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IT AMAZES ME THAT IT IS MOSTLY WOMEN THAT CLING TO RELIGION WHICH HAS CONDEMNED AND STILL CONDEMNS THEM. THERE'S NOT A SINGLE RELIGION THAT VALUES WOMEN, OR HAVE ANYTHING IN THEIR INTEREST.
EVERY MAJOR WORLD RELIGION – WITHOUT EXCEPTION – IS INTENSELY PATRIARCHAL. EVERY ONE OF THEM ENGAGES IN THE SYSTEMATIC DEVALUATION OF WOMEN, IN THE SYSTEMATIC EXCLUSION OF WOMEN FROM POSITIONS OF AUTHORITY, AND IN THE SYSTEMATIC OPPRESSION AND EVEN ENSLAVEMENT OF WOMEN.

WOMEN ARE ALWAYS PRAYING, ALWAYS IN CHURCH, ALWAYS SUBMITTING TO ONE DADDY PASTOR OR WORSHIPPING A REVEREND PASTOR. BUT THEIR RELIGION PLACES THEM NEXT TO USELESS.

THE SHARIA CODE DENIES WOMEN THEIR RIGHT TO AN EDUCATION, TO MEDICAL CARE, OR TO GO OUT IN PUBLIC UNACCOMPANIED BY A MALE RELATIVE, IN ADDITION TO MANY OTHER FORMS OF CRUELTY, AND PUNISHES TRANSGRESSIONS WITH BARBARIC ACTS SUCH AS FLOGGING AND STONING.

IN MANY MUSLIM COUNTRIES, THE PRACTICE OF “HONOR KILLING” – MURDERING FEMALE RELATIVES WHO HAVE BEEN RAPED, AS A WAY TO CLEANSE THE SHAME THEY HAVE BROUGHT ON THEIR FAMILY BY BEING THE VICTIM OF SUCH A CRIME – STILL OCCURS.
LIKE.. IF MY SISTER GETS RAPED (OR GETS PREGNANT OUT OF WEDLOCK), I'M SUPPOSED TO TIE HER DOWN IN A GATHERING OF OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS AND SLIT HER THROAT IN ORDER TO CLEANSE SHAME FROM OUR FAMILY. EVERYONE LOVES THIS IDEA.

AND THEN THERE IS THE BEST-KNOWN MANIFESTATION OF ISLAM’S INHUMANITY TO WOMEN: THE SUFFOCATING SHROUDS OF BLACK CLOTH DESIGNED TO STRIP THEM OF THEIR INDIVIDUALITY AND TO MAKE THEM FACELESS, INVISIBLE AND LESS THAN HUMAN.
WOMEN ARE MADE TO WALK AROUND DRESSED LIKE TURTLE NINJAS UNDER THIS SCORCHING AFRICAN SUN, WHILE MEN ARE FREE TO WEAR WHATEVER THEY WANT. WOMEN ARE NOT PERMITTED TO DRIVE CARS OR GIVE THEIR OPINION IN PUBLIC WHILE MEN CAN DO WHATEVER THEY WANT. REVEREND SISTERS MUST BE UNDER RULES AND SECURITY ALL THE TIME WHILE REVEREND FATHERS CAN ROAM LIKE A BIRD. THE CHURCH OF GOD, THEY SAY, BUT A WOMAN CAN NEVER BE POPE, CAN NEVER RULE OVER ALL CATHOLICS BECAUSE GOD'S PREFERRED GENDER IS MALE.

EVEN THE SUPPOSEDLY MORE ENLIGHTENED EASTERN RELIGIONS ARE NOT MUCH BETTER WHEN IT COMES TO TREATING WOMEN AS EQUALS AND AS HUMAN BEINGS.
IN HINDUISM, THE MOST INFAMOUS EXAMPLE IS PROBABLY THE PRACTICE OF "SATI" , IN WHICH WIDOWED WOMEN WERE EXPECTED TO BURN THEMSELVES TO DEATH ON THEIR HUSBAND’S FUNERAL PYRE. ALTHOUGH THIS WAS ALLEGEDLY A VOLUNTARY ACT, IN PRACTICE IT WAS OFTEN INVOLUNTARY, WITH WOMEN DRUGGED, BOUND OR OTHERWISE RESTRAINED BEFORE BEING COMMITTED ALIVE TO THE FLAMES.

RELIGIONS WERE DESIGNED TO PUT PEOPLE UNDER CONTROL. AND WOMEN ARE ON THE BOTTOM OF THE HIERARCHY.

you know you're lost when you argue against women on a topic thats meant to uplift women.

