₦airaland Forum

shdemidemi: Have you heard from him today? If not when was the last time you heard?

In what voice did you hear, boy, girl, baby or in a man's voice?

In what Voice does the Holy Spirit speaks to His own? If you cannot answer that,then i am afraid i can't help you!

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EnlightenedSoul: Anybody who nowadays claims to have heard from "God", should be declared clinically insane on the spot. No further examination necessary.

For instance, when you hear a "man of God" openly tell us that "God" told him to impregnate his congregation, we should all assume that he was holding a very holy and convincing conversation with his penis_ the night before.

The fact that some men are using "God said or spoke to me" to defraud people or for their own gain(detriment actually) does not mean God cannot or does not speak to His own. God has been speakin(vis His Word and His Spirit) and He is still speaking today!
The fact that some people cannot or do not hear God spoke to them does not negate that fact!

Truely God speaks through His Word. But i don't get,is the Op saying God doesn't speak to His children through other means?

I am expecting mine too o...congrats Op!

aisha2: If she was one of such greedy ladies then why would she stay, shut up and pretend while enjoying money?
She had everything at her disposal, many politicians do worse yet their wives stay, she didnt, she tried to run severally and when she could she shouted out for help and help came and she is starting afresh today. What would it have cost her to stay and enjoy her "loot" if she was greedy?

She didnt need to work one more day in her life is she did what other good "runs" girls do and turn a blind eye, he expectations from the marriage were obviously different and she could not pretend and enjoy money as most greedy girls would have done, that should tell us something but NO, we are too busy in the mud to look up and face the truth. We must dirty and colour it to suit our taste

haven't you heard of elastic limit before? I am sure she must have been thinking that the situation can be managed,who doesn't want to be a governors wife?
I don't actually need all the lectures because i know the full story,i was in Enugu when the whole saga began,and i followed the story. My interest is based on the fact that you said she was nt a 'runs' girl,i would rather not say anything on that.
I don't actually knw how some ladies think,if she is not greedy,why can't she find out the reason why he divorced his first wife before jumping to marry him?
Well,i am happy that she is out though,atleast she must have learnt some lessons!

bigbumper: Ha, I see you have a hard time grasping how to connect the dot too


Governor Chime's behaviour towards his first wife was not a secret. Clara knew what she was walking into as second wife... Just like Dino Melaye whose second wife just walked despite knowing how Dino treated/abused the first wife... Case in point, see your quote below





So If you want to be expressing this sympathy to second wives who went into the union knowing how cruelly the same man dealt with the first wife, feel free to do your thing and leave me be to pitch my own tent with the first wives club.

Shikena

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aisha2: My dear, what runs girl will abandon a "gold mine" because she was badly treated? Dont women endure worse and stay quite for the money?

Common sense should tell us that a girl willing to leave such luxury and benefits and not stay put and "manage" has some standards.

A runs girl will die there and even be the one organizing babes for him as long as the money keeps rolling.

What Benefit is it for Clara raising dust and leaving him? Her life is on social media, Her son is taken from her, she has to start her life all over. She would have benefitted more staying put and keeping shut.

She DIDNT, immediately she noticed the issues she shouted out and tried to leave several time, what runs girl does that? A runs girl actually expects that and stays grins, smiles for the camera and bares it.

Sorry dear,there is still alot to learn o. Some ladies are not just satisfied,the fact that she had a job doesnt negate the fact that she cld be a 'runsl girl!
Haven't you heard abt female bankers sleeping around even with their colleagues? And trust me,they are not marketers! My brother almost lost his job,lied on and locked up for 48hrs because he would not succumb to his bank branch manager advances-a married woman o!
Plssss

virago: Okay but we also learnt she was already dating Chime while he was still married to his ex wife and she was instrumental to the ex wife leaving. At that time she was a colleague/course mate/ class mate to Chime's daughter so she isn't totally free from blame. Karma is a bitch.

Yes and a patient one too!

eighTHREAD: am glad an advocate of divorce knows this. She knew how troublesome he was which made his first wife leave him, yet she married him which I think was because of his societal status, disregarding the good but not rich men coming her way. Feminists will pick her case of abuse and start spreading hate without considering how far she went before gtting to the present point. They won't know she subjected herself to it. More ladies(blind ones) coming for the man.

The bolded is what i saw on the first page and i just smh.
All these feminists,always holding unto a side of a story. Some men are in trouble!

