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And that's a post and half.

condralbede:
This happened at around 11:pm in an uncompleted building,Watin dat girl follow dt boy go do for uncompleted building as of dt tym

thought the exact same thing.

Originakalokalo:
The Dumbest guys are d ones that are quick to see mistakes in evry post

Most of them cannot speak gud english....

I wont correct that....if u dont know it was a mistake, then you shuld go back to secondary skul..

@ reasonable contributors,

its due to my experiences....

Common sense can even verify that claim.....if a lady is attractive, she doesnt need to come online for a date....even after a break-up, she wuld be taken instantly.....guys are alredy on queue......

hmmm...I Dont totally agree with that...we have gorgeous single girls all over the social network but the ugly ones are more in number shaaa

ApolloFist:
People on this post are 10 styles of stupid. South African girls aren't crazy for Nigerian men. A certain type of South African girl likes Nigerian men. I'm in finance and work between Johannesburg (Sandton) and Lagos (Ikeja). In Sandton, Africa's richest square mile. You'll find girls clad in mini skirts and a weave pounding on their iPhones waiting for their rich Nigerian 'boyfriends' to entertain them. (At those times South African men are in the office or board room making deals. Those times are our office hours.) Here's something you should know about women. Women love money. Especially black women. If you're a rich guy and have money to spend. You'll also have women at your beck and call. Women are crazy about men who splurge on them. Since Nigerian guys will even go as far as paying for their rent, weaves & in most cases her child's fees. (because she had a son with a dead beat.)those girls will gravitate towards Nigerians. You'll also notice that you'll hardly ever see a Nigerian with a career girl or a girl who has her act together because those girls already have money and need you to talk a good game to get them. Now let me let you in on a hard fact. Most of the girls Nigerians run into are generally promiscuous. Where she's had a string of lovers screw her over and now she's branching out so to speak. (This is why most Nigerian men think South African women are easy or slutty. That's who they run into.) The other types have bills to pay and are too lazy to get jobs. (You'll notice that these girls can get $20K out of a guy but she'll never use that money to go school or improve herself in an intellectual manner.) And in all honesty, a lot of the girls they attract aren't that bright either. I'm sure you've heard of SA girls coming to Victoria Island, lodging in Eko Hotel for a week or so & back to South Africa.(With a few thousand dollars in tow.) Most of these girls have more than one 'boyfriend'. I mean most of these guys make their money in Lagos. She's in South Africa. They only meet when he flies down or she flies up. on his wallet. Do the math. And when a lot of these girls are in V.I they get themselves into orgies and 3 ways.(hmmmm, now there's a girl after my own heart.) That's insight into the types of girls most Nigerians attract. Bitches and hoes. Not all but most.

Now as far as South African men being lazy. Lets look at that. If the girls you run into are promiscuous and lazy. Have kids with dead beat dads. And have no jobs of their own. What does that tell you? The girls Nigerians attract used to attract losers for boyfriends in SA. Plus Successful SA don't pay for pussy like that and we damn sure aren't there to save a hoe. We're too gangsta. We're like Americans. We treat ladies like ladies and we treat bitches and hoes, like bitches and hoes. Case closed. If you compare living standards in Nigeria to South Africa. Nigeria is akin to Pakistan, India, The US or China. Dog eat dog. Highly populated regions usually are. But now appropriate it to Africa, which a new kind of difficult. South Africa is like a European country such as Italy or Spain. Lots of money is being made but its also fairly relaxed. So? Nigeria is a difficult place to live in. Everything costs money. Even asking someone for directions will cost you. Because there are so many people after pretty much the same thing, you have to develop certain traits that come with navigating in such strenuous conditions. Thick skin, cunning, a sense of emergency, hustle savvy etc. Same goes for China, America, Pakistan and India. You HAVE TO be all those things otherwise you're literally bleeped. You won't survive. Its not endowed, its conditioned. That's why you find Pakistanis everywhere, you find Americans everywhere, you find Chinese people everywhere and you find Nigerians everywhere. And they all have the same traits. A heightened sense of emergency, hustle savvy & a go getter attitude. Thats why money is idealized so much in all those countries. You HAVE TO HAVE lots of it. Everything costs. Even asking for directions. South Africa is different. South Africa is akin to a European state with a healthy economy but low population numbers.(South Africa even has similar weather to Europe. That is why whites love it so much.) We have less than 2/3rds your economy so competition isn't as pronounced. In South Africa a guy can take 5 years off to find himself and then get on with his life. The economy is that good. The situation is that relaxed. Our government serves us in most aspects and our impoverished live in relative paradise when compared to most Nigerians. (My gawd I've seen a level of poor even I couldn't comprehend until I got there.) When I got Lagos I had to adjust to all that and it made sense as to why Nigerians are so quick, so to speak. Now, with regards to wealth. Yes Nigeria's wealthy are really wealthy. They have the population to support them. And if things develop like they are Nigeria could very well be like America. Healthy economy, high population. People are the life blood of the economy and as you know. More people, more money.

