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PoliticsWe Have Mastered The Art Of Complaining About Nigeria by Marmalata(op): 3:51pm On Jun 18
We have perfected the art of letting our problems become our crutch. The posts that get the top upvotes or views and most engagements are the ones highlighting yet another issue in Nigeria. And the comments are usually a rant-fest, reiterating despair, despondence and desolation. Any post focused on forward-looking solutions is either met with low engagements, nitpicking about how the solution is doomed to fail, or diversionary commentary on religion, tribe and all the other elements of our identity in a manner that divides rather than unites.

I want to say this here once and for all. I’m closing in on 40 years on this earth, 99% of which has been spent in diverse corners of this nation called Nigeria. And I will make this categorical fact: we overestimate the role of ethnicity and religion when we are discussing issues. Our ethnicity and religion are nothing but tools used by selfish leadership at multiple times in history to stoke the flames of division for their own personal gain. The country is not bad because Muslims are in government or Northerners have majority seats. Every tribe and religion permutation has had their shot - at the big seat in the federal tier, and in smaller seats at state tiers, and no single combination has emerged as a winning hand. So it’s small-minded, low-brained, short-sighted, to think one ethnicity or religion can deliver a silver bullet fix. I’m saying this upfront because I’m fed up to my throat with self-righteous commentary on how one section has ruined the country. Miss me with that mess: our national failure has been one collaborative group project. We must get into the habit of elevating the conversation beyond ethnicity and religion and looking to the broader issues.

The first step to escaping the shackles of paralysis brought about by a problem-centric perspective about Nigeria is identifying the signal from the noise. As painful and as frightening and as disorientating and as dismal our current situation looks now, we have to look beyond them and recognize the patterns at play, the forces at work. As we say, “Eye wey dey cry must see road”. There are 5 truths - some very uncomfortable that our immediate reaction to them will be to resist them - that history and observed trends tell us clearly about where we are:

1. ⁠Our resource-rich nature has layered on a complexity that we have to contend with. Due to our natural resources, interference from forces external and internal in the process of national development has occurred at several times in our national journey. The so-what in this fact means when we are designing for the future, we must bear in mind the interfering interferences as a constraint and build solutions where we win in spite of them.
2. ⁠Nigeria is better United than apart. Many don’t want to admit it, but this is backed by the facts:

a. No region has a track record of sustainable, resilient development outside of the core. “If e didn’t dey e didn’t dey”. No one will become an automatic leader and astute manager of regional resources overnight if they don’t have the capacity to do it now. What will end up is a litter of failed impoverished states.

b. No nation in the African region has executed a split that ended up with new nations better off than the old. We don’t have a precedence for this. And we don’t have a system to learn from the European success stories. So why bother?

Separation is a big gamble - it could go well or worse, but the probability for the latter is higher. We are better off developing regional leadership skills while still one nation, and once this has been affirmed and demonstrated we can call for a referendum. But not before then.

4. The transformation we want to see is a team effort - both leaders and citizens must get involved. We have formed a habit of gathering energy to vote every 4 years and then sitting back to commend or condemn the leaders actions. This isn’t sustainable. We must build civic structures to get more involved. Use the little power we have available to call on our local representatives - senators, house of rep members, local govt chairman - when something isn’t going right, ask for their plans to fix, and follow through till it gets fixed. We must organize to work in numbers - mass emails, mass phone calls, mass texts, mass tweets - so that these elected leaders do not rest or sit easy until problems get fixed. Waiting for NGOs, civil society organizations or international bodies is a passive approach that hasn’t got us far.

5. Emotional outrage is not a strategy. When unpleasant news breaks, the nation has formed a habit of an immediate outburst of emotions: crying, screaming, cursing and insulting politicians, attacking celebrities that aren’t saying what we want to hear. And after 5 days, we move on. Our politicians know this and have gotten used to doing what they want, since all we’ll do is cry and keep quiet. We need to change this tactic. Save your energy from emotional outrage and channel it into a persistent course of action of putting your leaders under pressure to do the right thing.

I wanted to start a conversation on how we move from problem-centric to solution-centric discussions about this country. Because while we wait and rant and lament, time is passing us by. Things that could have been easily fixed 5 years ago have become more complex to fix. We don’t have the luxury of time, or tutting about bad leaders, or looking the other way. Our children will ask us what we did. Our grandchildren will ask us. Let’s anticipate those future conversations and make sure they do not end up being moments of shame and regret. Of reflections of time and energy squandered doing nothing while the nation suffered.
PoliticsWhat Is It With Nigerians And Our Penchant For Self-hatred? by Marmalata(op): 9:09am On Jun 09
The same pattern rears its head everywhere – social media, group chats, comment sections, real life. We have an almost rehearsed tendency to tear ourselves apart, and it shows up in ways that should embarrass us more than they do. I’m not talking about healthy criticism or accountability, but a reflexive self-sabotage that kicks in the moment we should be closing ranks. Three examples:

First: we fight each other and leave the actual oppressors alone. Open any political post on Nigerian social media and count how many replies it takes before two or three people have abandoned the original topic entirely and descended into personal insults, ethnic slurs, or religious mud-slinging. Someone raises a point about infrastructure decay, and within six comments it’s “your tribe caused this” or “people like you are the problem.” The inability to sustain a single conversation about transforming this country – without fragmenting into tribal, religious, and ideological warfare – is staggering. We reserve our sharpest words for fellow citizens recommending a course of action we disagree with, while the people actually sitting on our necks barely get a side-eye.