Hangelar: Pls how and where can I register for the position of NECO examiner? I read somewhere before the nairaland tsunami that marking of NECO scripts will commence in August, but I still don't have any idea on how to register for it. I don't wanna miss this chance, as I did with WAEC ooo.

Go to NECO office and submit your credentials before August 14. Marking starts August 14.

How can you cheat on your spouse and still be able to look him/her in the face? Such individual is more or less a murderer.

Onegai: Men use it as an excuse: "I love my wife, my gfs outside dare not disrespect her!". It's the same deception we use as Nigerians to be going to church anyhow, yet be a nation of corrupt individuals. Lack of Discipline. However, let me give a warning to men:

Women can outdo you and cook your soup with a straight face.

I've stopped counting the cases I've heard of cheating wives. And yes, they justify it even better than the men (we women learnt from the best ). Was it the one with her ex (that's the common one, here's a hint man, when your wife "loses" her phone, it's because her fellowship/friends advised her to change it so she breaks off contact with the guy she's cheating with).
Or the lady whose husband kept saying "I love you" but cheated profusely (every uni student in the club, he would sleep with). Was it not during marriage counselling, she too said she endured his cheating for 7 yrs, but then met a young banker in her office, when they go for marketing, they would divert to a hotel after, and she would come home and make fresh stew for her cheating hubby?? See her husband crying that day.

You cannot respect me and be wanting to lick Ogbono soup outside, for a difference, you will discipline and train yourself to manage that vegetable soup. Or me too, I will tell myself "I love beef, but once in a while, sausage is nice". And I will serve you fresh soup with a very straight, prayerful, submissive face.

You are very correct. As in with "a straight face".

One sunday after mass,i just decided to check my brother at the choir stand which was beside the vestry,i was shocked to see the choirmaster masturbating!

Tovot: yes, but it has been raining non stop since yesterday, and I had to wash. the rain has subsided now, the holiday has finished o, chai, there is work tomorrow.

Lol. Yes since yesterday.
*smiles*

Tovot: yes, but it has soaked the dresses I washed.

hmmm,sorry about that. One needs to watch the weather before washing these days.

I remember a time when an uncle came visiting,after about 45mins,he was served a pplate of pounded yam with egusi soup. After consuming the food speedily,it was then that he asked jokingly,"where did you buy this food"? I was like buy ke,emi ni mo ma shey. Till today,he never forgets that experience.Lol.
#meanwhile read my signature!

Peeling the bean is okay for moi-moi,but for akara(bean cake),i don't think its necessary.
#mywaythough.

runzlord: not as hard as plantain, i can with potato but plantain(dodo) even bfore i fry it, after rubing salt on it, im already eating it.

is adding salt actually necessary?

It is not possible o.

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Op.
1. How does self-servicing glorifies God?
2. Have you heard of the 'Lust of the flesh', 'Lust of the eyes'?

Olusanya333: God Speaks in the following ways
-The Word
-Dreams
-Vision & revelation
-Still small voice
-Loud Audible voice(dat sound like thunder,its always terrible)
The Truth is u stop listening to wot man says den rely on God.

In addition,we have:
-inward witness.
-inward voice
-knowings
-open vision/revelation/inward vision/trance.
-prophecy.
Whichever way God speaks to you,note that the Holy Spirit is the chief supervisor. Also God will not say anything to you contrary to His Word,whatever you heard that does not align with His Word is not from God. Again, we are not supposed to 'seek' a particular way,the Holy Spirit decides on the best way to speak to us depending on how sensitive we are to Him!
-voice of the Holy Spirit

Tovot: mine's going Great, very relaxing. and the weather's just Heaven sent.

truely heaven sent. It's been raining non-stop.

Tovot: Goodday Minty, hows your sallah holiday going?

good and fun filled. Yours?

Good afternoon everyone.

ogawisdom: If no one makes 7 then she shld reduce d cut off mark to 6 or 5

Lol

maingwaest: . Exactly.

Lol.

maingwaest: I just read this to hubby and ask him same question , the look he gave me,answered the question.

Lol, the "are you kidding me" kind of look.

Funny,at age 26,so many ladies would be worried that they are not married not to talk of being single.
Op,there is nothing to be afraid of actually. I just hope you are not the kind that has a list of 15-things i want in a man.