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Abacha na saint, I swr

Democracy is not good for Africa. It's a bad system of government. That's why he has the audacity to saying this. He has weakened all the institutions that are supposed to checkmate him

When that time comes, you and your family members will vote for him. That one is sure. You've have surely made billions of naira throigh him

E be like this one dey mad

Yes. That's ashawo tendencies

Una don leave the subject dey talk another thing. We all know fruits are the best but fruits don offer immediate action. If you're a married man, you will know you need extra action to boost your game while you might not need anything for an away match.
For woman that you're married to for more than 10 years, you definitely need some of this sex enhancers to boost performance

Between Jekomo and Coco samba which one delivers fast and effective results when it comes knacking department. Which one makes you last very long and hard. Drop your comments

Now he is nothing in politics of Nigeria. If had partnered with Obi, by now he will either be a vice president or a president.

Savedday2:
If that kwankwasor of a guy accept to be Obi vice, I will personally call him a big fool.

I remember last election that his combination with Obi would have make them win the election, he was talking rubbish. Now that 2 of him can't win election he want to join Obi.

You mean Akwa Ibom? Na so Olosho cheap for there

doctore212:
Why is olosho too costly in Gombe state.

In Akwa I dey use 3k knack TDB but here in Gomeb, I no even see olosho to carry.


Does anyone have any update of Gomve state oloshos

I swr. I don't even know what was passed. The Governors and LGA chairmen don't even know.

Bentacur007:
2027 go sweet ooo
Let’s see how it goes
But Makinde is making a big point here

I swr the matter tire me. Men need to seat up and propose laws on marriage. No bride price and marriage ceremony for non-virgins

Cum4me:
When it comes to serious relationship men are being scam.
When it comes to marriage men are being scam.
How will a girl who's not a virgin be celebrated getting married. Imagine if there's a law for not celebrating non virgin watch how many girl will seat up. After using your toto for 3some u Want to deceive an innocent me to marry you.

Don't bother yourself. We know all these tricks. Money just exchanged hands. He just got some credit alerts from FG

I think men should stop paying bride price and collecting list for ladies who are not virgins. It's not worth it. Only virgins should be married in the proper way and should be celebrated with a marriage ceremony. How can a woman have 20 body counts and you will go and collect list, and pay bride price to marry an olosho. What nonsense. Please make it make sense for me.

If she is not a virgin and you like her, just tell her to come live with you. That's all. You don't need to do anything again.

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Adaisback:
yes darling, don't just forget to grab her by the waist and give her a hot kiss when she wants to start another round of cho cho cho and that will end it. Good luck darling

Thanks so much. I appreciate your advice

Adaisback:
Dear Op, I think you should consider taking your wife out and talking about it. You know, sometimes women sabi do cho cho cho, they say things they don't really meant and if you take their matter to heart, you no go fit marry any woman at all.

Women loves petting. Have you even try looking beyond what she is saying to what might actually caused it. They will not want to tell you that they want your love and assurance and they will be doing cho cho cho up and down.

My point is, no better woman outside. That woman outside you think is better, wait until you bring her home and you will know you just married the secretary general of the poisonous snake kingdom. No human is perfect including you that's why you should try talking to her and if all options have been exhausted, then maybe it's time to involve family members.

I love marriages and I pray your own works and mine in the nearest future will work too in Jesus name, Amen.

There is nothing as powerful as a woman in her feminine state. No be to dey do gra gra.

Okoroemekah:
don't you know the lack of sex can make a woman combative.fear for your life

Thanks so much

SixSeven:
She acts like a man is your biggest problem and I know men who are not gay don't like being with other men. Na useless elder de judge matter wey dem no hear from 2 sides. You should talk about it with her the way you are talking about it here, next is family. As a man, you need to make up your mind about what you want and the way you want your house to be. You are the leader, you lead, she follows. You can't have two captains in the ship. Set your standards for her to follow. And don't be afraid to take a decision that is in the best interest of YOUR FAMILY. A man builds the house, the woman builds the home. If you think she is destroying your home, you either have someone who is on your teamship or on the other ship. But remember, you have to be a good role model to your child.

She has never made attempt at resolving the issues

fyneboi79:
Since the past year you two have been having these issues,has she ever made any attempt at resolving the issues? If yes,try again. If no,let her go.

Thanks. I'm focusing on expanding my account balance...life no pure.

Ojaycom:
I don't see much here:
-You didn't say your wife complained...if she does, tell her y and take it from there/work something out.
-You only complain of her attitude hence your response to end intimacy with her whether knowingly or otherwise.You didn't say you want to quit the marriage.
-If you need more children with her you can always do procedure.
-Abeg there are too many serious problems...tax reforms are here to stay, inflation everywhere,insecurity on the rise,election is close by etc.

Sir...focus on expanding your account balance...life no pure.

So I should start worrying. Worrying activates the stress hormones which leads to rise in blood pressure and heart beat. Ignorance is bliss. I want to be happy. I don't want anything that will worry me.

ruggedtimi:
You should be more worried how your wife is getting sexually satisfied.