Second: we cannot – or will not – present a united front when outsiders target us. An organization slaps a blanket ban on Nigerians because of the actions of a handful of bad actors, and instead of collectively pushing back against the laziness of that decision, we turn inward and start the blame game. “Well, it’s because Nigerians don’t behave abroad” – as if every other country on earth doesn’t have its own criminals. Every society has bad eggs; what separates most from us is that they don’t volunteer to smear themselves with the dung someone else flung at them.

Third: we echo unfavorable narratives made by outsiders instead of interrogating them. Remember when local cake picnics trended sometime last year? Multiple events across Nigeria were beautifully organized – colourful, well-coordinated, genuinely impressive. One was a mess. Guess which one foreign publications chose to amplify? And instead of Nigerians asking why a single outlier was cherry-picked to represent the whole, the dominant response was “yes o, that’s how we are.” 🤦‍♀️

We demonstrate every marking of a people who do not like themselves – and then act surprised when our government treats us as disposable, when we get singled out for discriminatory visa bans, when the international default assumption about Nigeria is negative. There’s an old adage: dress how you want to be addressed. You give others the name you want to be called, and right now we are naming ourselves with other people’s insults. If we want a better quality of existence tied to our national identity, the work starts within – in your group chats, your comment sections, your dinner table conversations. Call it out where you see it. Refuse to be the one who confirms the stereotype for applause. Because nobody is coming to defend a people who won’t even defend themselves.
Christianity EtcThe Scariest Passage In The Bible by Marmalata(op): 12:46am On May 26
The scariest passage in the Bible is - in my opinion - Ezekiel 14. And what makes it particularly terrifying is how few Christians even know what that passage says, and the warning buried in it.

(If you are comfortable with Christianity-lite - the surface-level, don't-rock-the-boat, feel-good kind - stop reading now. But if you are thirsty for the truly sold-out Christian existence, and need real answers to the glaring inconsistencies you've observed in the Christian profession and experience, keep reading.)

In the first part of Ezekiel 14 (verses 1 through 11), we see God in an unfamiliar role. Not as Healer, Provider or Lifter of your head. But as the One who sets a trap for the hypocrite.

This is the summary of the warning in Ezekiel 14: do not exalt something else in place of God and still claim that God is Lord in your life. Don't set up idols in your heart - ambitions, desires, people, agendas - and then walk up to the altar asking God to bless what He didn't sanction. And most importantly - this is the part that should shake every one of us - do not reduce God to the role of a fortune teller. Don't come to Him solely to get "a word" on whether that job will come through, whether that man is your husband, whether that contract will land. That's not worship. That's consultation. And Ezekiel 14 draws a sharp line between the two.

Let's get practical, because this is a scenario anyone that has spent enough time in Christian community would have encountered. It's troubling enough that many don't even admit it openly. A young Christian woman sets her eyes on a dashing young man. She desires him as a husband. She prays about it. She even has dreams - vivid ones - of the wedding. She goes to a prophet and receives confirmation: "Yes sister, it's that brother." But the brother ends up getting married to someone else. Happily, even. And the young woman is left confused, devastated, wondering why every signal - including the spiritual ones - misled her.

Similar scenarios play out for other desires: wives, jobs, houses, promotions. A Christian desires it, prays fervently for it, receives spiritual confirmations they will get it, but somehow their expectations fail. And the fallout is ugly - some lose their faith, some blame God, some quietly nurse bitterness for years.

Ezekiel 14 provides a hint as to why some of those occurrences happen. And the hint is not comfortable.

The passage reveals that when a person sets up idols in their heart - when a desire has become so consuming that it sits on the throne meant for God alone - and that person still comes to inquire of the Lord, God says He will answer that person Himself. But the answer will be according to the multitude of their idols. In other words: God gives them over to the very thing they've elevated above Him. He lets the idol answer. He lets the deception run its course.

If you ask me, I think that is terrifying. And it should be a big wake-up call.

This brings us face to face with the urgency of the line in the Lord's Prayer: "Thy will be done." It's not a mere platitude. It is the state of a heart that has reckoned with this truth: the whole of the aspiration in the heart of a Christian must be seeing God's will done. Every other ambition or desire is a distant second.

This reckoning can come as a shock, because modern Christianity has done a masterful job of deprioritizing our posture as bondservants of God and soldiers of the Kingdom - roles that indicate a complete reconfiguration of how we carry ourselves - and keeping us fixated on our wants, our needs, our desires, and how God is the Divine Genie that can make them all happen exactly as we want it. Ezekiel 14 shows us that position is biblically unsustainable. And it can land us in big trouble if we don't course-correct.

