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Firstly, he is not paying any Bill for my parents or relatives, plus I rarely make demands, he has not formally met my parents yet he is already giving authority on how things must be done knowing fully well that marriage involves both families. Secondly I take some of the insults cos I feel it is out of anger but its getting too much, sometimes I am pushed to insult back and also crossing the line by insulting my parents, I can't possibly bring myself to the level of insulting his parents. I know it's not right. I have tried talking to him but it's not yielding anything

I have been dating this guy for 2 years now and oh yes I really like him, we met during my NYSC through my cousin who is a friend of his, he do come visit me during my service year, he has a good job in Lagos and he is doing well on his own. Recently, he proposed to me and I accepted, we are making arrangements for him to come see my parents. But I noticed recently that he has a bit of temper which doesn't last and he insults me a lot at ease, I told him I don't like it, he apologised but he does it even when we are having a normal conversation, recently he insulted my parents on one of our conversations and I was devastated, I hold my parents in high esteem and I can't imagine myself with a guy who has no respect for me or my parents. He chatted me up but I am yet to reply, and I know he will apologise, should I accept his apology and continue with the wedding plans, I am scared for what the future holds if I finally get married to him. I need some opinions please