as mine.

How do I move on now, almost all the whole ladies hate me so to say.

My major issue is that I can't keep communication with them in a way that will bring us closer.

I've come to realize that there are levels of communication when it comes to women.

The funniest thing is, I can't keep communication with my fellow friends, boys, for 5 minutes. Even my parents, I hardly talk with them.

I have some few female friends that I keep hanging. I did that because I don't want to ruin my chances, as in, asking them out and maybe them rejecting.

I am trying to learn this guys game but don't know how to start. As in, before he even ask you out, he has already weaken your mind.

He can discuss with ladies for hours and I am surprised how he does that. Only that keeps the girls hooked to him.

Please help me,

How do I move on and be comfortable with women and men alike.

luminouz:
Lol...

It's the alpha fucker that I am here for.

Dude is repping the redpill well. He understands women. But you....I don't have words for this shiit you typed

I tell you.

Ha, what da f*ck, the guy is damn good.

PaaRichie5:
You are still not over her? It has been days now. It's obvious the other guy has won the race. And I very much believe from your previous write ups that he has tasted the cookie already. So why are you doing this to yourself. Man up Sir. Or you do still want to hit it?

What exactly do you want now. Because you seem to be in different minds at different times. Just let it go. The lady wanted more than friendship and you couldn't decode and give her. Now she is getting it elsewhere and has friend zoned you. You seem like a nice person, you deserve better than the treatment you are giving yourself now. Do the needful. You very much know what the needful is. All the best.

Although I've gotten over her but also, I was trying to cut her off completely from coming to my office unnecessarily which was making me uncomfortable, and I've achieved that yesterday.

Initially, she told me that I am chasing her from an office which I'm answerable to her, but I made her understand that she can only come when she have important issue to discuss with me, that is work related. Not to come calling me her love, boyfriend and be going to another guy to collect d*ck. And the way she respects this guy, she never did that to me nor her husband because she normally talked to her husband on phone while we were still good. In fact, I had to be counseling her.

That guy, I can't really tell. He has gain control of all the ladies, that I currently have zero chance at anyone in that place.

For now, I've washed my hands off any lady there.

The ones that he has struck always feel heart broken when they see him with the next target and some will be on their desk crying.

Yesterday got me shocked, how girls who were forming for me would be dragging on visiting him in his house.

So, they know he has slept with lots of them and the remaining ones still want to give in.

Maysdevices:
Now you know how women feel

You don’t even need to take a shot on a man, many are cheaper than Oxygen

Oh, that justified your cheating right?

It's okay.

hooklover:
Guy u slack oh . U gey free toto.wen i meet them i dont ask much question. I go syrsight to d point .
Ser u knack hrr u will realise u no love her .

Yeah, I know that i slacked, but i never wanted to do anything with a married woman before now.

How I'm pained is even surprising to me.

I mean, the guy took all the single girls and I wasn't mad.

They have started Jega stuff against Jonathan on Tinubu.

Women can't be predicted, you wouldn't know where you went wrong.

These days, it's as if a shot on any woman and she'll fall for it.

Things has not been good but I've tried to let it be. I gave her a WhatsApp message telling her that I have backed out. She came to my office to beg. I decided we could be just friends we were with no strings.
On Thursday, she asked what time am I to resume work the next day, I told her 10am, and she promised to come see me in my house. I never invited her o, it was her own decision but unfortunately, she never came.

I believe it's a decoded message to let me she'll be going to see the other guy, I can't if am right though.

I have therefore taken the decision of telling her to stop flirting me. If she refused, I'll threaten to report her to her husband.

She should stick with the new guy while I heal.

She's not accepting me and won't let me be.

When I tried playing with some girls she became angry with red eyes yet, give some much respect to that guy more that me.

I know am overreacting, but this is my plan now.

Well, I don't know if this will actually go down well for me.

They know their lane.

Machines are not to be trusted.

Loyalty is not good but then, be ready for the dirty.

Therock5555:
I don tell you wetin to do, no dey disturb my mentions biko...

Today na new month, I dey Holy...🧘🧘🧘

It's okay, Holy Man.

Therock5555:
I am a full blown introvert too.

Always have been, always will be.

But that doesn't stop me from getting what I want, when I want.

I could be in a room and no one would know I exist but the moment I choose to speak, you'll be wondering why I did not say anything all this while.

So the fact that you're an introvert should even endear folks to you cause they can't predict your next course of action.

Be sneaky like a snake and be wise like a fox.

Shebi I said I won't even advice you for free again, ahhh. Lemme pause here with one useful advice, if you don't Gerrit, then forget abourrit.


Go Dark Mode on your Manager, if you don't understand, put your phone on dark mode and see something, if you still don't understand, come and pay lemme teach you more.


😂😂😂😂😂

How I wish I can practice and learn this game bro. I am running emotionally mad, jeez.

I never knew I liked this woman so much.

She's stopped coming close to me and we've been having this cold war.