But someone might ask: where does this leave the modern Christian? Aren't we supposed to have aspirations? Ambitions? Can we not bring those to God in prayer? Yes - we can have these, and we should make a practice of committing them to God in prayer. "Commit thy works unto the LORD, and thy thoughts shall be established" (Proverbs 16:3). But we must have it settled at the back of our minds that these ambitions - as desirable as they are - remain secondary in priority to what God would have us do. They are requests, not demands. Suggestions to a King, not instructions to a servant. There's a difference between presenting your desires to God with an open hand, and clutching them so tightly that if God says no, your faith crumbles.

And then there's the arguably weightier question: what about the desires that aren't about wants but genuine needs? Healing. Provision. Deliverance. Protection. These are not luxuries - and there is clear scriptural basis for bringing these before God. He is Jehovah Rapha, the God that heals. He is El-Shaddai, the God that supplies. He is our Rock, our Fortress, our Deliverer (Psalm 18:2). He invites us to cast our cares upon Him. The issue Ezekiel 14 addresses is not whether we should bring our needs to God - it's what sits on the throne of our hearts when we do. Is it the need? Or is it the God who meets the need?

Here's where the rubber meets the road. We have been called into a Kingdom. And a soldier on active duty - Paul's exact analogy - "does not entangle himself with the affairs of this life, so that he may please the one who enlisted him" (2 Timothy 2:4). That doesn't mean soldiers have no personal lives. It means their personal lives are subordinated to the mission. The mission, the Commander's orders, come first. And when personal ambition conflicts with the mission, the mission wins every time.

The stakes are high. We are ambassadors of God, called to shine a light in a dark world that desperately needs to see what God looks like. That's why we can't go rogue. We can't stay nurturing ambition that erodes - instead of enhances - kingdom value. We can't carry the name of Christ and live as though the name carries no weight, no responsibility, no posture.

This is what being a vessel of honour looks like: a life surrendered, aligned, calibrated to the will of the One who called us. Not a life void of desire, but a life where desire bows to a higher authority. Where "Thy will be done" is not just what we say before meals, but what we mean before decisions.

Ezekiel 14 shows us the alternative. What a vessel of dishonour looks like. A person who carries the title of Christian but whose heart is a marketplace of competing idols. A person who comes to God not to worship but to use. And a God who - in His justice - answers them according to the very idols they refuse to lay down.

Don't let that be your story. Search your heart. Ask yourself honestly: what sits on the throne? Is it God, or is it the thing you've been asking God for? Because Ezekiel 14 tells us that God can tell the difference.

"Thy will be done" is not a prayer of resignation. It's a prayer of realignment. It's the most costly yet most liberating prayer a Christian can pray. And it might just be the one that saves us from the stumbling block.

Pray this with sincerity:

Heavenly Father, I come before You with an honest heart. Search me, O God, and know my heart. Try me, and know my thoughts. Show me the idols I have set up - the desires I have elevated to the place only You should occupy. Forgive me for reducing You to a means to my ends. Forgive me for consulting You like a fortune teller instead of worshipping You as my King. Recalibrate my heart, Lord. Let "Thy will be done" move from my lips to my life. I surrender my ambitions, my desires, my plans - and I ask that Your will alone be done in me and through me. In Jesus' name. Amen.
Christianity Etc7 Ways To Experience God In The Psalms by Marmalata(op): 10:54am On May 04
The book of Psalms is usually the go-to for selecting nice inspirational quotes from the Bible. However there's a bigger story that weaves the 150 chapters of the largest book in the Bible together.

Psalms reveals to us 7 ways to Experience God:
1. Emotional Support
2. Empowerment (for exploits)
3. Enjoyment
4. Edification
5. Escape from troubles
6. Expressions in nature
7. Expectation of completion

Get ready for an adventure in Experiencing God through the Psalms - I trust it blesses you in one way or another. Let's know in the comments which of the 7 ways resonated with you the most today!

