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this man no go kill person, sorry this Babe. lol

Bobrisky at it again. LOL
Male barbie Bobrisky have this to say. the reply was savage.
Girl's this question is for us.
So guys stay away from comments section.
How long do your own monthly period flow.
mine is just 3days.

Anini, hahahahahaha this man must be a comedian. someone that is part of what we're suffering today is now complaining about state of the nation. PDP and their wahala. both PDP and APC are mad.

Nightmareo07:
I still doubt u are igbo ..
Igbos can do everything for a woman to make her happy., but they dont tale cheating lightly especially in a serious relationship.
Some1 u consider to marry.
U can neva change a cheating woman especially one who didnt cheat for poverty sake.
The gal u talked about here is just a gold digger

thanks bro. but I have never felt so humiliated in my life. thanks

Goddyss:
I understand. scottnwokedi27@gmail.com

check ur mail bro.

wjames:
Boss, I think you should leave the rest for God to handle it. Girls are always like that.
Sir, I'm also a fresh graduate and I just got through with my service year. I've a little experience on how advertising firms do the activation program for alcoholic and non-alcoholic firms cos I worked as a bar supervisor in a big club house somewhere in Lagos during my I.T days. I'm tall (6'2) and I've the right body shape to work as an ambassador, sir. Pls sir, help me with a job. Thanks in anticipation, sir. This is my contact sir: Faniyi_olawale@yahoo.com. (sir, I can work anywhere and location is not a barrier for me, sir)

I don't live in lagos and not incharge of the affairs their either, but my head office is in somewhere ikeja, although I do come to Lagos once in a month for regional meeting and sometimes for training. but if we have anything tangible that side I can link u up. just drop ur digits.

Goddyss:
Drop yours. I will chat you up on WhatsApp

can't drop my number here for safety purposes hope u understand. please send me ur email address let me send it their. thanks

justlaw:
Hello Padosky,

First, let me sympathize with you but it's expected that NLders will still bash you irrespective of who you are on this forum and that's what keeps the forum going as one family i.e. The Good, The Bad & The Ugly

Well, you saw all the signs from the onset but you chose to ignore because you were head over heels in love with the lady. The first rule in any office dealings is, "Never mix business with pleasure" but you did the otherwise in this case and that was the beginning of your woes. Yes, we all fall in love at some point but it has to be done with our brains intact.

I believed you have honestly learnt your lessons and I will advise that you just move on 'cos these are part of the phases of life, a man must pass through just to determine how strong-willed you are.

Please, do not sack the girl for now 'cos it might backfire on you (in the sense that you knew you wasn't qualified for the job and yet you employed her just to satisfy your desires then and she might resolve to use it as blackmail on you... "Never under-estimate the power of women". Since her contract is ending in September, just let it be till that time and afterwards, you can decide not to renew it. Also, do not sack any of her family member still working with you just because of someone else's stupidity (do not pay evil with evil and that's against the scriptures... lol!).

As from this moment, ensure you monitor activities (end to end) of all your team members working with you, to be sure that they are meeting their daily operational deliverables irrespective of who is involved inclusive of your sister. Business is strictly business... go ask the likes of Dangote and Otedola.

In all, the deed has been done and I will advise that you move on, concentrate more on your work, try to make new friends, look for more recreational activities to help take your mind off that scenario etc. With time, the wound will heal and God will provide for you the woman that will truly care for you irrespective of your status.

Last line, remember to always be the kind person that you have always being. Do not use others stupidity to stop the good deeds that you have rendered.

Remain Blessed!

wow ur really a nice person, u just nailed it. I have decided not to sack her because is not good to pay evil with evil but I now ensure that she does her work the way it should be done. thanks bro, please send ur email address here let's exchange contact their. thanks once again.

konfused:
Bia enyia isi na ibu onye Igbo, kai......



First of all are you a graduate......?

Secondly, how can you be "fucking" a girl that works under you and is under your supervision......That's against the rules of the game

Thirdly, how come after so many revelations that the girl's way is not pure, both from your sister and other people, you still insist on going out with her.

Last but not the least, your actions after hanging out with the girl and the "real Boyfriend" is very childish and irrational.

You have a lot to learn, you have to learn how to master your emotions and be a man.

You shouldn't have made those moves immediately (sacking her, removing her from all WhatsApp groups, surcharging her for lateness) .....you showed your hands too early and it shows you lack maturity and can be easily manipulated.

Which state do you reside in the SE?

your right bro, my greatest weakness is what u just stated above, I have anger problem and always find it difficult to control my emotions sometimes. Of course I am a BSC holder. the truth is that I never expected such from her even if she is the worst woman in the entire world because I have always stood for her even when the key account manager of the product she is promoting for me want her sacked because of gross misconduct that boils down to altitude.
I removed her from the other project because I can't continue to cover for her or my city rep covering for her cos because my eyes just opened and I realised that I have been very stupid since all this while.

