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dagr8: lol,may be I should reframe the question. You have a dream you cherish so much, a time came for you to step out to achieve the dream, your hubby is not in support of it and knowing the Bible asks the wives to be submissive. Would you go against the husband's authority and still go ahead with the dream or you would give up the dream?

yetseyi: really why on earth would a woman not want hussy to be more sucessful
Like I said earlier sebi @ are now one flesh


Hubbys sucess is wifeys sucess
Wifeys sucess is husby sucess

The moment the individual doesnt see things this way then na real wa

I dunno sha but people see things differently.
I thought 2 should become 1

ujsizzle: I can't help but wonder if you'll think the same way should your husband earn a monthly emolument that's not sufficient to cater for yours and the children's needs.

A lot of people need to grow up mentally. Marriage goes beyond what's good for me and my feelings to what's beneficial for us and our needs.
If a man's pride always gets in the way of progress foe the unit, then a woman's emotional response might just as well be validated too.
Certain feelings and emotions can be trained out of us if we even bother to try. Let's stop trying to validate childish behaviors please and start encouraging one another to grow mentally, physically and spiritually.
Take pride in the family unit. Take pride in your wife's success, because as long as she respects you as the head your ego should stay very much intact. What's the point of a help mate if you won't give her the chance of actually being useful if your domestic economy is low or literally nonexistent? How will she be helpful if you kept stifling every attempt for her to blossom in the past all because of your pride and ego?

Mynd44: You go tire. African men can't stand their women being more successful than them. it has being hardwired into their heads

sauer: Good night, mint

smileysmiles: go. and sleep!!! ahn ahn wassapen na!

smileysmiles: come again tomorrow.. and bring ur female friends too goodnight everyone. sweet dreams

smileysmiles: oh.. wow. aii.. bed time. good night

smileysmiles: 1million %

smileysmiles: *yawns loudly* goodnight brother

smileysmiles: ssssshhhhhh let wittie leave first

smileysmiles: *faints* i give up

wittie: see dem

Enjoy the cold of the night together. I'm off to bed

smileysmiles: neither do i... dat leaves suarez and wittie ummnn interesting

wittie: Sofia Balbi and Luiz Suarez

smileysmiles: hahahahaha u pple are coupling without ny knowledge??

smileysmiles: dis is funny... who "are" d first couple

wittie: I'll try. Before then, woo another NL babe for me. So, we'll two couples here

smileysmiles: oh.. sorry.. i apologise on behalf of the dog. i blame its owner

wittie: Mintayo, sorry for that experience

smileysmiles: funny enof a dog bit me when i was younger too. it dint make a difference

smileysmiles: cats are cray n tooooo sneaky for my liking

sauer: I don't have preference for either. I like parrots.

smileysmiles: cats are cray n tooooo sneaky for my liking

smileysmiles: very funny

smileysmiles: they sell na. dont be decieved by looks tho. mine is craayyy. wakes up early and wakes the whole house (past 6) very troublesome dog

smileysmiles: really lol

smileysmiles: i drop the phone at 1 and try to sleep. my "alarmDog" starts barking at past 6