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Christianity EtcRe: Why Is The Mark Of The End Times Called The Mark Of The Beast? by Marmalata(op): 11:44am On Feb 28
Truthseeker10:
Where does the Bible teach that man is seperated into body, spirit and soul?
I don’t believe it teaches this explicitly. But there are mentions of man having a body (1 Corinthians 15:44), becoming a soul (Genesis 2:7), and a spirit (Proverbs 20:27). These are just a few references out of many
Christianity EtcRe: Why Is The Mark Of The End Times Called The Mark Of The Beast? by Marmalata(op): 12:12pm On Feb 25
MaxInDHouse:
That is what most people think but Jesus disagree with such ideas he taught us to pray for God's Kingdom to come.
Why?
Because that's the only way God's will can fully take place on planet earth just as it is in heaven! Matthew 6:10
God's word made it clear to us that human government is the root cause of all mankind's problems {Ecclesiastes 4:1; 8:9} but the Jews in Jesus' day were thinking they can liberate themselves either by force or miracles so they were anticipating a time when Jesus will either lead them to war against their oppressors or use his supernatural powers to change things instead Jesus told faithful ones among them that the time given to human governments has not ended yet {Luke 21:24} so they have to endure to the end for them to be saved! Matthew 24:13
Please don't get me wrong, no faithful servant of God is happy with the situation of things but there is nothing we can do to change things until God's Kingdom comes!
Human government was created by humans. So we are still saying the same thing
Christianity EtcRe: Why Is The Mark Of The End Times Called The Mark Of The Beast? by Marmalata(op): 11:11pm On Feb 23
MaxInDHouse:
The beast is human government so the mark is political affiliation, you must belong to go into big business that is if you never inherit wealth from your ancestors.
Today the beast is curbing all those who are not born with silver spoon making them slaves to those who have received the mark so if you didn't inherit a big business venture from your parents you can't enter the club of big business men and women it's either you continue to manage the investment your ancestors left for you which will gradually diminish if you refuse to accept the mark of the Beast!
Unfortunately this way of thinking is the error that keeps us externalizing the root of our problems, instead of looking inwards. The threat of the beast within overtaking us and making us slaves to our own will and selfish desires is worse than what any human government can do.
Christianity EtcWhy Is The Mark Of The End Times Called The Mark Of The Beast? by Marmalata(op):
There is a question embedded in the apocalyptic text of Revelation 13 that most of us have walked past without stopping to examine - and the answer to it changes everything about how we understand the Christian life.

Why is the end-time mark called the Mark of the Beast?

The answer - when we search for it in the Bible - reveals one of the most sobering facts to exist in history and a point of deep reflection for everyone that identifies as a Christian.

What does "Beast" actually code for in Scripture?
The Bible does not use the word "beast" as just a zoological category. Across both Testaments, it is deployed as a theological mirror: a portrait of what a human being looks like when they have abandoned the God-breathed dimension of their existence. When we look closely at the metaphorical references of beast in the Bible, we see it's not just a description of animals: it is a warning to humans.

Don’t take my word for it - let the text speak for itself.

“When my heart was grieved and my spirit embittered, I was senseless and ignorant; I was a brute beast before you.” - Psalm 73:21-22 (NIV)
The Psalmist - a worshipper - is confessing that his own condition, in a season of bitterness and self-pity, was that of a brute beast. The beast was not something outside him. It was him. A state of grieved heart, embittered spirit, horizontal thinking, no transcendence.

”I said in my heart with regard to the children of man that God is testing them that they may see that they themselves are but beasts.” - Ecclesiastes 3:18 (ESV)
King Solomon is blunt to the point of being brutal. The test God is running on humanity is precisely this: will you live as image-bearers, reaching toward what is above - or will you collapse into the horizontal life of appetite and self? Stripped of the upward pursuit, we are but beasts.

“A man who is in honor, yet does not understand, Is like the beasts that perish.” - Psalm 49:20 (NKJV)
Psalm 49:20 delivers perhaps the starkest verdict of all. The Hebrew word translated "understanding" here is בִּין (bin) - not merely intellectual knowledge, but the capacity to perceive what is truly real, to comprehend one's own creaturely dependence on God. To have everything the world considers success - wealth, influence, comfort - and yet lack that upward orientation toward God, is to have achieved nothing more than a well-fed animal. Abundance without God-consciousness is not elevation. It is the most elaborately decorated form of the beastly life.

The beast is the scriptural metaphor for unredeemed man - flesh untempered by Spirit, appetite unsubmitted to God, ego unchastened by the Cross.
Now let’s go back to the number of the beast in the book of Revelation:

“This calls for wisdom: let anyone with understanding calculate the number of the beast, for it is the number of a person. Its number is six hundred sixty-six.” - Revelation 13:18 (NRSV)
The Greek word used here is ἀνθρώπου (anthrōpou) - the genitive of anthrōpos. Not "a specific man." Not "this man." Man. Humanity in the categorical sense. The number of the beast is, by the text's own declaration, a human number.

Some scholars have noted that in biblical numerology, seven represents divine perfection and completion. Six falls short of seven. Triple six - 666 - has been read by some as the number of man in his threefold constitution: body, soul, and spirit - the whole human person, fully expressed, but operating entirely apart from God. Humanity at its own centre. Unredeemed humanity at full capacity. Man with the crown on, and God nowhere in the room.


Now herein lies the uncomfortable diagnosis. Modern Christianity has become extraordinarily skilled at identifying external enemies. Our prayer meetings bristle with warfare language. We bind principalities. We rebuke territorial spirits. And that warfare is real - we are not dismissing it for a moment. But notice where Jesus begins when He issues the call to discipleship.

“Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me.” - Matthew 16:24 (NIV)
Not "deny the devil first." Deny yourself. This battle line runs through the interior of the human person - through the will, the appetite, the emotions, the ego, the agenda. The cross is pressed against the chest before it is raised against the darkness outside.

Paul knew this terrain intimately.

