₦airaland Forum

NoToPile:


I couldn't help but laugh at some posts, marriedatlast let's hope he is for real and he is not married to another woman here.

Yes i have thought about all the strange possibilities that could of occured with our seperation but God will intervene as i put my trust. If something isnt right god will intervene

ElsonMorali:


So funny right? When everybody's nose is permanently stuck in your business.

Anyway, Marriedatlast, you're welcome to Nigeria where the hospitality, smile and embrace of the people are as warm as the weather. I'm sure you won't regret it.

Look for a good neighbourhood to settle down in and you'll enjoy it here.

Oh BTW, watch out for those pesky mosquitoes. Malaria is a real phenomenon here. Enjoy your stay.

Yes the mosquitoes, i have never encoutered anything and i pray i dont. i saw real sickness of malaria in Gambia and i pray i never get sick like that.

Yes and i agree on the area as i would like to find a quite off road neighbourhood. Im quite sensitive to constant noise distractions.

Hello guys hope you can give me some good advice.

Well i met a nigerian guy in (2005) In the Uk, When i was 22. We got married 3 years later when i was 25. Two years later we went on holiday for my birthday and sadly this is where the trouble started. Altogether i have been with this man 11 years.

He wasnt allowed back home to the Uk. They said my husbands pp was fake And the nightmare began 6 years ago.

6years ago my husband landed in Nigeria and i tried to help but it just didnt work.

There and then i was ready to come to Nigeria and be with my husband i was never gonna let them win. Love is love no matter where in the world as long as we were together. But my husband said no-way . Pls help me to come to so so and so place or country i grew quite angry at these requests. As i knew my husband and i couldnt be happy in any of those places. I just wanted peace for both of us it was a very restless time.

I have visited Nigeria to manytimes to keep up. I know that things are tough or can be tough. But i just pray that god will send a blessing to us for our courage, faith etc for keeping our vows. At least if were eating, clothed have a decent place to live and i can sit home and educate my kids that would be a huge blessing.

A couple of months back i asked for some assisstance and guidance.
But guess what today and just today my husband finally made some sense and we are going to try and plan a medium bussiness and i will come to live in Nigeria

Proberbly like a restaurant (which my husband will take care of).

Me well i will be a full house wfe taking care of my husband,children(that we will have in jesus name) etc. I will ensure i take up some hobbies like growing food etc to lower expenses. Use tailors for nice but none expensive wear (which i usually look fabulous in anyway ). I usually stay home when holidaying in Nigeria. I did go everywhere the 1st times but i love staying home except for food shopping which i went to market and bought daily by myself. I dont like to act different i dont like to be treated different. Especially when i make the effort to be the similar like going market and yes cooking food for my husband and inlaws. (Who taught me how to cook).

I dont really ask for much now in life. Except the above (My husband, some children and a mediocre life style) Ive had everything ive had a carrer that i studied hard for wonderful supportive husband enough money to buy many glamourous things ive travelled the world done all sorts of backpacking teaching English and stuff actually. Had a nice home all disapeared one by one after what happened to my husband i gave up for a little while. But ive seen better opportunities and educational experiences since this. When one door shuts look for another and it will open.

I know my husband loves me hes suffering over there not necessariliy because of money but because his whole life was taken away. Ive never seen or heard my husband drunk till he went back to nigeria and i cant know of other things that could be affecting him as he will never say.

So guys im happy to share my story with you. Why ?because you can see from this its not many things in the west especially free and i want freedom.

What do you guys think is my little plan fesible? Could i stay in Nigeria and live happily ever after?