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Hahahahaha....I laff in kukere...shame to asiwaju for runninhg away in shame...as for el rufia,I dnt av anytn to tell him except dat I ve found a job for his daughters...am recruiting for afro candy,if dey meet me,dey might as well get d job...a true democrat shuld av nufn to do with a dictactor...its as simple as dat...just yesterday,I watched him threaten d poor and always loyal people of southern kaduna....I av always respected Tinubu especially for his legacies and making 0BJ look ordinary buh now I seriously av my doubts...he has given d presidential seat of d APC to d north(so its obvious dat dictactor`s face will be in posters soon)...even one of d so called northern party(ANPP) objected...dear asiwaju...be careful or ur doom will be near...dictactors use and dump

amiebeauty: Mine is d 5th of May....wish i saw dis post earlier.........hope u guys had fun 2 d fullest..Next yr will b beta #amiesedso#

wow!!! Mine was 10th may...opened up dis threas exactly on d first day of may

[quote author=fresh_dude]Dey af come o. Abeg, nwanne m MentorKen, engage the AVFH guidelines and ignore irrelevant contributions to your situation. Goodluck.[/quote]@fresh dude thanks

Afam4eva: You shouldn't stop having sex with your wife for any reason that doesn't have to do with both of you. Maybe if your neighbor complains too, your wife will say you should wait till you move to another house before having sex. If, and i repeat, if you must please your MIL then you guys to do it when she's not around or you could play a background music or something...I'm just seeing all these complaints from men in issues related to sex and i'm just chuckling. I just hope that when i marry things like this won't confront me because one i marry pere, na fire and brimstone.

I app8 bro

rokiatu: Take what personally? Not at all. I was actually willing to advice you, I just ask a harmless question and you fire back with smoke. If anyone is taking this personally, it will be you.


On a more serious note, yea your wife is probably doing this out of respect for her mother but she needs to know that she is also marriage to a man with needs. Her mom is staying over for two months, how the heck does she expect you to cope for two months without sex?


She is now a married woman please, her mother need to respect her daughter marriage as well. If not African Mentality, who the heck tells their daughter that, am here so no making love to your husband? hhhmmmm what? I love and respect my mom same as my husband so I have to respect my husband needs as well. If I was this woman in question, I will personally put a lock on our door, and then after a certain hour when all the kids are sleeping, I will do my husband wella...a man got need so do I. Out of courtesy I will keep the noise down. If my mom complain about the lock then well she can shorten her stay, this is my husband home abi, I respect and love my mother, but my husband makes the decisions in our home not her. Just the way father ruled our home, the ruler of my martial home is my husband. She can advice offcourse but I will not disrespect my husband in such a way and let mom make decisions for us.

thank u loadz...I neva got angry at ur earlia post..I shuld av put a smiley face to clarify beta buh dats past tense shaa...I will copy ur post and show to my wife about wot a fellow lady suggested she will do...tanx 4 being dere

rokiatu: Sir I am a naive virgin but you have a lot to learn, or did you lost your virginity in 1410? Buhahahahhaha!!!


You didn't even understand my question goes to show that you are plain bank naive.


But thank you sir, I plan to keep my virginity. So rare nowadays.

hope u aint taking it personal...advice is wot I nid and advice is wot I came here to get hopefully...just u knw,my last post meant no harm

rokiatu: Singing if I had one wish

and wats d wish?

kirian202: I just dey imagine after two month ur mother inlaw come dey talk say she go stay extra one month na only God knows de kind blow u go give her for face

lol...she wouldn't dare

rokiatu: You want to reproduce with your wife every night? LOL

someone just whispered into my ears telling me dat u re a virgin...its not my fault dat my wifey nids to feel my swag all d time(@least its legal)...just u knw,it aint every nite..it just comes naturally(d urge)..meanwhile abt ur virginity,I advice u shuld keep it up

freecocoa: What are you surprised about? What is fake about your wife controlling how she moans?since when does not shouting the roof tops down mean one isn't enjoying the s€x?

Seems to me like you are just looking for reasons to hate on your MIL, it is highly uncomfortable and somewhat out of place to listen to or hear people making love, why don't you even have a problem with that? Are you into voyeurism?

P.S, that your wife likes to shout doesn't always mean she's enjoying it, women fake a lot during s€x, so if you are worried her not shouting means you both are having fake s€x, you should also be worried she might be screaming just to make you happy and not cos she's enjoying it.

heaven knws dat am not looking for a reason to hate my MIL...I equally knw dat a woman can fake moaning and orgasm buh u and I knw dat sumtimes we can't control ourselves during sex (moaning included)...it was an option b4 buh den she reaches orgasm and moans very loud...den she gets to control her moaning tru my help...tanx

djeezy: WTF! So you want the poor man to stay without sex for two months? That's torture.

help me and ask him oooo...