“The flesh desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the flesh. They are in conflict with each other, so that you are not to do whatever you want.” - Galatians 5:17 (NIV)
"So that you are not to do whatever you want." Unfortunately we are quietly building a Christianity that is deeply uncomfortable with those seven words.

Think about how we pray. We arrive with lists. Long lists. Cars, promotions, houses, relationships, business breakthroughs. Nothing on those lists is inherently wrong - God is a generous Father who delights to give good gifts (Matthew 7:11). But Jesus, in teaching us to pray, placed Your kingdom come, Your will be done before Give us this day our daily bread. The posture of prayer is first surrender, then petition.

When we invert that order - when we come to God as a wish-granter rather than a Father whose will we have submitted to - we are not praying. We are negotiating with divinity on the beast's terms: What can I get? What will satisfy me? What do I want?

“Seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.” - Matthew 6:33 (NIV)
And this goes deeper than prayer lists. It reaches into how we handle Scripture itself. We have refined the art of theological selectivity - reading the Bible as a buffet, taking what flatters our preferred self-image and quietly setting aside what disturbs it. Passages on grace: warmly embraced. Passages on repentance, holiness, radical generosity, self-denial, the fear of God: "reinterpreted" through the lens of our comfort.

“Shall what is formed say to the one who formed it, "You did not make me"? Can the pot say to the potter, "You know nothing"?” - Isaiah 29:16 (NIV)
When you position your personal comfort as the standard by which Scripture is measured, you have made an idol. And the idol is yourself. A well-read beast, quoting Scripture in defence of its appetites, is still a beast.

“For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world.” - 1 John 2:16 (KJV)
And this is a secondary reason why it’s dangerous as Christians to lean more into what we want than what God wants. Notice John does not say these things come from the devil. He says they are “of the world” - the system of values generated by unredeemed human nature.
Lust of the flesh: the drive toward sensory gratification, comfort, pleasure - the body as the measure of all things.
Lust of the eyes: the covetous, acquisitive gaze that always needs more.
Pride of life: the preening self-regard, the need to be admired, validated, seen.

When these drives are concretized rather than crucified - when we bring them into the house of prayer dressed in the language of faith - we have not escaped the beast. We have simply taught it to speak Christianese.

“I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses. Now choose life, so that you and your children may live.” - Deuteronomy 30:19 (NIV)
Life and death - not as abstract future destinations, but as present, daily orientations. To choose life is to choose the God-breathed dimension of our existence: the image of God within us, the Spirit, the transcendent call to communion with our Creator. To choose death is to fold back into the beast - to live by sensation, appetite, pride, and self-will, as if the breath of God were not in us.

What separates us from beasts is not just our intelligence, our culture, or our civilizations. It is the living, active relationship with the God who breathed into us and made us living soul (Genesis 2:7). When that is suppressed - traded away in small, daily, seemingly inconsequential choices - we don't just become less spiritual. We become more beastly.

This is why the Apostle Paul's language is so urgent, so unrelenting, so personal:

“I discipline my body and keep it under control, lest after preaching to others I myself should be disqualified.” - 1 Corinthians 9:27 (ESV)
And why he calls us to:

”Walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh.” - Galatians 5:16 (NIV)
The deeper point is this: the joy we are chasing in material acquisition, in validation, in comfort - is shallow and temporary. It leaks. It requires constant refilling. The prayer list answered is wonderful, but the answered prayer quickly becomes ordinary, and the hunger returns. There is, however, a joy that does not behave this way.

“For with thee is the fountain of life: in thy light shall we see light.” - Psalm 36:9 (KJV)
In His light, we see light. Not in answered prayers for things. Not in emotional experiences or worship concerts or the successful completion of a prayer challenge. In Him. In the knowing of Him. In the submission of our whole selves - body, soul, and spirit - to the God who made us for Himself. In the God whose face, when we finally see it fully, will make every appetite we ever chased seem like the shadow of a shadow.


In conclusion:

“I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses. Now choose life, so that you and your children may live.” - Deuteronomy 30:19 (NIV)

Every morning the question rises before us: which nature will we feed today? The flesh will never retire its claims. The beast within does not submit passively. But through the Cross - through daily, costly, deliberate self-denial - it can be starved. And the Spirit, the divine nature, the image of God in us, can be fed until it grows into the full stature of Christ (Ephesians 4:13).

In summary, the aim to avoid the mark of the Beast documented in Revelation is not primarily about a microchip or a barcode. It is to avoid the mark of a life lived as if God does not exist - driven by appetite, ruled by self, measuring all things by personal gain and comfort.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Customer Sues Opay, Says Account Restriction Led To Father’s Death by Marmalata: 8:26pm On Feb 12
FreeStuffsNG:
So sad. Sorry for his loss.

It will be very difficult to prove if the progression of the event that led to the death had no direct link to Opay activities.

It's like suing IKEDC for power outage during a fatal surgery. IKEDC wasn't the one that caused the disease to worsen to the stage it requires surgery and the procedure doesn't fall under direct control of IKEDC decisions.

