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Mental health care shouldn't be taken for granted. Unfortunately, in this part of the world, not everyone takes it serious. I feel for you Baba-Ijesha.

I always tell people this, "no matter how much you get tempted to skip true friendship test before dating anyone, please don't do it". E GET Y.
Ignore the Y and the number of X(es) in your record will be on the rise like Nigeria's covid cases.
Always date your true friend. I repeat TRUE FRIEND.

Just imagine if a fish was paid to swim, or a bird to fly; that would be called, "getting paid to have fun.
Fly with me on a private jet of imaginations and picture a world where people were paid to have fun( exhibit their gifts), that's exactly what I mean. Many people live, but only a few enjoy living life. Do you know why? It's because the later are those I call " Lions trying to become Leopard".
To save your time, examine the ten keys below properly like your life depends on it, and unlock the door of purpose.

Ten Keys To Becoming You

1. Confirm Your Purpose
Verify the original vision God had for your life. Take
everything you thought you were, give it to him and
let him show you what you have never seen. "Only a manufacturer understands his products best".

2. Document Your Vision
Visualize your destiny. What plans do you need to
make to accomplish it? Who could help you fulfill
your purpose while fulfilling their own? "Partners complements purpose.

3. Discover Your Potential
Assess your gifts, skills and abilities. Then develop
and refine them. " imagine if Lionel Messi chose to become a Banker".

4. Maintain Your Passion
Do this through prayer, nurturing an active desire to
see your purpose manifested and being persistent.

5. Earn Trust
Be trustworthy so that others can have confidence in
you.

6. Preserve Integrity
Guard your heart and make sure your motives are pure, and your actions are in accordance with the nature of the Creator.

7. Establish Values and Principles
Know who you are and for what you stand. Learn
discipline and self-management. Know the nature and
qualities of a servant leader and practice them.

8. Cultivate the Spirit of Faith
Cultivate a trust in the Creator through prayer and
acquaintance with God’s Word. Have faith that he will
fulfill his purposes for your life so you can be the
leader He created you to be.

9. Dare to Explore the Unknown
Explore the dreams, ideas, people and resources you
need to serve your gift to the world.

10. Be Yourself by “Serving Yourself”
Practice servant leadership by actively serving your
gifts on behalf of those around you. When you cease
functioning, you lose your value.

I hope with the few points above, you have been convinced and not confused that living a purposeful life is the best.
Thanks for reading.