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OMOJOHN001:
Yes she is A virgin and I don take her virginity.
what else can a gentleman like me do

This is the reason she's behaving like that. It had happened to me, she came back after her father aborted her pregnancy. She later got over it. She will get over it but I don't know how long.

I will advise you to convince her that you won't leave her. To me, she's afraid of loosing you. Don't just promise her, fulfill your promise.

bosman50:
That dream man is prolly out there looking for his dream woman. Why not let God be in change ? Just bend down low

You are right, but stop talking about God. God have tried for her, she needs to work on herself.

Anyiiii:
We are in the month of November. I'm still not married. A close female friend of mine will be getting married in December. Two of my close friends got married this year too. I'm feeling depressed right now. Nothing interests me. My decoder is subscribed and I can't watch TV. I have food but I'm not hungry. I have money but I'm not happy. Who says money is happiness? Some men are coming my way but they are not my spec. I'm very beautiful and look so younger than my age. So stop imagining the looks of an old Lady. Why can't I find the man of my dreams? Please you people should pray for me. Is there any good luck herb that you can recommend for me to get my husband? Thanks

At your age, you should be looking to invest in a man rather than looking for working class. You can easily upgrade a man to your choice standard (provided he scored above average).

When I read your listed specs, I scored myself 85%(because I know what I worth). But if you will access me, I bet you won't score me 40%. That's one thing about relationships. You can't determine it from outward.

If you are yet to be 'taken' and you are willing to try my score(above), check my profile for contact to chat.

HerRoyalFlyness:
So in other words, any Tom, Dick and Harry that comes for her now, she should accept him with open arms and try to change him later. Even if he is a street tout or a drug dealer, It doesn't matter right? She should accept him just so she can answer Mrs. somebody.

You guys should calm down. I don't think there's anything wrong with having a spec or someone you're attracted to whether physically, mentally, intellectually, emotionally, whatever, name it. This thing is marriage we are talking about. What if you are unable to turn the person to your spec years into the marriage? You'd start talking of divorce? What's the point getting married only to get fed up and depressed few years later?

It's okay to have specs please. What's important is having REALISTICS specs. But I don't advice any woman or man to date or marry someone they are not attracted to in any form.

We might not necessarily have EVERYTHING we want in a spouse in one human being because nobody is perfect. But we must pick those very important qualities that we cannot do without and that still means having a spec. If you don't find the important qualities you want, please don't manage the person or settle for less all so that you can be married. You'd end up hurting yourself and the person in the long run.

You ladies are your own problems. Yes, having specs is not bad. Having flexible and realistic specs is the way forward. Specs can will definitely change when marriage come. So spec should be flexible or else, you won't be happy when the change happens.