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Just an Advice for you as I have been in such scenario before. don't let it get to you and start affection your emotions. I know it's hard but it's just the sad truth I will tell you if only you can do these you will be fine.

1. don't ever call her again and don't bother to know about her well being and don't send shishi to her

2. try and much as possible to leave the child to her no matter what it takes you.

once the child grows, he will ask her where is my father.

if you can do these things. though it's hard. you will surely get your sanity and focus on your life. always be prayerful.