Maybe if we’ve been doing that in Nigeria the electricity situation wouldn’t have gotten as bad as it has.

May God console the bereaved.
Christianity EtcRe: The Fallacy Of The Angry Old Testament God by Marmalata(op): 9:43pm On Feb 01
Thanks.

The article is a blog spot article, the original link was there but I guess it was deleted by the system.

It’s deeperandstronger dot blog (no space) spot dot com

obiekunie01:
Fantastic eye opening article. Beautiful article.

Reminds me of Isiah 1 vs 18 - 20.

The Almighty God was so humble that he was calling us to repentance. Imagine that level of loving kindness!



The other article on your profile about Esau. Superb!

i couldn't find the site you referenced on that Esau article.
Christianity EtcThe Fallacy Of The Angry Old Testament God by Marmalata(op):
There's a notion that circulates with surprising persistence: that the God of the Bible underwent some kind of personality transformation between the Old and New Testaments. That He was angry, wrathful, and quick to punish in the earlier books, then suddenly became loving, merciful, and kind once Jesus arrived. It's a narrative you'll hear in casual conversations, see referenced in pop culture, and sometimes even encounter in church discussions.

The problem? It's based on fallacy and omission.

This misconception is what happens when people treat the Bible as a bundle of isolated verses - a collection of disconnected sound bites - rather than a cohesive body of knowledge that tells a continuous story about the same unchanging God. When you actually read the Old Testament as a whole, not cherry-picking the dramatic judgment scenes while ignoring everything else, a very different picture emerges.

The God of the Old Testament was just as loving, just as patient, and just as willing to forgive as the God of the New Testament. Let me show you what I mean.

1. The Misunderstood Levitical Laws
People love to point to the harsh, stringent Levitical laws as evidence of an angry God. "Don't eat this, don't wear that, don't touch this, death penalty for that" = the list can seem endless and severe. On the surface, it looks like God was running a police state with zero tolerance for mistakes.

But here's what many don't understand: those laws were broken constantly, repeatedly, and often without immediate consequences.

Don't take my word for it. Just keep reading past Leviticus. The books that follow - Judges, First and Second Samuel, First and Second Kings, First and Second Chronicles - form an extended record showing that the Israelites departed from these high standards almost immediately after Joshua's passing. We're talking generational cycles of disobedience, idol worship, intermarriage with pagan nations (explicitly forbidden), and wholesale abandonment of the covenant.

And what did God do? Did He wipe them out at the first infraction? Did He enforce every violation with swift punishment? No. He sent prophets. He sent warnings. He allowed natural consequences to unfold. He gave chance after chance after chance. The entire Old Testament narrative is essentially God saying, "Please come back. I'm still here. Let's fix this."

The laws weren't a reflection of God's temper; they were a reflection of His standards. There's a difference. And His enforcement of those laws shows far more patience than wrath.

2. The Wilderness Judgments: Understanding the Context

Others point to the dramatic takedowns during the wilderness years - the ground swallowing up Korah and his followers, the swift judgment that fell when people complained or rebelled. "See?" they say. "Old Testament God didn't play around."

But they're missing crucial context.

God had explicitly warned the Israelites about this arrangement. In Exodus 23, He tells them that He's sending His angel before them to guard them on the way and bring them to the place He's prepared. Then He adds this: "Pay attention to him and listen to what he says. Do not rebel against him; he will not forgive your rebellion, since my Name is in him."

This wasn't God being arbitrarily harsh. This was God explaining the terms of proximity to holiness. The upside? Divine protection from their enemies, supernatural provision in a desert, direct guidance from God Himself. The downside? Swift accountability when they violated holiness.

It was a package deal: you can't live off the benefits of direct access to God's presence while treating His standards casually. The wilderness judgments weren't signals of an angry God; they were demonstrations that holiness has requirements. If you want to camp next to the Presence, you need to respect what that means.

3. Uzzah: Familiarity Breeding Carelessness

Then there's Uzzah, whose story appears in 2 Samuel 6. The ark of God is being transported, the oxen stumble, and Uzzah reaches out to steady the ark. God strikes him dead on the spot. People read this and think, "What kind of God kills someone for trying to help? Where's the grace? Where's the second chance?"

But many readers miss a critical detail: the ark had been in the house of Uzzah's father, Abinadab, for about twenty years before this incident (1 Samuel 7:1-2). Uzzah wasn't some random person unfamiliar with the protocols. He'd grown up with the ark in his home. He knew - or should have known - that the ark was never to be touched, that it was to be carried by Levites using poles inserted through rings, never transported on a cart.

The problem wasn't that God gave no second chances. The problem was that Uzzah's overfamiliarity led to casualness. He'd been around sacred things so long that he'd lost his sense of reverence. His death wasn't about God being trigger-happy; it was about the danger of treating holy things as ordinary just because you're used to them.

And even in this, notice what happens next: David gets angry and afraid, yes, but then the ark stays at Obed-Edom's house for three months, and Obed-Edom and his household are blessed. God didn't extend His anger to everyone. He blessed the one who treated the ark with proper respect.