I will give Nigerians credit for a couple of things. They do take better care of our bitches and hoes than we do. In fact, they take better care of a girl than your average South African guy. They are better looking (I'd imagine if I was a girl, I'd go for a manly looking man and SA guys aren't too manly looking. Where west African genes are male focused. South African genes are female focused. Thats why our women are way hotter than Nigerian women. Compared to SA girls, Nigerian girls are tougher and have a more male like body shape. No hips, no ass, no waste. But when SA men get fat, they too get a big ass tltltlt )They come to South Africa and fill in missing gaps that a lot of South Africans fail to see. You guys have entrepreneurial savvy akin to Pakistanis. But when a South African is entrepreneurial, its endowed not conditioned. As a result most South Africans seek out jobs. What South Africans don't realize, that Nigerians, Pakistanis and Indians realized is that there is no magic wand that will fix our problems. We have to roll up our sleeves and get on with life. Nigerians, Chinese and Pakistanis are showing us that. But in South Africa we apply our work ethics differently from Nigerians. South Africans are raised to be the best at what they do. We are taught to chase excellence because money is a bi product of success. Our rich, aren't flying off to exotic countries to lay women. They are there to make deals. In fact South African men who have it together would much rather work on their skills and improving their status than spend thousands of dollars on bitches. We see things like spending 20K on a shoe as reckless spending. We don't find pride in having stuff because A. When we buy stuff, it enriches the people that make it, not the customer. B. We don't take pride in things we didn't make. Yes we like nice things. But we like family and certain success more. We'd rather put our families through school than pay for some chicks rent money. (Well until we get to a certain age. then anything goes.) That's why before Nigerians those same girls were in the arms of some guy who's twice her age.

Gold diggers, bitches and hoes. They've existed since the dawn of economics. They are there to entertain rich guys. Women love rich guys. Nigerians who are with South African girls are usually rich guys. Its not special. its economics. They'll screw any type of guy with lots of money. Sorry but its true.

Also if you ask, How come South African men don't date Nigerian girls then? Its because South African men aren't attracted to Nigerian women. (I think we all know why.)

.learnt a lot from your post

OK na

concur

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omotolsy:
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Liability:
get her the phone

of course I'm even planning on getting her an apple laptop... :-D

Emmysteve:
See this FOOOOOL

no mind the guy...that's his own contribution

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Mobebi:
Na old wine de sweet pass ....

walahi e dey sweet more than anything..have been there done that.

marieolae:
u can't say she's irresponsible if her man is not doing her right na..

what's she doing with him at the first place When she knows he's not doing her right?

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Chaiiiiii..I don fall victim for number 1

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baccaspace:
Had to take off

why?

Be yourself , Never imitate anyone or anythig cos if you do you're on a longtin my brother...LOVE WHO YOU ARe, ONE DAy YOU WILL BE APPRECIATED FOR THAT