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Double0h7:
When you love someone and importantly they love you back; it brings you joy, confidence, peace, a sense of safety. Those are the psychological benefits.

The emotional benefits are you feel content with your life, you feel full, you feel enough. The physical benefits/sensations are you smile brighter, you walk taller, your skin glows, and you’re less stressed by outside influences.

People see this change in you so you become attractive to others. You’ll think the devil is trying to spoil your joy because all of a sudden the opposite sex notice you and want you. That’s what being loved does for you. Love is easy!

Thank you for this!
This is how i have always thought it to be.

advanceDNA:
Baba...love is just an addiction fueled by sexual pleasure, ... Do urself a favour by not looking for that shiit...it messes up your mind, makes u lose leverage and opens you up to exploitation....

Open ur eyes and consciously look for a kind, team playing woman...trust me..u will enjoy and be happier living with such a woman than someone that makes ur heart race, exploiting your emotions

team playing woman, a woman that wants to be a companion rather a liability.

peanutbutterr:
man listen, don’t expect agape love from a woman because they are not capable of giving what they don’t have, so it’s better you save your self the stress of falling in love. even the bible never instructed a woman to love a man, rather it said men should love their wife and women should submit to their husband.

thank you for the comment. love and submission, yes.

dkidd:
Any love U fall out of was never love in the first place. Don't base it on those dreamy Hollywood and Bollywood bs stories. It's why it's best not to pay them any attention when they claim to love U. They're just either infatuated, lusting, love the idea of having u as theirs etc. Apart from familial love, agape love, friendship love, love for pets objects and ideas, crafts etc that romantic love is 98% fake. Don't look for it cos U will only find the duplicates and it will turn U into something U never imagined U could be. If it's out there and it's for U, it will find U. My 2 Naira

you are not wrong, but then romantic love exists, just that this generation has made it almost impossible to find.
truly, if its for me, it will find me.

you missed updating the diary yesterday.

MrAddict:
Thanks for the encouragement. Today is officially 2 weeks since I started. This is the longest time I have gone without masturbating or having sex since I was 14

Demigod22:
Love is peaceful and amazing. When you love someone, you exaggerate them, you tolerates them, as if they are flawless. They become extraordinary in your eyes. That's why you are under the illusion that when he or she go out, every other guys or girls would be after him or her. You want them to be happy, to achieve their goals and grow in life. You think of ways to help them, to please them. You want to spend time with them.

Love is like a spell, when you fall out of love, you will realize how ordinary the person is but only your love made him or her special.

This sounds so dreamy!
I definitely want to feel this.
Thank you.

henndukwe18:
Well, u wl definitely feel a sensation, something wil change in u once u fimd d right woman, u will b obsessed, u wil hav imaginations, u wl feel extremely happy aroumd ha

some will say i am not ready, but constant communication with someone is a hassle to me, or maybe i have not found someone that interest me enough to not find it a hassle.

Samantha125:
You will know what love feels like once you meet the right person, you just haven't met her yet... Or maybe you have an untreated childhood trauma that has been hindering you from giving love a chance.

Many Africans find themselves having to live with the burden of carrying their childhood traumas because of lack of emotional support from their loved ones.

i probably haven't met the right person, i hope i do soon!
Nothing traumatic enough to cause this have not occured.
Thank you.

bro i hope and pray you dont relapse, good luck!
i am following your updates on diary.

I am asking because i honestly dont know what it means to be in love.
like, how do i know i am in love?
is there any kind of sensation to be felt?

i am a working class man, and i have never been in a serious relationship.
any response(s) will be appreciated.

adekunle418:
were you invited for physical interview?

have u gotten any feedback from them since the interview?

hi
did u went to ijebu for the physical interview

Ayomide2345:
When did u receive the mail

Ayomide2345:
Which one is assessment centre?
I only received the mail for test.
I have done the test since last week Thursday
Have they sent any mail after the test?

Yeah they did, today is the virtual assessment center

Yes, I didn't receive any mail, did you?
It's cause I had network issue towards the end when I was submitting.

I don't, have any group o. Have you done the assessment, I'm unable to yet

Yes me too, do you have pqs for the assessment

Paultee:
same experience my brother these people are devils they almost some people stroke they are bad they distry people life I have d same experience sent my picture to everyone on my contacts down to Abuja Lagos Kano I now look in responsible to the family and the worst part they will never explain dat you tuck a loan from them very bad people

For how long did you overdue when they sent those images