Goddyss:
OP, you made a terrible mistake and trust nairalandere to bash the hell out of you. I understand what this feeling called love can lead one into.

I want to advise you as a friend and brother. Don't sack her arbitrarily but ensure she follows every workplace rules and anytime she defaults on the basic rules of your organisation, serve her a sack letter.

She has deceived you and you are inexperienced to the games some of these girls play these days. As for her people, you placed at work, overlook them but ensure work policies are strictly adhered by them and any default from them should be handled without sentiments.

You don't own the company, so don't victimize them unnecessarily but monitor them and sack them when they default. You can't have all of them working for you daily without feeling pains of what the girl has done.

As for those seeking your help here for job, don't try and offer any job since they already know your story and will not hold you in high esteem even while working for you.

I'm sorry for your loss and heart brokenness caused by your inexperience. Now all you need is wisdom. 98% of people here will mock you and not give you a befitting advice.

Goodnight

Thank you so much my brother, I posted this here expecting the bashing and those who don’t believe in in story because all this makes me stronger and is equally a pain reliver. u must be a true friend. for the people that need my help, if I can I will help them because one thing is given someone a job another thing is keeping that work. please can u share your phone number with me I want to be a true friend.

babyfaceafrica:
lies

Am not lying. check my profile if I have commented or uploaded anything on this platform before.

Nightmareo07:
Wait is this story actually true?
How old are u?. Hope u are still a teenager
Are u igbo? .. I hope u are not becoz we can't be diz slow..

Am not a teenager my man, although I count my self as one of the luckiest person in the world. am a full time igbo. my MD is my dads best friend. although am the youngest in my position but I still have a lot to offer to my office. my issue is this girl, although I have learnt my lessons. but I have decided not to sack her. the project she is doing now will end by September.

Ioannes:
Be careful who you ask for a job online. We don't want to hear any stories that touch about a pretty that was abducted o.

Be watchful.

there are limits I can go.
my office Is somewhere in ikeja but I can't help u for now. because lagos is not part of location

Ioannes:
If this is true then you allowed your head to do your thinking for you... I mean the small head, the one between your legs. Yes, that one.

You put your job in jeopardy by employing someone not qualified and then now you want to sack her.

If I was that girl, I will report you to your bosses and make sure they fire you too for hiring me without a certificate and covering up my bad jobs for the firm.

This is how people get themselves blackmailed.

The best advice so far. thanks bro.

LuckyAgbaze:
Bros, Please help me with work o.

I am a graduate and have served
A Metallurgical and Materials Engineer, certified also in Health Safety and Environment (HSE)

Luckyagbaze@gmail.com

Thanks

Am only into promotion, marketing and advertisement.
A bonafide member of EXMAN

BiggyB242:
Keep employing all her family members, soon they will take over the job.

This what you get when you date a girl because she's beautiful.

your right. but we all make mistake in life.
thanks for ur comment

Michelle55:
thought as much

the thought is right. but is true and how it happened. Am a full time member of EXMAN experiential marketers association of Nigeria. I don't want to mention the name of my company because of security purposes

Nyerhovwo101:
boss abeg in case ona go recruit Abeg remember me... I dey delta... Seriously need a job.

what part of delta state? but all I can give is contract works.
I am a full time member of EXMAN experiential marketers association of Nigeria.

Iambees:
If true help me with A job pls pls pls, help your fellow man i'm somewhere in south east and for the girl she placed You on a friend zone, see what You will Do, let how know that If she can't meet up with the company works in 2 weeks that you will be forced to replace her with someone capable and, note, bro you can't force someone to love you

Is ok bro, but apart from project coordinators, state coordinators every other thing is on contract. some coordinators are even on contract. browse about experiential marketing.

KadunaMafia:
Everything is wrong with that story. The Op is delusional

your right. but check my profile I have been on Nairaland for a very long time and this is my first post on this romanceland and check if I have commented on any post on romanceland.
thanks

Cornerstone2020:
My only advice is that you should remove southeast from the poorly scripted story

you right bro, not too good with writing but is no cooked up

Misscaring:
I honestly need a job Biko. Will so appreciate if you can help me out. Tired of staying at home.

we're do u reside?

Mcpadosky:
Thanks for this bro. it was true love I seriously felt for this girl. am wiser now after this month I will drop her from this particular project. is just that I don't want it to look lik witch-hunt

your right am a very big one at that.

fineboynl:
guy this your story sweet oh. you and I know its fake. but if true. I get somebody when need the job

Is not fake bro. but I have a lot of people ready to do the work

Gmart22:
From your story ... i don't mean to be rude in analysing events after events. Both of you are opportunist..just that she is way more upgarded in her men-emotional twisting game while you are after her body, the sex and maybe her beauty. So you have got a lot of growing to catch up with before you become a man- sorry you are not yet one. Having Money is just 20% and Choice Control have a bigger contribution if you dont wanna plunge into emotional and financial bankruptcy.