She sent me an errand and I told her that I won't do it. She on the other hand has refused to do it.

I am down, very down emotionally.

Even when I was knocking last night, it was her face that I was seeing.

I talked to a friend about it and he said I should let her go. I am willing to let her go, and also, planning to learn the game.

It's a mixture of trauma and fun 😆.

maasoap:
May be you should move close to him, be his friend so that you will be able to learn one's or two tricks about how to win the hearts of women because you clearly need the lesson. It is not easy being an introvert looking for a woman to date

I was thinking in that direction too.

Therock5555:
Bro talk true, you're still a virgin right?


Cause I'm not gonna be wasting my advice anyhow, abi na because na free, maybe if you pay for it, you'll be more serious.


My number dey my siggy, if you go pay for maximum advice, enter my WhatsApp or forever hold your lame peace....


You bitch about everything, like remain make them put feeding bottle for your mouth ....

I'm no virgin bro. Just fear and I don't know why.

I lack self expression and also can't keep up with discussion.

I grew up as introvert and not knowing what to say at any point in time.

At times, when the event has happened, then, I will know a better response.

This afternoon, she came to work, she didn't come to my office, next thing I heard was Eric my boyfriend, Eric my boyfriend, where are you.

I was like what is this lady playing with me. I went to her office, I met her assistant, they share sane space. She has been on leave and resumed this morning.

I asked her why the shouting, she looked at me and her assistant. Few minutes later the assistant left for documentations.

I tried kissing her but she turned her cheek to me.

I told her to come to my place, she said no, that it won't work. I told her that we should try first, she repeated no.

I still persist then she asked if I deliver a baby that she'll come to my house?

I told her that I've been to her house, that she should come and know mine. She repeatedly said no.

I paused when I noticed her assistant is coming.

Therock5555:
See this man, I dey tell you something, you dey zuzu yourself, who cares if you've bleeped up or not.

You think if that guy was scared of what they'll think, you think he'll have bedded enough ladies in that office?

Them no dey follow women with gentility, the more ruder you are to a woman, the more she'll yearn for you.


If you had hiss when she shouted at you, go lock the door and come back, ask her to repeat that statement or you'll press her breast, you'll have been shocked at her reaction.


Right now you're a bitch ass niqqa so you deserve what you get, next time when you know what you want, you go for it, if it fails, you chill, BTW what's the worse that can happen, she won't slap you.


I went for something in Abuja last week, left my phone with my chick for there, she went through my phone, found out that I'm banging her best friend, she was livid but she couldn't even tell me anything, she just kept saying I've wronged her.

Na she still cook throughout, I still drill her mercilessly throughout the night. It was until I came back to base before she opened up to me and I still para tire for her for intruding my privacy, na she come dey apologize join.

Right now I put her for two weeks suspension for crime wey na me commit.

If you dunno, you'll never know.

This thing is not easy.

I've tried talking her to visiting my house but she's scared.

I don't even know what to say to her anymore.

ashawopikin:
Do u want to fùck her or not? Just imagine if she is your wife

Up till this minute, I can't muster the courage again. She has been on my office like thrice and we even went out to buy popcorn together. I haven't done a married woman before but she initiated all this.

Therock5555:
I'm gonna say this shit once and hold my peace.

Firstly I won't advice you touching another man's wife but if you choose to go the long way, here's what you do.

The woman is already at her lowest point, even though she's a fool for abusing her marriage.

And you're a bigger fool for encouraging her..


Anyway, the situation is simple, she still has some feelings for you, so grab your share before you lose again.

Easy peasy, when she turn up at your office, ask her to lock the door behind her, if she's game, she'll code and follow suit, if she isn't, she'll back out immediately or do otherwise.


From there unplug that damn CCTV, then ask her to sit, comot your gbola give her make she suck, don't even say a word to her, if she's game, she'll do accordingly.

If she isn't, she'll never take you for a fool again. At least she'll know nobody bleeps around.


BTW don't Bleep her in your office, just collect BJ and zip up, tell her if she wants the D, make she come find you for house.



All in all, God will punish you as you dey drag another man wife....

That lady is not into me again I swear. As e dey now, I no dey for her mind again oooo. Na patch we dey patch our friendship now.

Just imagine, I went to ask her if I should draft a memo about a meeting with our client next month in lag.

The way she shouted at me eh, I just returned it back to her immediately and then, left her office.

20 mins later, she came to my office begging me to forgive her.

Like I said earlier, I have lost it and that's it. I am no longer pushing her further.

I know it will hurt me real bad, it will hurt her too and many people.

First girl the guy knack came to work today and they both loved up.

I have already told the manager my mind and I won't be a hanger.

Even if she gives her puosy to the guy, it will hurt her when the first girl starts loving up again.

It will hurt me, I am applying his tactics on other banies though I'm not yet effective, I know I will pull off eventually.

My issue is going out to meet new girls. Too much work to do in the office, my personal project and now flirting project.

I just have to start somewhere in life sha.