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Donald3d:
Calm down ma'am , what else have you done to help him fix the bad breath , apart from telling him he has a bad breath .

If you love him enough you should have made research and you would have seen that there are some food supplements and natural ingredients you can add to his food to help him.Ginger is one of those things , funny enough ginger also helps boost libido. (My apology in advance if you have tried to help him apart from just talking to him).

Telling somebody he has bad breath is a very sensitive thing , how do you put it to him ?

You are claiming his penetrative sex is wax , does sex have to be a one way street ?, you also dont have to just lie down and waait to be serviced ?.Learn how to give it to him too .

No offense but you sound like a nag ma'am , you sound like a person that complains about everything , but is not ready to make amends on her own part and try to make things work (My apologies if I am wrong , I am just typing based on the way you talk here)

He cant fix things in the house ? -> Get youtube videoss for him , tell him honey leyts watch this together and fix it together

Besides you shouldn't have used the word latrine , even though it actually smells like latrine .

The earlier people view marriage as partnership , the better for everyone , including the kids .

wheew I have never being so blunt on Nairaland before , I am sorry if you feel ofended , I just had to tell you the truth .

God bless you and bless your marriage .

No offense taken. Yes ive watched myself evolve into something I never was (a nag) . and this is because Im so furstrated emotionally and sexually. Never enjoyed this marriage from day one. We are a popular couple amongst friends and keeping up a facade is taking its toll on me.

dingbang:
and all those years you didn't notice it that it would be a redflag ?

I was blindly in love and so attracted to him. Thought it was a small issue that can be easily resolved. was clearly mistaken.

dingbang:
Hmm...don't u think him eating ur pussy and ass is the cause of his bad breath? Anyways i 'm just saying


Advise him to stop eating u down there and seek for good medical help.

Goodluck

Please let's not joke around here. He has always had a breath issue even before we became intimate.

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eyinjuege:
Isn't there anything good in the man?

I'm sure its not a recent devt and he probably has always been like that.
What he needs is some encouragement to believe in himself and also guidance.
Get him a mentor, and let him move close to such a person.
All those things listed are things that can be worked on. Bad breathe? See a dentist. Ensure he brushes twice daily.
Bad in bed? Then teach him what you want, watch adult movies together.
Poor dressing? Come on..., you can equally help in that dept. Go to Balogun market, get new underwear, singlets/inner tee shirts for him, get some proper shirts and polo shirts for him and some trousers. You both should go together.
All the other things you listed just shows he needs some encouragement to believe in himself and possibly some professional counselling.
If you're the wife, you should try to be supportive. He may have faced some traumatic experiences in childhood, hence his lack of confidence

What if you do all these but he gets angry, defensive & stubborn whenever you try to help him?

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rogovo20:
She is.

I would double-check if I were you.

rogovo20:
It was not my fault, we barely dated for 1 month when she got pregnant. My family forced me into it, told them I did not know her well enough. Though she made it seem then that she found a new love. Was always jealous over small things. I never would have known that her heart was not actually with me.

are you sure the baby is yours?

softwerk:
I really hate to sound negatively different but with all the media hype on this union that should have been a private matter now turned public debate; It will take the Grace of God for these 2 lovebirds to last longer that 3years in this marriage

Publicity is sweet but I pray they take correction and embrace moderation early enough or they will never have any privacy in their marriage!!!

Too many cooks spoil the broth

A goat that is being fed by too many people usually dies of hunger

I agree

Acidosis:
BTW, are you pregnant?

Pregnancy how? When we're not having sex at all

PaperLace:
Things don't progress because you get angry and give up too soon? Or because the dick changes its mind and goes flat?

Haha, i love what you quoted there

Cutehector:
Wow.. This is deep.. From your write up u described the sex to be oral..


How great has it been with penetration?

Things dont always progress to that stage.

PaperLace:
Bedroom matter...
Lemme get this straight, has he always been like this_ even before the abstinence? Or it started after the abstinence?

Before abstinence, there so much attraction/passion between us. intimacy was always explosive. seems something went wrong along the way.

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