₦airaland Forum

pelumi1785:
i started squatting from one place to the other. U know the worse part? Even his family didn't bother to check up after a month. Reason for leaving u say? Someone that didn't realize his mistake.
Ps: this incidents happened 3 months ago.

Too bad

Honestly, some African men are very wicked. How can you abandon a woman with your child all in the name of selfish reason.

Was that the same story you told her before she opened her legs for you?

pelumi1785:
My own husband left the house. Unknownly to me our rent has expired about 8 months ago. My life flashed before my eyes when the caretaker came to get the house keys and said we should vacate that vicinity. U know the worse part, he left me with a seven month old child. Omo we called this guy for 2 months, he didn't pick o. I slept in the cold that night with my baby. Kai.

God. Nau wao o. So how did you cope? What was his reason for leaving?
Some men get mind o

poshestmina:
Was she a victim of rape?
Whatever happened to abstinence or using protective methods?

why are women left to determine that alone?
Why do some men walk away after they had made mistakes by not using protection? Why leaving the whole load on the woman and the child?

ThaThinka:
OP, your fellow women sef dey contribute o. There are some that leave good men for unfaithful men due to material things and fake promises or claims. They lack discernment.

I still wonder how some women end up with men that are not responsible and leave them to carry all the burden, though. Meanwhile, many of them will not even give those that are real with them a chance.

See, na every Mallam with him kettle o.

Hmmmmm. I'm sure at the first time, those men appear loving and caring, but immediately responsibility set in, they begin to manifest their true nature. Is not all the time, a woman can forsee a man who will not abandon her in future.

Kobojunkie:
Just as having a child is a choice, it is equally of choice for the woman to decide whether the man should be involved or not. The woman is the one with the default responsibility—the majority burden bearer— in either case; she decides whether to have the child and whether the father of the child will be part of the child's life or not.

Story. Then why do men always win custody of their children in court? No matter how you say it, it's the men's world in Africa

Kobojunkie:
Is she am imbe_cile? If yes, then she should have her tubes tied before the problem gets even worse.

So, child upbringing is supposed to be the responsibility of the woman alone?

Namaster:
Blaming a man for the IRRESPONSIBLE decision of a woman is STUPID.

You are jobless, unskilled and uneducated YET you chose to open your legs for an apprentice VULCANISER.

That's on YOU.

Child upbringing is the responsibility of both men and women

Why do some men get a lady pregnant and abandoned her and the baby to suffer at the mercy of other people's?

Most men can promise a woman heaven and earth to to sleep with her, but once there's pregnancy, they run away. Men why?
If you don't pity her, what of your own child?

What's your opinion

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Do parent's wrong behavior or lifestyle both on/offline affect their children?

Parents who are strippers on social media, does it have any effect or business with their children?

I was surprised seeing someone bully tiwa savage little son on his mother's current pics.

Wouldn't it be unjust to bring a child into their parents wrong behavior?
What's your opinion about this?

Are people supposed to hide their true self just because they're now parents ?



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Welcome to Nigeria. Wey the poor keep crying and hungry why the politicians keep fighting their openent with the masses money.

With the level of hunger in the country, nobody in power is supposed to buy any expensive car in the first place.

The worst thing any Nigeria youth can do to his/her self is to completely believe and depend on this country.

Go and hustle and make legal money.
Don't mind politics in this country.

Thank God it's be ages I look at my certificate and CV.

The truth is, most people in labor party aren't selfless as they claim. Majority of the people joined, because it was new and promising. They're the same criminals recycling political party. They are showing their true nature now.

MEEVEET:
I can bet my Balls Tinubu or people in his government are the ones sponsoring this protest

Why you may ask? To divert attention from protests that can actually hurt Tinubu

The only demand Nigeria needs now electoral reforms... That's it.. That's all

Everything is possible in this country. Nigerians are very smart, but I don't know why we don't always channel it to positive side.
Imagine the person that brought the idea of anti protest in the first place to disrupt the real aim of the protester. That person must be a mastermind criminal. What if he decided to use that his brilliant mind for something positive?

@op, you're very correct.

Take for example, buying things in bulk like a whole seller and buying little as a retailers.
Also, Enrolling your children in a good school closer to your house but expensive and enrolling them in a cheap school with poor academic standards and very far from your house.
The transport, risk of constantly on the highway on every school day, the poor academic performance. It doesn't make any sense.

I recently met this two young students who spent 21k on tp to and fro to school in a week.
Calculate 21k by 4, then by 4months. Add it to their current school fees. That's cra.zy

The tariff is cra.zy, meter runs too fast this days especially after the last upgrade. Is like they intentionally did something to sap it fast.

Everyday247:
I can overlook everything you said about everything else on the list but remove video games from there. Don't you dare criticize my hobby. That's blasphemy!

Exactly
Video games shouldn't be among

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