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princeking2:
Oga,
you should know b4 now that why she went into rltshp with you is marriage. If you are not ready just ask her for some reasonable time and be sincere, if she agrees, good but if not pls let her go.

Oga, thanks for the advice. I am dating her with intentions of marriage, it's just that... we're still at a stage of getting to really know each other. I don't want to rush things, I want it to naturally happen. But thanks...

My Colombian girlfriend has been hinting that she wants to settle down and get married soon. She started talking about having kids and how many. Despite all that sounding great, I do believe that we’re not ready for it. It has only been 7 months since we met through LoveMe site and despite things going well and serious between us, I still think we’re not in a stage where we should be talking about marriage.

We’ve already met and it has only been twice since we’ve been together face to face and although I agree that the distance is really troublesome, I want us to progress in a healthy time and way. I don’t want to hurt her when I talk to her about the fact that I get a bit uncomfortable when she talks about “starting a family.” Even though we are both financially stable and I know that we can afford to do all that… I just don’t feel that it’s the right time.

It’s not like I’m saying that I won’t be marrying her nor do I have no intentions to… it’s just that, it’s not the time for me yet. So how can I tell her without hurting her feelings? I don’t want to lose her and I don’t want this to be a reason for trouble between us, especially with this distance… what should I do? I need HELP!

Last year, I joined AFA’s romance tour in the Philippines. I enjoyed the attractions, food, and even the hospitality of the people.
But most of all, this tour was the main reason I met Jolina, my girlfriend.
Jolina is a very loving, sophisticated, and kind. I met her during the tour’s social night.

After that, I asked her out and we decided to be exclusive.

I visited her every two months in the Philippines.
We get along together. We are a perfect match. I am so sure about that. I’ve also met her family already.

Again, the hospitality is always present in the Filipino culture.
We’ve been in a long distance relationship for a year. At first, it was fine but in the long run it became difficult.
I want to see her all the time. I want to be with her already!

I want to marry her ASAP!

Long distance kills me. So I’m planning to propose to her on my next visit.
I don’t care if it will cost much to me, my purpose is to marry her.

I know y’all knows what it feels to be in a long distance relationship.
So do you think it’s time already to propose to her?

What advices would you want to give me regarding the state we’re in today?
Your responses are very much appreciated.

Last year, I joined AFA’s romance tour in the Philippines. I enjoyed the attractions, food, and even the hospitality of the people.
But most of all, this tour was the main reason I met Jolina, my girlfriend.
Jolina is a very loving, sophisticated, and kind. I met her during the tour’s social night.

After that, I asked her out and we decided to be exclusive.

I visited her every two months in the Philippines.
We get along together. We are a perfect match. I am so sure about that. I’ve also met her family already.

Again, the hospitality is always present in the Filipino culture.
We’ve been in a long distance relationship for a year. At first, it was fine but in the long run it became difficult.
I want to see her all the time. I want to be with her already!

I want to marry her ASAP!

Long distance kills me. So I’m planning to propose to her on my next visit.
I don’t care if it will cost much to me, my purpose is to marry her.

I know y’all knows what it feels to be in a long distance relationship.
So do you think it’s time already to propose to her?

What advices would you want to give me regarding the state we’re in today?
Your responses are very much appreciated.