Thanks for this bro. it was true love I seriously felt for this girl. am wiser now after this month I will drop her from this particular project. is just that I don't want it to look lik witch-hunt

Lalas247:
U no dey fear... u mean the script is complete

please my true life story

Lalas247:
Lol guys always big themselves up...just look at first two lines biko..

Who cares who ask u smy

Bloody Actor ....


Bet he doesn’t even have a full beard nonsense ......


Manage her

People drinking Garri will just wake up to hype themselves up and create thread .., ....


If you quote me op ! It would be bad for u ... don’t try it

the story is complete now

Hector09:
Wonderful liers u are the bread winner for her family and she broke up with u after ur office ve issue and she came begging after everything was rattified, who does that. I have told u that nollywood is not for men

bros please is not nollywood

After the guys call I confronted her and she told me that the got her number from one of her sisters friend and she doesn't know how he looks like. After two weeks he called me that he is in Town that I should meet him up which I told him that is past 9:30pm that I can't make it again and besides my neighbours have blocked me which he understands with me. When I dropped the call, I called the girl and ask were she was at that but she told me that she went out with a male friend I immediately hanged up. The next day I went to her outlet to do my normal monitoring, after an hour I left her outlet the guy called me that he wants to see me, I told him were I will be in the next 30mins.After 30mins I drove to agreed meeting point as I was parking my car, to my greatest surprise I saw my guy and the girl coming down from a cab, we exchanged greetings and sat down together. I ordered for bod wiser and the guy requested Heineken while the girl too snap. The guy started telling me how the girl has been telling her how I used to help her and the family while the girl placed her head on the guys shoulder after that the guy started telling me all sorts of lies that he now deals with crude oil and he have more than 100,000 litres of diesel and kerosene that he now works with an oil company and this the guy that always give work anytime I have project in his city because he lost work he was doing before. I kept on listening to the lies and the same lies the girl tells him. After all the lies he requested that I should give the girl 3days off to come and visit him in his base. I told him that is not possible and he keeps on insisting because he knows I can make it happen, I now asked him do u people want to plan ur weeding, he said no that is just for them to know each other well, I told him that I will think about it and during the time of the discussion I found out that this 2peole have known each other since November last year.
I later left the place after some hours and paid for the drinks. Immediately I got home I sent her a sack latter and subsequently sack her from one of the project she doesn't have much attention on and also remove her from all the group chats and after that she called me to enquire why she was sacked I hanged up on her. In the afternoon the next day the guy called to plead to me to bring her back, I warned him to interfer in my work that the girl can only do one work at a time. And since then I have made the work a living hell for her because now I made sure she does all her work and any time she comes to work 5mins late I subcharge a huge amount from her salary. I want to sack her this month because her performance is bad. Please my dear romance landers advice me. Insult is allowed

please the story is not complete yet. am still writing.

Good morning my fellow romance landers, please I want you all to pardon my grammatical errors because am not too good in writing.

I work as a project coordinator east covering the entire south east and south south in one of the leading advertising, promotion and marketing agency Nigeria.

So I deal mostly with women, beautiful ones because of the nature of my work and every woman wants to identify with the boss for favour.

4 years ago I met a girl in one of the south east state and she was even the person that gave me green light and one thing led to the other we started dating but my mum never likes this girl but she can't tell me her reasons not until I gave my younger graduate sister a work to work as a supervisor and no one knows that she is my sister, so when she sat with other girls numbering more than 200 because the project is big and a beverage activation in one of leading breweries. Girls started their normal gossip that was when my sister found out that my so called sweetheart is a heavy runs girl, but am not always around because of work and her school is a bit far from town and she leaves in the school hostel.

When my sister told my mum, she told her that her spirit never accepted the girl and am very stubborn so mum is just being careful not to offend me. I later confronted her but she started crying but since all this while I never suspected her due to the love I have for her.

After Six months, my office had Issues, because of that she broke up with me, although the issue never affected me that much because I have some investments which she doesn't know that sustained me throughout the trying times. Not more than 4 months, we bounced back and we got more contracts from multinational companies, when she heard that we are back she wanted to come back which after pleading, even from her mum I accepted her back, Because am like the bread of her family, I gave her brother work as a supervisor and her sister and the brothers wife is one of my brand ambassadors.

Something happened again last year I broke up with her, although we're still friends and have sex on some occasions and am still close to her family. She wanted us to come back which am still considering and she still works for me in a double project, one she earns #75,000 per month even as she doesn't have her results ready because she is yet to do her NYSC and I lied to my office because all my workers documents in my region is with me. The second work she works as a supervisor which I always cover her up even when am not around my city rep always covers her up because of me and she earns around #81,000 minus allowance. I can't say everything I have done for this girl.

Last month, one of my distance guy called me and said that his girlfriend works for me I said wow which of them she mentioned my girlfriend, I was surprised and I kept my cool. Then told me that they said that am her oga and am very good to her and the family, I said ok, he now asked me if the girl is good him that no one is bad or good that it all depends on what he wants.

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