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shes 16yrs old. a little bit of background me and my ex have been talking bot divorce for 6 years now but i kept telling he rthat i wante to stay for our childs sake, she made my life miserable until i had to leave i left 8 months ago. my child has a good relationship with the both of us whic is a true blessing but i hated for her to witness so much bitterness froom her parents so much arguing it was draining on the whole family it hurted me to see how much pain my family was in we went to marriage counsiling and family counsling it worked briefly bit no change. so i did try everything brfore i filed for divorce nothing worked.

also i see my daughter everyothr day and she spends most holidays with me. my daughter told me shes glad to see my happy aprt from her mom insteda miserable and arguing everday. trust me it was the worst!

im totatly happy with no regrets, she is trying to make life miserable for me. we have been seperated for 3years its no getting back. im trying to move forward but its like she continue to take me steps back. im so tired of this.

i filed for a divorce and it was finally granted by default i am very happy with my life the way it is now. i filed for a divorce because my ex wife cheated on me and treated me very bad in the process for years. now she is saying she is going to take me back to court and get our divorce overturned because she didnt want our marriage to end in the first place. i have tried being nice to her for our daughters sake but she is making this very difficult for me. can she really overturn our divorce? can this really be dun. i have no intentions to reconcile our broken marriage im so much better without her in that capacity.

wow! what kinda relationship does you and your father have, she went from being your woman to being your stepmom, whew thats a tough one. in all honestly they shoud both be ashamed of themselves.

get a personal protection order!!! he sounds nutty

let him go!!!! he sounds like a very depressing person. you should want better for yourself forget that man. let his ex have that mess of a man.

relationships are so hard and true love is even harder to find, its going to take some time to get past this and of corse we know time heals everything. the right person is out there trust and believe that and also trust and believe that you reap what you sow she will get hers its jus a matter of time. take all the time you need to heal cry mope around if you have to get it all out cus in the end you will meet that peerfect somebody

your unborn child is a blessing! its no way you shouldv even askd her tht im sure your scared but this may be the best thing that has ever happend to you. that is your seed and when you see that baby for the first time your gona melt. you will be jus fine heck what pregnancies are planned.

i really think you should go ahead and marry her now the material things like a car and a house the two of you can get together the great part of new marriages is building a foundation TOGETHER. she sounds like a good catch and so do you. whats the point in waiting. marry her and enjoy building your lives together. you will not regret it. and i wish you both well.

im married and my wife not only cheated on me but she had a full blown affair on top of that she treated me lik dirt! i filed for divorce after 5 years of mental and emotional abuse, she would always talk about how huge i am and how bad i looked in her eyes, shortly after i filed for a divvorce i met a wonderful lady and we hit it off well we were good friends for 2 years well our friendship turned into a romantic relationship we fell in love with each other and for the first time i feel like sombody loves me unconditional.i love her and her children the are absoulty the best. the problem is after all this time i am still married my divorce kept gettn posponed to the point i jus said forget it because i got so tired of fightn my wife in court. iv had a problem with bringn my kids around my girlfriend because i didnt want my wife to know anything about my personal busness i called myself trying to keep confusion down. well my divorce is defanitly going to be final in a few days but now my girlfriend acts like she doesn want me anymore, we would always have the fight of me being married and me not bringn my kids around her and her kids, she pretty much has nagged me about these two things that i was surley trying to take care of at my own pace. i guess i wasnt moving fast enough for her. im really afraid of loosing her to my own stupidity esp since i have procrastinated for so long one year went buy and here we are 6yrs later and im in the same stupid rut dou to my own stupidity. i dont want to lose one of the best things that has ever happend to me i love her with all of my heart to the point that i want her to be my wife. now that im finialy getting myself together im scared of loosing her. what can i do to make this situation better.