4. God the "Softie" (Jonah's POV)

Here's one of my favorite examples, because it comes directly from a prophet who knew God well enough to predict His behavior - and was annoyed by it.

Jonah defied God's command to go to Nineveh. When God insisted and circumstances forced him there anyway, Jonah delivered the message of coming judgment with what I imagine was great reluctance. Nineveh repented. God relented. And Jonah was furious.

Why? Listen to his complaint in Jonah 4:2: "Isn't this what I said, Lord, when I was still at home? That is what I tried to forestall by fleeing to Tarshish. I knew that you are a gracious and compassionate God, slow to anger and abounding in love, a God who relents from sending calamity."

Read that again. Jonah didn't want to go to Nineveh because he knew God was too merciful. He knew that if Nineveh showed even a shred of remorse, God would forgive them. And he was right.

God's response? He doesn't rebuke Jonah for this characterization. Instead, He affirms it: "Should I not have concern for the great city of Nineveh, in which there are more than a hundred and twenty thousand people who cannot tell their right hand from their left - and also many animals?"

This is the Old Testament God - so compassionate He's concerned even about the livestock in a wicked city, so willing to forgive that His own prophet considers Him a softie. That's not the angry God people claim to see.

5. God's Underreported Longsuffering

The longsuffering of God in the Old Testament is criminally underreported.

The book of Judges alone documents a repetitive cycle that spans generations: the Israelites love God, then abandon Him for other gods, then fall into trouble as a consequence of departing from His protective presence, then cry out to Him for deliverance, and then - here's the part that should astonish us - He rescues them. Every single time.

Not once does God say, "You know what? I'm done. You've burned this bridge too many times." He raises up deliverers. He fights their battles. He restores them.

This pattern continues through the books of Kings and Chronicles. Rebellion, consequence, repentance, rescue. Over and over. For centuries.

And perhaps the most fascinating testament to God's patience is hidden in a genealogy most people skip right over: Methuselah, who lived 969 years - the longest recorded lifespan in the Bible.

Why did Methuselah live so long? According to Hebrew tradition and linguistic analysis, his name is a prophecy: "When he dies, it shall come" or "his death shall bring." Methuselah's lifespan was God's patience made visible. God was waiting, giving humanity time to repent. And indeed, according to the chronology in Genesis, Methuselah died the same year the flood came.

969 years of waiting. That's not wrath. That's longsuffering on a scale we can barely comprehend.

6. Psalm 107: A Love That Surpasses Definition

Psalm 107 describes an attribute of God that transcends typical definitions of love. The psalm doesn't just call God "loving" - it uses the word "lovingkindness" (or in some translations, "steadfast love" or "unfailing love"wink.

The structure is remarkable: the psalm describes four different types of calamities that people find themselves in - wandering in deserts, imprisoned in darkness, suffering from their own foolish choices, facing death at sea. Some of these situations are self-authored; people's own rebellion and sin led them there.And yet the refrain is consistent throughout: "Then they cried out to the Lord in their trouble, and he delivered them from their distress."

Not "He delivered the innocent ones." Not "He delivered those who had a good excuse." He delivered them when they cried out, period. No mention of punishment first, no probationary period, no grudge-holding. Just rescue, motivated by lovingkindness. This is Old Testament theology. This is how God operated then.

7. The Sea of Forgetfulness

God speaks through the prophets about His eagerness to forgive in terms that should shock us. In Micah 7:19, He says He will "hurl all our iniquities into the depths of the sea." Isaiah 43:25 records Him saying, "I, even I, am he who blots out your transgressions, for my own sake, and remembers your sins no more."

A sea of forgetfulness. Complete erasure. Not reluctant forgiveness but willing, even eager amnesia about our sins when we turn to Him.

And this isn't just theoretical. Look at Ahab - arguably the most wicked king in Israel's history. The man who "did more evil in the eyes of the Lord than any of those before him" (1 Kings 16:30). Who married Jezebel and promoted Baal worship. Who murdered Naboth to steal his vineyard.

When the prophet Elijah pronounced judgment on him, Ahab tore his clothes, put on sackcloth, fasted, and went around meekly. That's it. That was his repentance - no restitution, no lengthy acts of penance, just visible remorse.

And God's response? He told Elijah, "Have you noticed how Ahab has humbled himself before me? Because he has humbled himself, I will not bring this disaster in his day, but I will bring it on his family in the days of his son" (1 Kings 21:29).

Even Ahab got a reprieve. Even the worst king on record could get his judgment postponed through simple humility. That's how willing God was to show mercy in the Old Testament.

8. The Same Yesterday, Today, and Forever

The New Testament actually confirms this continuity. James 1:17 says God is unchanging - "every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows." Hebrews 13:8 declares that "Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever."

If God changed His entire disposition between the Testaments, these statements would be lies. But they're not lies. They're truth. God didn't change. He's always been who He is: holy, yes; just, yes; but also loving, patient, merciful, and eager to forgive.