Simping is a sin. Cowards never enter Heaven. go read Revelation

Cuteamigo1:
Nice observation. what i think and also belive is that respect, submission is not an automatic ticket, it should be earned but also a woman must earn my love for her and for that to happen she must tick some certain boxes in my checklist. look inward and ask yourself what you want then proceed but i dont belive all marriage must follow a single format.

real niggahs know this shìt. yes.
i love her, she submits.if i must earn her submission then she must also earn my love.
some fake geniuses up in here cant even figure this out.

meanwhile real niggahs like us have bitchès kneeling to save us food.

not even my 7 yr old nephew simps like this Hanseel1 guy. that little man gona rule the women when his time comes. i can see it.
meanwhile a 30yr old is busy ass licking NON-VIRGINS for that matter. this guy must be nuts!

Hanseel1 its time to grow balls.

Hanseel1 is more Feminist than the feminists themselves.
i wonder if they promised the man-hating man a pvssy of his own. niggah how can you betray your kind like this? and for what? a pat on the back : good boy!!
i spit

Hanseel1:
I've come to realize that most African women are so much stucked to Stockholm syndrome to the extent of being beyond redemption.

If she can quote that verse from the bible, she should quote the verse where non virgins are supposed to be stoned and should've no place in the society.

The Bible is against women folks in everything.

just close your mouth. women have to agree with you or else they are not thinking straight?? who are you that you now know whats good for women? are you God now? have you created your own women?
niggah just zip it.

Cuteamigo1:
NAIRALANDERS WILL NEVER CHANGE.
I have this neighbor, he's a househusband while his wife is the bread winner. He's the one that cooks, cleans, washes etc while the wife makes all the money. He's not ashamed to ask her "sweetheart what will you have for dinner when you return.
We often see him run out of his house to open the gate for his sweetheart and carry her handbag when she returns. The woman in return will "sweetheart him this and that"
They have been married for over 15yrs and just like most couples they are relatively happy. They are also very good Christians, the man will soon be a pastor in his church.. A popular church in Nigeria .......
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When it comes to Marriage, do what works for you......................................................

Years ago, I accompanied a colleague to meet an intending client. She has already told me the woman in question is a true African woman. She told me how this woman still kneels before her husband and wouldn't stand until he tells her to do so.
On that day we went to visit, her husband was home. She came to enquire what he would eat and like my colleague had already told me, she knelt before him.
Just immediately, his phone rang and he was on the phone for over 20mins and this lady knelt there until the man came to ask her to stand.
I later found out, she has the best things money can buy; rides ,the best cars, tours all over the world courtesy of her husband.... She still brags how her total submission is a means to her luxuriant lifestyle . Her husband is always bragging about how God blessed him with the bone of his bones n he will do everything to make her happy.......
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When it comes to Marriage, do what works for you ............................................................

I once lived with a sister before I got married, she's been married for over 20yrs and in all these years she's has never washed her own panties let alone her husband's clothes, she has never cleaned her house, she has never driven herself. She doesn't cook. If she ever cooks, it's always small chops and finger foods for her hubby alone. She has over 25 domestic staff serving her, her hubby n kids.
Her husband is a multi billionaire who can afford the multitude of domestic staffs in their home.
Her husband has continued to thank our family for giving him such a wife. She is his eyes.. She makes sure nothing goes wrong in his business empire and home.... She is the best wife for him and the man can't stop singing it. Both of them have continued to live happily ever after in their castle
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When it comes to Marriage, do what works for you ..................................................................

There is this man, a family friend who will openly tell people "I will discuss with my wife" I can't take any decisions without her... Whatever both of us agree then I will abide by it"
Both of them must agree on a property to buy before he pays for it. They must agree on a vacation destination, on a car to buy etc before anything...
Even though the wife contributes little or nothing to most of this stuffs, they still abide by mutual decision taking........ Mutual decision taking is the bed rock of their successful marriage of 13 years and both of them are not ashamed to tell it......
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When it comes to Marriage do what works for you ............................................................

I have seen different kinds of UNILATERAL ADVICE dished out to people on how to run their marriages especially on social media...

"A woman must do this and that for her marriage to work". A man must do this and that

Personally, I don't think there is anything wrong with seeking for advice but while at it... make sure you look inwards first and ask yourself " is this advice good for me and can it work for me in my home . Then you can make your decision

As far as I'm concerned, the golden rule of any marriage is that which the couples have agreed to do. For as long as the people in the marriage have made that decision and they are both genuinely happy with it then it becomes their ultimate guide .

We must never forget that no two marriages are the same... We may have relative issues in different marriages but no two marriages can ever be the same .



Every marriage is personal to the people in it and they must come together , look inwards and make decisions that would work for them both.

I could sound it over and over again........
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"When it comes to Marriage do what works for you.
What rocks the boat of Mr A may sink the ship of Mr B."

Gracias....
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now that you have studied all these, how about you tell us what YOU think. not what you read.

dear Hanseel1 you dont get pvssy by being a pvssy

continue this way it will be another 5 yrs again till you taste pvssy. are you not tired of worshipping vagina but not getting laid? mahn it has to be tiring!!!

