Next time he's going, he should get something worth like 10k as a gift for the man.

Xion:
I have a friend who visited his girl's house to meet her parents (he has serious intentions of marrying her). After he was served a meal which he ate, and asked different questions in a cordial manner (he answered all the questions accordingly). It was a warm reception, as the girl's dad proved to be jovial.
When he was about leaving, the girl's dad offered him 3000 naira as transport fare, which he reluctantly collected.
Do you think it was proper to have collected the cash? Please drop your comments

NB: my friend has a job, but isn't "there" yet, financially.

Go for training with one nice girl. Come back with all the lesson learnt and she'll surely like it

ATM2:
How do I live happily with a woman that doesn't really like sex,without cheating on her, when one as the man really love sex so much. masturbation is wrong,extra marital affairs as been said to be wrong so what then does one do?Please I need u advice.

To be honest, i know some prayerful women that act like this. She's just a bitter person. If you can live with it, fine. If you can't, then you know what to do

exebi:


You are RIGHT! I foolishly thought I did...but the red flags were there prior to marriage. She is spiritually weak and lazy. My heart is in pain.

Time definitely heals all things.
When I think of all the mental and psychological things I went through, I just laugh hard
I'm happy now that it all went that way, it's like thanksgiving in my heart.
I've realized all the reasons why it could never have worked, and thank God that she didn't reconsider, cos I'll have now been feeling stuck.
Long story but I'm happy I didn't end up having her family as inlaws.
Thanks for hearing me and giving me an opportunity to pour out my heart.

Royal Roy:
Mister P...give her one last try. Am sure a part of her still wants u too!
By the way....introduction is not marriage....even been engaged is not a guarantee for marriage!
Prove ur worth if u feel she's worth it.
Never Venture Never Wins

We just had a talk, I gathered she doesn't love the guy but trying to please her parents, since they want to see her married ASAP,
I still come up in their conversation and causes friction.
She wishes I had proposed much earlier. We used to talk about it but not anything formal

hbabe:


So after the 'great time' she still continued with her marriage plans to another guy. Hmmmmm

Lol hmmm indeed

Ujujoan:

Love ke? LMAO . . .
Men sha like deceiving themselves.
@ Poster, I'm sure you know you are just a s3x toy!

the sex was an aftermath, we relived the times and connection we shared together
when i asked why she didn't tell me about the intro, she said we were having a great time and she didn't want to spoil it

coogar:

of course, it's love.....
a lot of women did not marry who they really loved, they went for what was available. sometimes, the dude they love is unserious about marriage and a woman's biological clock is like a time bomb ready to detonate. she won't wait forever so the available becomes desirable. if the OP does not leave her alone, she would still cheat with him after marriage.

But now that I'm serious shouldn't I make her see why she should get back with me

Sisi_Kill:
You have sisters, yes?

No I'm not trying to bash women,
I'm just wondering why she did that

mawojuuche: is she frm d east? or imo precisely?

Actually she's Yoruba and I'm Yoruba too.

Doesn't have anything to do with tribe

her introduction was coming up which she didn't tell me about,
meanwhile we were still together hanging out and doing stuff together
also sleeping with each other
i didn't know she's that kind of person when we were still dating
hmmm is this a normal thing for the women folk

*modified - i was really hoping we'll get back together cos she left due to a little misunderstanding, then she met the guy who proposed to her immediately
she agreed it was a rash decision but things had already gone far cos family were involved and were already talking introduction.
so when we started getting close again i thot she had changed her mind, not knowing introduction was close by.
Been a devastating few months