CONCLUSION
The notion of the angry Old Testament God versus the loving New Testament God is a caricature born from selective reading. It crumbles under the weight of the full biblical narrative. When you read the Old Testament as it was meant to be read - as a complete story, not a highlight reel of judgment scenes - you find a God who pursues, waits, forgives, rescues, and loves with a consistency that spans from Genesis to Malachi.

The same God who gave the law gave grace alongside it. The same God who judged sin made a way for repentance. The same God who seems stern in one verse is tender in the next.

He hasn't changed. He never did. We just haven't been reading carefully enough.
Christianity EtcEsau's Legacy And The Nation Called Nigeria by Marmalata(op): 9:18am On Oct 04, 2025
Something was always curious to me about the multiple mentions of Esau's error in the Bible. He sold his birthright for a meal of pottage in the first book, Genesis. But he still gets mentioned long after that incident as a cautionary tale even into the New Testament, in the book of Hebrews 12:16:

"Lest there be any fornicator, or profane person, as Esau, who for one morsel of meat sold his birthright"
With the above, one might begin to wonder:

"No be just yam (or beans) this boy chop? He made a silly decision in the heat of hunger, let it rest!"

But I'm in love with how the Bible answers even the questions it generates - without fail, every time. And how much relevance the story of Esau holds for us and instructs us even up till our present day, heck, even up to today, being the 65th commemoration of the Independence of our home nation Nigeria.

Back to Esau. Many readers of the Bible remember him as the first born of Isaac, who lost his birthright (and long range relevance) to Jacob, also known as Israel. Some remember that he was the progenitor of Edom, the Edomites. Few have connected the dots to recognize that Herod - the ruler in Israel in the time of Jesus Christ who ordered the slaughter of the little boys in an attempt to kill the young Jesus because he was informed a king had been born - was an Edomite . Essentially a descendant of Esau.

So the Herod dynasty - all 3 Herods in the Bible - were descendants of Esau. Herod the Great who ordered the Massacre of the Innocents (Matthew 2:16), Herod the Tetrarch who ordered the beheading of John the Baptist (Matthew 14:9-12), and Herod that killed James the brother of John, and imprisoned Peter (Acts 12:1-3).

Looking through the records of the Herods, a pattern shows up that connects them with their progenitor Esau. And that's an upside-down value system. One that fails to discern what's significant long term, and chooses the insignificant above the important. An elevation of the carnal or temporal over the eternal. A readiness to trade in the gold for a piece of shiny yellow plastic.

It's a spirit that says
"I'll turn in my covenant-backed lineage to get a little hot meal when I'm hungry ".
"I'll kill the Messiah of the world to protect my little royal throne ".
"I'll behead a holy prophet to save face with my political colleagues who heard a promise I made to my little daughter ".

When you think about it, it's a really warped, twisted value system. And that's likely why the error of Esau gets repeated as a cautionary tale.

Now back to our current day. The Esau spirit happens unfortunately to be alive and well, and when a country has leaders bedevilled with this spirit, it mourns. What other phenomenon describes a system that has no grouse allocating millions to luxury official cars, breaking the bank to renovate offices and official residences, splurging on overseas trips with bloated delegations while social and security infrastructure lies in ruins: students sit on floors on schools and learn under the rain and hot sun because of leaking roofs and lacking chairs; hospitals are overwhelmed and lack equipment, medicine and affordability standards to heal the sick and save lives; and road travel has become a daredevil endeavor due to incessant kidnappings - a fallout of a partially collapsed security infrastructure? Sounds like the Esau spirit at work, don't you think?

It would have been consolable if the Esau syndrome was only observable in the few members of the ruling class. But it's eaten its way through to the general populace. Herod the Tetrach's particular claim to infamy was that he knew John the Baptist wasn't a fake. He knew he was a real prophet, sent from God. But he was too concerned with saving face with the multitude that he had to acquiesce to the promises he made to his step-daughter. He couldn't afford to look weak or lose political capital by backing down. This brings to mind those that see black and call it white, just because its more aligned to their political inclination and the positioning they want to have in the eyes of others. Time and space fails to permit me to expound on the disaster this way of thinking has wreaked on our socio-cultural systems in this nation. How money worshipping has become the order of the day, in several social tiers. How every sort of societal vice has become excusable once it's ability to unlock profit has been established. It's related to the "leaven of Herod" that Christ warns His followers to beware of (Mark 8:15).

This was supposed to be an Independence Day charge. The "leaven of Herod" that encourages a spirit of compromise, a swapping of the precious with the paltry, and elevation of defective materialistic value system and a trampling down on moral values has as the Bible warned "leavened the whole lump". Herodian or Esauic thinking is now so ingrained in how many Nigerians operate and conduct their daily activities, and nothing short of a mental/spiritual surgical operation might be required to expunge it completely.

But we have no choice. The work needs to be done. To claw back our land, and the destiny of our generations to come, from the lot of the profane. God help us.

Culled from deeperandstronger - a site

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