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roarik:
I can relate to no 5,i so much love looking for problems.smh

yeah ladies don't need to tell me, I know them so well

majority are guilty of that No5

Twoclans:
Adi m Mma

oh udo diri gi

Twoclans:
Nwokeoma eji ejemba, ututu oma.

nwanya oma kedu ka imere?

jericco1:
nice piece my guy.

thanks

Twoclans:
Good morning me love
Please don't join bad gang,you know I love you just the way you are. Meanwhile please tutor martin0 on what spooning is on that other thread

Ada Ada beke

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
I always look for problems and funny enough I always find them.

abeg stop looking for problems ooo

Thegeneralqueen:
Ok

u eh

Thegeneralqueen:
You're always running away why

I don't want to be disvirgined, my mummy said to me not to talk with ladies and whenever they call me k should reply "greetings and run "

Thegeneralqueen:
So when I'm I coming to your place

eh OK I don hear all u have said today

Thegeneralqueen:
Let's make it work Martin I so much believe in you

hahahahah come I don't wanna laugh this morning oo

**drinks cold fanta ** aaaahhh

Thegeneralqueen:
Stop all this pretence and let's make this work

hahahah hahahahaha Na WA ooo

Thegeneralqueen:
Martin let's make it official

this is not ekwu-eme see like I said what belongs to you will definitely be urs,

khiaa:
Was I close? What did he say?

khiaa let me hook u up!
u don't need to be this way I know, let me hook it up,

khiaa:
Was I close? What did he say?

he said I should be learning from you, I should listen to what you regarding our discussion

QueenSuccubus:
I did it on purpose coz im talking to a baboon...no use to make my grammar correct..

Now, go back to the forest where u belong...this forum is for the humans & not for nat geo like u...

hahahah hahahahaha hahahahaha hahahahaha hahahahaha ur mouth na highest

BiafranBushBoy:
So shut the Bleep up and stop littering here with your bullcrap threads. If you've gat nothing doing, you can go register for your PUTME classes.

Get busy!

OK Sir hahahah hahahahaha hahahahaha hahahahaha hahahahaha hahahahaha hahahahaha hahahahaha hahahahaha hahahahaha hahahahaha hahahahaha hahahahaha hahahahaha hahahahaha hahahahaha chai Nairalanders

hahahahaha hahahahaha hahahahaha una nor go kill me with laughter on this site

khiaa:
Very little but I can figure out some of it.

u tried sha

Thegeneralqueen:
Oh yes you do why will you create that kind of thread when you know you have a relationship to work on

haba na wa ooo, problem plenty for life sha! A relationship to work on ur own is in you





I'm not fighting you but fighting for what's mine look at where we are right now who did this to us

Were are still friends na what belongs to you will definitely be urs biacan

Thegeneralqueen:
Martin why are you doing this to us

to us kwa;Dhia

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Martin0 are you married? Nice post though

oh that is the thanks! one and only Nwanyietiti

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Martin0 are you married? Nice post though

oh thanks! that is the one and only Nwanyietiti

Thegeneralqueen:
Your place

ha biacan na wa for you ooo, have you imagined how or visit ajagunle or mushin before

or have you watched welcome to America, I live in a shithole oo...

or do you wanna come visit your friends here

BiafranBushBoy:
At 18yrs, what do you know about Relationships?

Get the fvck outta here.

Oga I never reach 18sef, not even up to 18

Thegeneralqueen:
OK..... I'm fyn I guess your recent thread was meant to throw jabs at me.... how the hell did I drive you away




Anyway when I'm I coming.....?

come where Biko

Thegeneralqueen:
OK..... I'm fyn I guess your recent thread was meant to throw jabs at me.... how the hell did I drive you away




Anyway when I'm I coming.....?

hahahahah hahahahah hahahahah am dying here,abeg ooo I did not throw any jabs at you ooo chai biacan na wa for you ooo ....

hahahah you eh always fighting me even when I did nothing I just created that thread just for me and everyone to learn!

