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[quote author=Infolenka post=135094963]I’ve never been the spiritual type. I don’t believe in ghosts, the supernatural. Or at least, I didn't’ until recently. Something strange has been happening in my house, and it’s making me question everything I thought I knew.

I lost my girlfriend in a tragic accident last November. She was on her way to a friend’s traditional wedding when it happened. I’m not seeing anyone currently, but I have hookup girls visit on the weekends.

Two months ago, I was in the sitting room watching a premier league match when I heard a strange sound coming from the bathroom down the corridor. It sounded like someone moving buckets and rushing tap, almost like someone was washing clothes. That was odd, considering I was home alone.

I got up and walked toward the bathroom. As I approached, the sound abruptly stopped. When I entered, everything seemed normal, except for the dripping tap. It was as if someone had just turned it off a second before I walked in. I assumed it was a plumbing issue and brushed it off. But it kept happening. Not once or twic, more than six times now. And always when I’m home alone.

What haunts me most is that this was the bathroom my ex girlfriend used to wash cloths. She once told me washing clothes helped her relax and helped clear her mind.

But it doesn’t stop there. Sometimes, I come home from work to find my bed made and my clothes folded neatly. At times, the entire house is spotless, like someone had just cleaned it from top to bottom. It got so crazy I installed security cameras to figure out what was going on. Strangely enough, once the cameras were in place, the activity stopped. I left them running for a month. Nothing.

A week after I removed them, everything started up again. My girlfriend was always the type to clean my house and make sure everything is spotless. That's why I think she is the one. I know I sound crazy but that's the only possible explanation.
At night, I hear footsteps in the corridor and living room. Once, while I was on a Zoom call, someone knocked on my bedroom door. I immediately exited the call out of fear . There was no one else in the house.

I’ve considered moving out, but it’s not so simple. I just renewed my rent in January, and with how crazy housing prices have gotten in Lagos, finding another place close to work feels impossible right now.

I don’t know what’s happening. I don’t know if I’m losing it or if something or someone is really still here with me. I never believed in ghosts. But now? I’m not so sure.
If you have any advice, I’d genuinely appreciate it. I just want some peace of mind one way or another.

@Infolenka, I lost my girlfriend too to the colds hands of death via accident last October while coming back from work. It was a difficult period for me even till now. Due to the closeness between us, people even taught we did blood oath but nothing like that. I will suggest you go to a church for proper cleansing and deliverance bro.

T[quote author=malaria post=133511214]With time you will heal . Do not force it , allow it to be gradual pr8cess . You will know you have healed whenever you remember her with smiles not tears .
Pray over it as well. It's difficult to forget her. Thanks for the advice though.

Thanks all for the advice so far. In addition, the family of hers are stressing I delayed her and others are saying I killed her because i didn't marry her on time. This is one I loved genuinely but it's sad that death took her away.

Good morning pals. I created a topic on this said issue but am sorry to say I didn't get enough response hence coming back here again. Please, I lost my fiancee two months ago, she has been buried though but during our talking and before her demise, we had little issues here and there. Ever since she died, to move on is a problem for me I do cry sometimes.
Prior to her death, she has been pushing me to come to Lagos and hustle. Mind you, I reside in Benin City. Even when suitors when coming her way, she didn't agree to them all because of me and now she is no more. Am feeling I offended her and delayed her hence the guilt in me. Mind you also, I have been supportive financially during the years we dated. Please house, how can I go about the appeasement and is there any repercussions? PLEASE HELP A BROTHER.

@RealityKing1,how do you mean please explain better.

[quote author=RealityKings1 post=133466730]Yes it's possible but you'll face the consequences [/quGen.
How do you mean please explain better?

Hi, good afternoon family. Am just curious hence the topic. Is it possible to appease someone maybe a lover that just died and has been buried spiritually maybe someone did wrong to him or her before their demise.

Foodqueen:
Live each day as it comes.

Time will heal you and you will be left with her memories.

U may not know how, but you will move on.

It's difficult trying to move on. I have never been this depressed all through my life. Thanks all the same.

Thundafireseun:
Please take my sincere advise

Go ahead and Join her …

You’ll be glad you did

I just needed your input on how to move on but........ It's well

Good morning family. I don't know if this is the right section to post. Am new here please, pardon my errors. I am in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend(Late) for 3 years and some months. She is in Lagos while I reside in Benin City, she comes to visit me in Benin City and I do sometimes goes to meet her in Lagos.
Last year, she has been disturbing me to come over to Lagos to seek for greener pastures and for us to settle down but money was not there for me because of that, i was saving little by little. We both have been on this issues and I promised her I was coming to be with her in Lagos early next year so that we can settle down and get married.
She celebrated her birthday on the 21st October, and on the 25th of same month, she died via accident when coming back from work. NB, the accident happened along Kaduna/Abuja road that claimed 13 passengers and she was part of those that died......
Recently, we just laid her to rest and I keep thinking about her all the time. There is nothing I haven't done to forget but it's not working for me. I sincerely and genuinely love her. She would have visited me after this work of hers but she is no more. PLEASE FAMILY HELP ME OUT BECAUSE AM FEELING SUICIDAL.