Good morning. Thanks so much. I'll research about the hormone. Question 1 & 2 are yes. I think I'll get another house for myself far away from Lagos. Maybe relocate to Abuja By the way, the marriage will be 10 years by May 2026.

everythingtall3:
Bro don't let all these 18 year old naira boys advise you, they don't even understand relationship , someone of them have never even had one successful girlfriend boyfriend relationship , I'm telling you honest truth, They will drive you crazy. When ever you read any comment that looks strange to you , na those 17 , 18 year old boys , this is a faceless forum.

Back to you issue, ask yourself a very deep question.

1. has she ever been a sweet wife for once before

2. has she ever made you happy in the past that you thank God for bringing such woman into your life

3. Do you still have an iota of love for her ?

4. Does she still have an iota of love for you?

5. Will she take care of you if you are old and sick regardless of her stubbornness ?

6. Most importantly : is she from a good home ? where there is someone she respect that can talk to her in the family .

If you answer 60 percent YES in those questions and especially if number 1 of the question is correct, here are possible solutions you need to check.

1. Be very sure the problem is not what yoruba people called "Ibisi" , some women have a very little mental health issue after birth of their child. Sometimes its not very very obvious but it's definitely a problem in the brain. One of the first sign is that they become very aggressive towards you and they start hating you for no reason. while the chronic ones comes with real madness.

The only solution to this is Phycological, book session for mental health issues or go for professional counselling

2. There is one chemical called pheromone, its a deep stuff that i'm also still leaning about, but once you release enough as a man to a particular woman , you loss all sense of sexuality towards them, you don't find them attractive anymore , and the only way to solve this issue is by staying a little bit far from such woman.

Rent a house outside, get a job outside your current state etc. By staying far away for 5 days , 1 month or 2 , or by coming back home every weekend , the Pheromone chemical will restore itself, and you will have strong erection for your woman again.

3. Masturbation : if you do that thing , stop it.

I hope your marriage works again, but if you try all means and its not still working, rent another house outside permanently , its easier than divorce, It is silent divorce without saying it, you go for weeks without coming home, gradualling weeks turns into months and months turns into years then everybody will be all right lass lass.

It's well. We shall find a way around it or over it or through it

Kobojunkie:
Action, they say, speaks volumes louder than words. (Money is not action.) That is a fact of human behavior and life in general. 🥱🥱

2. The vast majority of men out there are married to women they settled for. And yes, they too paid so much for the wedding, and all that was involved. 🥱🥱🥱

Don't say that bro. I like her so much. I can't go and invest millions to marry someone I don't like. I carried my family, friends and my umunna to go and marry her. I like her that was why I married her. One thing I like about her up till this moment is her energy. She is energetic.

Kobojunkie:
None of these make her a bad wife, but they certainly show that you don't like her at all. You probably did not like her before all of this, but chose to marry her anyway. So, yeah, let's not dump it all at her doorstep.

Yes, I'm a learner. I've never been married before. My own parents had a wonderful marriage before my father passed away. My mother is a perfect woman from what I saw. She is an example of the kind of wife I would love to have. My father was her all. They never quarreled in my presence anyday. They always eat together from the same plate. No drama at all. There is no woman on this earth that can come and say my mother is her friend. I love their marriage.

funnyDM:
You were not prepared for marriage.

Do I truly have any love to show her. I'm just being real. My kind of person, I don't talk too much. If you hurt me. I withdraw my attention and everything towards you to show you that I'm angry. I don't like arguments. Since I married her, I have never told her you're mad or stupid, or that she is a fool. I don't insult. That woman has shown me shege too in that house

funnyDM:
Now, go and meet her. Show her love. Then ask her to list the things she doesn't like about you.

Then you both can iron it out. Compromise where necessary.

Maybe I'll invite her uncle she respects so much

floss:
The purpose is to have her peace for a conversation

What I'm even personally planning is to go and rent another house for myself once I'm back to Lagos cos I travelled for Christmas holidays. I'm tired of living in that house. I just need where I can have peace

It's true to some extent. But I don't beat her. Normally I suppose don panel beat her for the house but I kept my cool and looked for another cool way to punish her. But it's not my fault I can't have sex with her. The prick no gree stand for her again and I can't kill myself

funnyDM:
Well... Every woman is a parrot. But what I see here is that you have an ego. Your wife has ruffled that ego, and you intentionally refused to have sex with her to teach her a lesson. You are now acting as onye odi Naka. If you truly believes that she is your wife, you better bring down your ego. Don't see her as a maid, see her as a companion. Love her despite her faults.

The truth is: since she never give you poison as you deprive her sex, she is a good woman.

She argues too much
She is disrespectful
She is stubborn
She acts like a man
She dresses the way she likes. Not the way I want
She prays too much which a red flag.
After the prayers, she goes back into ungodly behaviours
I've warned her to put little or no salt in our food still yet salt is her best ingredient
Even Maggi, she go to the market and buy packs of Maggi. I hate Maggi. She no dey hear word.

funnyDM:
List the things you don't like about her.