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musa7m:
some of this #ladys that fix nails....are hoes..........

Egbon this has nothing to do with fingernail fixing

just contribute wisely and leave your sentiment with fingernail fixing out of this

is it so loose that she had to warn her customers before hand

heaau! business hasn't been going well obviously

Generally,humans shouldn't be judged by appearance (tattoos piercings etc) but given the fact that some of these things listed above are related with some immoral behaviours and activities it might be impossible not to judge.

why do people judge?
think of the human brain as a dual processor consisting of a logical conscious system and a non conscious reflexive one. The Logical brain is intentional, voluntary, and within our awareness. It makes us feel in control, but it requires time and effort. On the other hand, the reflexive brain is involuntary, outside our awareness,irrational, and reactionary. It is typically recruited, because it is fast and effortless. To our dismay, the reflexive brain involuntarily spews mental computations such as making judgments about people’s race,sex and religious affiliation.

the popular saying "I don't care what people say about me".
some people claim that they don't care what people say about them; well that's like saying you don't care about your life.
life comprises of only about 20% of what you say and do about others and 80% what others say and do about you, so saying you don't care about that 80% is like saying you don't care about life in general.

Personally, when it comes to appearance, appear in a manner that won't bring about Ill feelings towards you. 70%percent of human beings personally lose favours and opportunities daily due to the misinterpretation of their appearance.

So once in a while learn to have a second thought about your appearance.
thank you.