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m8's 30th B-day !!!

~Bold ~ Passionate ~N~ Kinky


~Excitable ~Adventurous ~N~ Misunderstood


~Me think the thread says six three words that descibe me three aint enough

~Hey you,hows
you? any plans
for the weekend?

~Yellow ~Coldplay

~Peace~

~Erm i dont have a clue either,does anyone know?

~Flirty star01 hmm

~*Yawns *Stretch* Smile*

~Audience~

hia hia!! If you know sey you no wowo why u for worry about us lookin' at you
If u wowo who go stare at unless your degree of wowoness don pass boundary, [quote][/quote]~ No offence to Poster but i Am LMAO real hard on this comment

halleberry
thanks for all your contribution but i must tell you guys that the guy aint broke ATALL , he is a stockbroker with bank of new york,,he is making good money so just to prove to you am not after his money[quote][/quote]~ I don't think you have to prove anything to anyone on here,i guess some people need a detailed post to be able to give their advice,so maybe you should consider editin your post,so they can give you advice on the basic of the circumstances,its clear if you didnt need the advice you wouldnt have asked,so don't feel like you'll be judged from what you post,sometimes we need to see thiings from a different perspective,which is where the replies you get on here comes in handy,hope you will eventually get to make the right decision for you!!!

@mohawkchic,
Permit to say that ure very smart and experienced. Ive read a few of your comments on relationship and i mostly agree with them[quote][/quote]~ Aww Thanks Leadmyster !! Appreciate you sayin

~Hmm,did he tell you "they were just friends and she wanted the baby"  after you discovered the text mesage? if he did,then there's a whole lot of things to woory about!!!  TRUST should be the basic and foundation on which any relationship should function on,and here you are, about to devote you life to a man you thought you knew well enough,only for him to betray that trust,if he can't accept the responsiblity of makin a baby w/another woman,who's admitted you became the third person in their relationship,then please don't be hasty to get on w/the weddin just  becoz you've told friends and family !!! Am sure they'll rather see you happy than married and miserable!!!

~You should look at this like a blessin in a way,as you  found out just in the nick of time,the date can be changed for the weddin should you decide to go on with it,but please do not make the mistake of this been a case of "he said,she said"  and continue with weddin plans like this never happened!!! right now you need to find out whats been goin on w/ his baby mama N baby,you have to get him to tell you the truth,by marryin you,unless he never intended to be a part of his baby's life,you are part of that decision in acceptin that child,as you would your own !!!

~Am really sooory you had to find out like this,but on the flip side,that text message may likely have saved you a lifetime of misery,there are certain thing you keep away from your loved ones but a child,isnt just going to go away,disappear in thin air,grrrrr i just hate it when one's taken for granted!!!   anyways,the most important person to think about right now is you,if he doesnt give a logical explanation and you can't see you, have trust for him anymore, then let him go !!! You'll be better off,Good Luck !!

~Why ask reasonable stupid questions if youre not reasonably stupid    ?

~Done it w/shoes on


~Ever said "Never say never" in a suitation?

~My Oooh My ~

~The confused part,couldnt you tell ?

~Moi :> thats french right? or some sort of food ? J/K


~Tortilla/Bagel

~What part of the confusion dont you get?

~Breath~

~I think people who have been scared in life,need constant reassurance from a loved one,there's always that fear,doubt,that clouds whatever happiness there is!!! seems to me you love her enuff to wanna make it work so i guess you'll just need to keep workin w/her on her insecurities!!!

~Her sayin "you shud be lucky to have her" i think is just a defence mechanism she uses,am sure you're both lucky to have each other,that said,the fact you guys are thinkin of gettin married,should be,enuff to assure her,you're there for keeps !!!

~However,let her know even though you'll always be there for support,she shudnt use her insecurities as an excuse,she shud be aware by now,nuffin in life is stable,certain things are just inevitable,so if you're there,she shud apprecaite happiness w/open hands !!!

~Kins

~HelloOOO anybody there?

~Beach~

~Some guys have the tendency to spot a weak moment in one's life and take advantage of that,i doubt his intensions are serious at all,he knows you've got a boyfriend,he prolly,defo after bootycall,and is just very persistent to get what he wants,while you wont be gettin anything off it anyways so best you just chill out,try to figure out how to get your boyfriend to tell you why his attension hasnt been full on,without comin across as a maon,been selfish{!},as he considers you now or you could assure him you'll always be there for support should he feel like talkin about whatever may be eatin him up that you're not aware of !!!

~Am thinkin the latter more as he's already aware you're not happy about his lack of attension lately,so for all you know there could be something he doesnt want to woory you about,thats makin him act this way,anyhow i hope you guys sort it out eventually,Best of luck in all your endeavours!