Thegeneralqueen:
Good morning sir

morning, remember I don't like "Sir".
how ur side na

Thegeneralqueen:
Martin0

yes madam!

Can you relate?

It may seem that "men are from Mars" and "women are from Venus," and as a man with many female friends and many women clients, I'm here to share both sides of the conversation.
What a woman may think is proper behavior in
dating and relationships , a man might believe is way off base and a dealbreaker.

Here are some of the major ways women sabotage their own relationships. (Oh, and men do this as well.)

Before you read it ask yourself, "How many of these am I doing or have I done?"


Overanalyzing Every Word (or Close to it!)


Typically, a man can say or do something without much thought. On the other hand, women tend to spend hours discussing the nuances in what a man said or did with a
girlfriends . They will break down every part of the communication. Was it a text? Did it have a smiley face? What time did you text? How many texts that day? etc.

I know it's hard not to overthink things when you're dating since you don't always know where a man stands, especially since some of them aren't good at communicating their feelings and emotions.

If he didn't contact you today or didn't make plans far enough in advance, just go with the flow. He's probably busy or having a bad day or week. You don't know.

Obessesing with your girlfriends won't get you any closer to the solution. You'll end up confronting him with your overdrawn conclusions, getting mad and driving him towards the nearest exit.


Not Having Your Own Life

I see way too many people getting involved in relationships too quickly and investing emotions too quickly when they don't yet know the person fully.

Don't start having your life revolve around someone you met a month ago. You've lived a long time on your own just fine, so don't keep yourself from doing what you desire.

When you over invest you give your power away. It's easy to start the habit of placing yourself second to others and not setting the proper boundaries.

Live your own life with your own friends, career, dinners and events, etc. A man who is really interested in you will be open to compromising on doing things you enjoy.


. Reeking Of Desperation


Neediness is a major turnoff. It shows that you're insecure, have low self-esteem and that you'll need constant reinforcement.
If he's out with friends, leave him be. Don't go around checking social media to see what's going on.


Thinking Negatively

This isn't referring to genuine concerns about your relationship or sharing how you feel; it refers to the negative questions and statements that try to elicit a response.
For example: "Why don't you tell me you love me anymore?" or "I bet you are going to break up with me."

Instead of trying to "fish" for information, just ask him. If you want a man to be straightforward, honest and transparent, then act the same way.


Trying To Change Him


Trying to change someone is not recipe for a happy and healthy long-term relationship.
There is nothing wrong with encouraging someone to be the best they can be or helping them see other options. But no guy wants to have his "mom" tell him what to do and what he's doing wrong.

Acting like this mother makes him feel like he's not good enough.

If you need to nag and criticize someone for not living up to your expectations, you are with the wrong person. Would you want someone else to do that to you?



Expecting (Or Giving) Too Much Way TOO Soon
Stop trying to make a one-month relationship mean more than it is.

The pressure of getting clingy or emotional too soon pushes people away.

It's great to be excited about being with someone, but you don't need to talk marriage and kids on the second date.


Looking For Problems


If you look for problems, chances are you are going to find them. For example, if you are afraid of being rejected, you may misinterpret things and try to reject him first. If you have a negative mindset, you're going to create a negative reality.
Sure, you've had some bad relationship experiences in the past, but you need to work on those isseus before dating again. Remember: You make your past your present when you keep carrying that baggage forward.



Talking About the Ex

If you bring up your exes or your past relationships, you are on the road to driving a man away. There is no reason to bring them up early on in a relationship. If you need to vent, go talk to your friends!

Conclusion

Ladies ... men make a lot of mistakes too, and they commit many of the same ones as you do (and different ones). No one is perfect, but you can take steps to prevent sabotaging your current and future relationships.

You deserve happy, healthy, and extraordinary relationships . The first step is to love and like yourself. If you can't do that, you won't be able to sustain the types of relationships you want in all area of your life!

Do you have anything to add or comment on

Twoclans:

Oo'chim

true true I nor know ooo

khiaa:

madam do you understand pidgin?