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bigton: Momabear,..Why are you asking for peoples opinions,..Why not follow your heart,..He tells you he loves you,you love him too,.You really shouldn't be bothered,.Young couples do have issues too,.Your relationship with this 28 years old can be forever,.Don't let any one here change your feelings,.You are both in Love,its a good thing,rejoice and share good moments together,.Some same don't get mad if he brings home a younger lady,.a man can still bring home ladies after marrying a younger lady,.To me you are both blessed to have found each other,most people here are either single or not planning on getting married soon,.Its really hard finding Love trust me,.So just delete ur profile here and enjoy life,.For crying out Loud if your story is true,you should know people have their own ideas,don't let them change your ways,its when you start having bad feelings that you start monitoring,policing and your man that problems start..Trust him if you Love him...Even if you think he is going to bring a lady home,he loves you and tells you he does,.Taking you to his family is cus he respects you and he is proud of you,..Stay away from wrong ideas and follow your heart !!!

carefreewannabe: YOU think he still has life ahead of him. What does HE think? The poster is NOT forcing him, is she?

carefreewannabe: @mommabear

you repeated twice that you are sure you love EACH OTHER
you seem to be convinced on the one hand that he loves you
but there is a voice of doubt on the other hand

how do you expect people here to help you? some will say, marry him, others, he needs papers and is using you or something like that. you'll be confused at the end.

my advice: listen to yourself!

I think one should be at least 99 % sure before entering a marriage. maybe, you need some more time. how long have you been together? ask yourself.

Dumte: just make sure you both love each other.
Tribal and age differences isn't the matter but love is what we are after.
If you like let their age difference be 100 to 5. Love is what we are after

carefreewannabe:

kambo: take ur heart to d gym cuz a heart break is coming to test it.. Of course his relations know ur d ticket to his breakthru i mean visa. Shine ur eye they say

2buff: If you're 50, and your body is fine (enough to attract a 28 yr old man)...what's stopping you from getting on with someone local?

2buff: Wow....I know it might be tough to hear it but...please look out for gentlemen in your area to have a close, meaningful relationship with. Something more "real" that makes sense to the entirety of your being. Spirit, soul and body.

What you have going on here is a fantasy. There are people who specialize in using people with fantasies to achieve realistic ends e.g getting a Canadian PR and getting on with his life without you. It is also going to be a tough sell to Canadian immigration because they see this everyday. You wouldn't be the first.

His family, coworkers, friends, etc could easily show support because having a friend or brother in Canada would benefit them too. Such is the reality of the world madam.

I know it's hard, but I implore you not to let the loneliness get you naive.
I know when operating on this frequency it is hard to remember the consequences, like what you stand to lose after the seemingly expected divorce. I don't know what you have, but it is possible that he will be having a cut of it after it happens.

If none of these matter to you and you just want to experience the ride, then all the best. (I guess it's fun in it's own way )
Keep it real. Peace.

overdrive: Marry him u hv every right to b happy.

SimplYeahmee: Problem1
Ÿ̲̣̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥u̶̲̥̅̊ are 50 sumthing nd he's 28.
He may be using Ÿ̲̣̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥u̶̲̥̅̊ to get a canadian visa.
There's no way, a full blooded 28yr old man will say he prefer a 50yr old vagina to a 18 to 30yr old vagina.
Consider ur options, if Ÿ̲̣̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥u̶̲̥̅̊ both lyk each other go ahead bt jst don't complain if he brings in a younger woman into ur home.

Scarpon: 51-28=23
do u see what I saw?

razznaija: Hmmm Like the other poster said, this will not work out. My question is.... is he financially stable?

razznaija: Hmmm Like the other poster said, this will not work out. My question is.... is he financially stable?

razznaija: Hmmm Like the other poster said, this will not work out. My question is.... is he financially stable?

razznaija: Hmmm Like the other poster said, this will not work out. My question is.... is he financially stable?

Dumte: just make sure you both love each other.
Tribal and age differences isn't the matter but love is what we are after.
If you like let their age difference be 100 to 5. Love is what we are after