Seun: You can't expect your wife to do it with the knowledge that her mother is listening to everything. Be a man and fix the situation.

dat was exactly why I made it public...I nid ur opinions...if I could handle it,I wouldn't bring it here

Please I would like to know d name of dat soundtrack used in our own movie titled “bank job”...also prince iyke used it in d intro of his movie “girls on point”.thanks

freecocoa: Simply shut da fecking door abi your children come to your room every night everyday? Why can't their grandma take care of them some nights and leave you and your wife to flex?

I don't understand how you expect your MIL to be comfy listening to you and your wife make love, the fact that you are even comfy with someone else listening on you worries me and must your wife make noise? Abeg she should keep it low and allow the old woman some sleep, haba!

am suprised dis is coming from a lady...my wife shuld kip it low?dereby denying herself and probably myself d ectasy she deserves?dats fake sex if u must know...she has d right to enjoy sex as so do i

xynerise: Seriously dude, the sound of love making like moaning and gasping is annoying to the ear of a third party.

Your wife is not scared of her mum, she just respects her.

which kind of respect is dat?so she shuld go ahead and respect d mum and disrespect d man of d hauz?

djeezy: A product of Linda ikeji's blog. I'm gonna respond anyway. The man married the wife and not the mother and if the wife does not satisfy his intimate desires, she'll be the one to cry fowl when he starts getting same outside. I wonder the purpose of a door that cannot be locked. Lock the damn door, play a cool music that is louder than your wife's moaning during sex and enjoy.

he dosent lock d door cos of d kids

I’m happily married with two young kids ages 2 and 4. We stay in a 2-bedroom apartment and usually leave the connecting door ajar so that if the kids wake up during the night they may have access to our room to seek comfort,which is very frequent especially during these noisy thunder storms.

My problem started with the arrival of my mother-in-law, less than a week ago to spend 2 months. Of course, she sleeps with her grand kids in their room.
This doesn’t stop them from frequenting our room during the night, so the door is still left ajar. Much to my amazement, my wife has now told me that she will no longer allow us to copulate during the time her mother is with us. She said her mum scolded her and feels we are rude to engage in lovemaking knowing fully well that she is in the adjoining room.

My wife has always feared her mum so it is impossible for me to convince her that this is her house, not her mum’s. I don’t see myself going one week without sex, talk less of 2 months! Is it my fault that the bed creaks or that my wife has to make noise at her height of ecstasy?

I feel that my mother-in-law is being very intrusive and insensitive and I’m prepared to talk to her and ask her to leave if she insists on tormenting my wife, but I know that my wife won’t find it funny at all.

What should I do?

Love must not be perfect,it just have to be real

Life would be a lot better and there would be a lot easier if people actually minded their business. That time you spend in criticising and talking ill of people why don't you use it in working on yourself?

She's a prostitute? Really why don't you work on your masturbation problem?
He's gay? Wow, why don't you work on the gossip problem you have cuz gossip is a sin
He's a rapist? That's awful, why don't you report him to the authorities and get it over with?
He's hot tempered? I feel bad for him but why don't you work on yourself? You're a nymphomaniac
He beats his girlfriend? If you really cared you wouldn't be talking about it but talking to him about it.
He's poor? That's too bad, you forgot you still live with your parents.
Her English is poor? Poor her, why don't you tackle that stealing problem you have or have you forgotten how you stole your neighbour's panties?
She's a sex addict? Hmm... *in MI's voice* have you eaten today? So why are you hating?

That time you spend talking and hating can be put into making you a better you.

LoveAmaka: Not at all. When you are in a relationship you have sex because you want to, not because you are getting something in return. I hope it is more clear. There is not expectations of payment for sex when you are in a relationship.

“ U`d be intimate cos u want to”...I love dat statement...food for tot to ladies of nowadays...let's be natural and practice originality in our love lives

icebebe: Must a man want sex frm a lady bcz he gave her money of gift?

its not a must...besides no one said dat

SniperInADiaper: Right... ^^^

right as in how?whose opinion is right....mine or amaka`s

[quote author=Mynd_44]I have nothing to add[/quote]u must add oooo

LoveAmaka: Why are you giving women money in the first place. If you take a women out on a date and you pay for it knowing that you want sex in the end, something is wrong with you. If the women accepts your date knowing that you want sex in the end something is wrong with her. If you both mutual agree that you just want sex but she will collect money at the end it's still prostitution. Prostitution, is prostitution whether you paid for it with dinner, check, shopping spree...before or after the deed was done...doesn't matter much. If you both agree to sex without any exchange of any goods or money then do your thing....satisfy your need as you see fit. I have to agree with you that woman will settle for the shopping spree to make themselves feel better.

www.loveamaka.com

from ur defintition of prostitution,hmmmmm... dat means dat all ladies are prostitutes...evn d one wif boyfrnds and fiancees

Where are d ladies...I nid dere opinion

passionate88: because if u giv dm d money upfront e dn b prostitution bt if dm collect am gradually no b ashi work for there mind.

as in eeeeeh

Women always wants men to spend money on them and dey will gladly accept knowing fully well dat sex is his agenda...buh if men just wanna giv dem d money upfront,they get offended thinking its prostitution...D big question is WHY?