@ Donzman

Your advice that poster should spend money on the girl's father to be accepted is decietful.I'm a product of inter-tribal marriage and my parents are happy. From their relationship history,there was never a time my dad did such a thing.It wasnt easy for both families but at last, love and God's wish prevailed.My dad is from the north while my mum is Ibo.

At least, be honest in your advice.

@ carbonate

I understand your dilemma.Right now, i'm dating a yoruba guy who is a by-product of yoruba /ibo marriage. The sisters are lovely people and they respect me though i'm not even much older than them. They're always in my favour whenever there's a row between me and my man (that is if i'm right) 'cos they know thier brother. And they give good testimonies about me anytime they travel home to see their parents.Now, the woman can't wait to see me. And i love the family too.

What i'm saying is that it doesn't have anything to do with both tribes hating each other or exposure ie mixing with different races or living in a foriegn land.It has a lot to do with the perception of both families.Some feel they'd lose their children when they marry outside their own tribe.

Besides,kids born out of such marriages are even more rational but they fail to see that. If you love each other and God is on your side ,it would work. Cheer up! God will only allow the best to happen to you no matter how sad the situation may seem. Peace!

moondust:

a gara m national grammar school nike for 1 yr in 1990

Mba unu ga abu umu lolo

@ youngies
really? no wonder! well i first attended command children's school at 82 div,abakaliki road as per  soldier's daughter. but later changed to Ekulu in my pri 3.Hummn, nwa abakpa nti ike?! okwa ya bu housing estate pri school ka oya bu st theresa's pri school ndi oba nsi na pant.ha na -ama kwa ndi nkuzi ha nsi ma o pia ha utali ma o ha gba puo tire ugbo ala ya.  

@moondust
ndi Nike boys na -ama kwa ndi nkuzi ha nsi n'isi ma o nye ha punishment.Ahh,no wonder u r so controversial!Okocha went to your nike grammer school ,i understand.

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I hereby pronounce ME-ZAINAB the second in command on this thread, i mean after me


youngies and Moondust, both of you can compete for third, ngwa let the drums start


@ cute-ass

Hey babes chill, chere kwa! Ana m abia. Anula ngwo na nkwu na abia ( dont drink the farmented palm wine cos the fresher and sweeter one is on the way)

Do i love this girl or what?? The way you break your Igbo is tripping me off my chair   . . infact even without proverbs , i offer you the 2nd position, youngies will manage 3rd  

@cute-ass
thats what happens when u have an igbo mum who sent u to Ekulu primary school in Enugu. Though i didnt learn the igbo from school ,i did from cousins maka na ndi igbo turu ilu si na ebe onye no ka o na awachi (where u stay is where u protect) besides, o wughi ihe aga elefuru anya n'ihi na asusu ala anyi bu Nigeria bara uba. I si na-igaghi amuta nke diri gi imuta, ngwa nu.

mana marakwa na agbaruchaa Ngene, e kuru Ngene nuo . Nya mere nwanne m nwanyi,cute ass ,o di mma na m mutara asusu a ka m soro unu bu umunne m n'ikwu nne m supu ihe m.

ka o di nu ubosi nta, anyi ga - achu na owele nchi, (till the day of the hunt, we'll hunt at the grass-cutters territory)udo diri unu!

Humn.
@ cute-ass and youngies,i give it up for you two.E kpupuru m unu okpu. unu ewere go ilu chupu chaa onye obula turu ukwu na this forum.   jisi nu ike mana unu gbado anya maka moon dust

@baby tree osisi
gi onwe gi na anwa kwa. ogbara m gharii na unu bu ndi na anoghi na ala a kazi anyinwa no nu ede igbo. Ekele kwa m gi.

@moondust, i na anwa. O nwa mgbe nta i chukwudo cute ass na youngie. mana marakwa na ote la ha bidoro. mana ndi igbo turu ilu si na nwata kwocha aka,o soro ogaranya rie nri.

ha nile socha, mmiri doro eju doro nwa nkita

okirikiri ka a na-agba ukwu ose, anaghi ari ya elu

you go round and round the pepper sterm to pluck it, you dont climb it.

aka aja - aja na ebute onu mmanu mmanu

you eat when you work.simply put,no food for lazy man.

ndi igbo na-atu inu si na agadi nwanyi daa nda ada ugbo na abo, aguo ihe obu n' ukpo onu.

the igbos say that if an elderly  woman falls the same fall a second time,  the number of stuffs she's carrying in her basket or basin would be counted.

Huh, i'm really giving myself a pat on the back.I learnt that from my maternal side.

There is nothing to it except that BRIEF men usually have inferiority complex, and think that people will cheat them or bully them just because of their height. So, they then go for bogus things to prove they are "big", i.e. Huge houses, large cars and women with thunder thighs!!(d more robust, d better), maybe even extra wives. They may also be unneccesarily Wicked/opininated/quarelsome/stubborn etcetcetc, just to drive their existence into your brain.

@poster
you are absolutely right!

@ poster,

Oh boy, how e dey do u? In this present day and age? Haba!!!

"your boyfriend is a foolish mugu he's suppose to admire you a lot even if my friends think i look old i will be a bit offensive if my boyfriends say so i will dump him on spot who does he think he is, some nigerian guys don't know their babes is just managing their ugliness and this one is even feeling funky"

LMAO!!! please tell them.

well, she must really love the guy to be so depressed. If such statement comes from somebody you dont love, you may tell him to beat it. But when it comes from somebody you love, you'd definitely  feel bad because you'd feel he should know the things that hurt you to some extent.

@ poster
You should know the kind of person your guy is by now. If he's the playful  or the blunt type,it shouldnt bother you instead, look for a way to tell him that you're hurt. And such discussions shouldnt wait for so long or else he'd think you're bearing it inside. Anytime you feel bad about such statements let him know because most guys talk to their babes  the same way they talk to their fellow guys especially those ones that has no sisters. '
Just let him know what hurts you.

@enitan2002

see "beef." Got any problem with the fact that he made first class? wake up bro,that was only for emphasis.

Men jilt women,women jilt men, com'mon guys,how fast you forget your mathematics.Its called Ballanced Equation !!!

@topic: don't worry. heartbreaks are a part of relationships. with time, you'll develop the kind of shock absorber that i have when it comes to dealing with heart breaks. right now, i'm shock resistant.

Well, i think he hasn't really dated much.

@ topic: Com'mon man, you'll get over it. Its even good its happening to u now,its only paving way for the right woman.And; when that right person comes, you'd forget all your heart breaks.keep ur head up.Peace man!

@topic: don't worry. heartbreaks are a part of relationships. with time, you'll develop the kind of shock absorber that i have when it comes to dealing with heart breaks. right now, i'm shock resistant.

Well, i think he hasn't really dated much.

@Efani,

Your statement is saddistic, man!come to think of it,you seem to know so much about the gay thingy? only a gay can identify his type.

@superman

I bet your fingers are rotten and oozing of a death stench as a result of putting them inside all the whores in ur area's yansh.
For you to even know the smell of yansh, you must be keeping a whole lot of whoreful girlfrinds with such smell. yuk man!!! you need deliverance.

@ 2muchmoney,

dang man! I doubled over with laughter at your reply to "Bong." You made the whole people in my office LTAO! You really are funny.