Hanseel1:
You're too dumb to participate in this debate.

Don't quote me next time, okay?

which debate? you mean this Ass Lickers debate? of vagina worship and pedestalizing pvssy. even when women are telling you of your craziness? are you joking?

Male Feminists are overzealous until reality hits them square in the face. Canadian PM Justin Trudeau has been making noise chasing down any and all men accused of sexual harrasment in parliament, no matter how weak the case. pushing a zero tolerance policy ...........until a woman accused him of sexual harassment himself. last week. From 18 yrs ago! now he doesnt know what to do.

male feminists sooner or later face reality and see just how they have been too much all along.

just see how Hanseel1 AKA Elder001 is even more passionate about feminism than the feminists themselves. pathetic.

Ass Lickers Anonymous

Hanseel1:
When people say romance section is filled with stupid, unintelligent and crazy people, I usually dismiss them as false claims but I've come to realize that they are right.

Your slavery of the mind is beyond redemption.
You created a thread and you advised only women to learn how to cook ,why didn't you tell men to learn how to cook?

You once claimed that you're a mature lady and this section is filled with kid but you were indirectly talking about yourself.

And she's insulting me? I really don't expect much from you. Typical dumb and primitive African lady.

Like I told someone here, until you travel beyond the shores of Africa you won't be wise enough to decipher my massage from this post.

Male Feminists and their overzealousness.
now you even arguing with women themselves who are telling you of your error? whats next you gona want men to hive birth too?

and a Chinese male reporter was kissed TWICE on camera by female Russian fans and you decided to stick your heads up your asses and pretend you didnt see it.

adontcare:
y not, Na to prostrate remain.

okey i cant understand your statement

adontcare:
Na so d bible teach u? What of to wipe ur bum and trim ur nails or even brush ya teeth. In fact wife should crawl in ur presence to show how submissive she is. I greet u Mr Africa

you cant kneel?

adontcare:
OK. What do u understand by submit? That is what u think it is o. because I know dat submission in d bible context means following d leadership of ur husband and not leading d man. Since he is d Head.

agreed. plus this:
kneel when you serve food.

adontcare:
don't forget to read ur bible too. Not one sided reading. Eph5:21. Submitting to one another. Try and study and understand d bible too. Since ur argument is based on d bible. Some.People don't understand what d bible means when they don't read it to understand. 'Submit' in dis context does not mean slavery

who said anything about slavery.
you women dont even know what Submit means. another even told me Submit means Control. what the hell is that.??

adontcare:
the same bible said submit to one another. Wife submit to ur husband and husband love ur wife. As christ love the church.Submission and love which is greater? Men don't want to love but want submission. In dis mind, submission= slavery. To wash, cook, bath kids, clean house, even if d wife is sick, they don't care as far as dey are concerned, d wife must submit. U will see on Sunday morning, d man will bath himself and start hurrying his wife with 3 kids to meet up his time without assisting. She will bath, feed and dress d kids up. And still want to be served breakfast. It is well

so we agree : wives SUBMIT. husbands LOVE

all the rest is you describing what you have seen people do. dont study people. study the Bible.

dont be dumb. take down this rubbish. and go do your research.

"Read carefully to the end" but there is no end

just show her money and it wont matter

Hanseel1:
A low IQ individual who have never left the shores of Africa decided to contaminate this thread by including the Bible.
We all know that the Bible is a sexist book written by misogynistic and sexist men to favour men in so many ways.

Slavery of the mind and slavery of religion can be worse than death.

but the Bible is the book that mentions female submission to men. how is it a low IQ issue that someone quoted the Bible?

MhisTahrah:
Cos you pretending like you didn't get my point.

which is a fancy way of saying:

MISEDUCATIONS:
why coz i dont agree with you?

Abiiiike:
Smiles... look at you exposing your stupidity

you think being called stupid phases me? i laugh!!!
if a virgin crosses my path i disvirgin without mercy. when its time to marry i demand a hymen. call me names. it changes nothing.

Abiiiike:
Bleep head! I bet you would Bleep and break other ladies hymen and expect that the woman you eventually marry is a virgin.. chauvinistic bastard!

definitely. if you're cheap i'll fvck that hymen to bits and still demand to marry a virgin.
its eat or be eaten. be stupid and you'll pay the price.

MariaLavina:
k

no answer. smh. just walk away.

MhisTahrah:
This is tiring, bye.

why coz i dont agree with you?

MariaLavina:
Lol....Learn how to engage women in conversations, you started well but lost it along the line. Asking a such a question on a forum is an insult to a sane woman. Grow up!

in which country is it an insult to ask about the Hymen?
is it not part of a woman's body like the clitoris and vagina.? or it just hurts coz its a part you no longer have? if so, how does that become a crime i must earn an insult for?