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Are you wondering if you really ever have to get married? Here are 20 great reasons to get married and experience a better and more fulfilling life.

Marriages were supposed to be made in heaven. But with the high divorce rates in the United States alone, you may find yourself asking if it’s even worth the effort? Thinking about it, dating or even living together is so much easier. Really, you may wonder why you even need to go through the hassles of being tied down to just one person for the rest of your life. With marriages come a string of responsibilities,
arguments and real life issues. And there’s something about a marriage that makes everything so much more serious. It’s like you have to be
a whole new person overnight. But at the same time, marriages do have their own share of good times too. Great reasons to get married If you’re not ready to get married with someone, you’re probably not ready for marriage just yet. It’s that simple really. When you were in college, you knew you had to work towards getting higher grades. And if you weren’t ready for those big tests, chances are, you didn’t want to write them. You knew you were going to perform badly, so why bother giving the tests, right? And that’s the same way marriage works too. If you’re not mentally and physiologically prepared for marriage, chances are, you wouldn’t like them too. Life is all about stages. You can be pushed into a new stage, but unless you’re mentally prepared to go to the next stage, you’ll never enjoy it. And just like school, college, your first relationship, your first job and so many other moments, marriage too is a big stage that has the potential to change your life. For the better or worse, well, that depends on how ready you are to experience it. 20 important and meaningful reasons to get married Almost always, if you’re not ready for marriage, it’s because you haven’t found the right partner yet, you don’t have a secure job, you don’t think you have enough money, or you like your life just the way it is. There may be a few special instances, but more often than not, these reasons make up all the good excuses to avoid marriage. If you’re in a long term relationship already or are wondering how you can evade the big noose around your neck called a marriage, here are 20 reasons to get married that you should consider. If you do give these 20 reasons a serious thought, you’d understand the good side of a marriage and whether you’re ready for one just yet.

#1 A big commitment. There’s no bigger proof
of love than asking your lover for their hand in marriage. Don’t look at marriage as a lock without a key. Look at it as the highest commitment you
can give to the one you love to prove your love for them.

#2 Sharing your life with someone. As humans, we’ve evolved to be social creatures that need attention. Living life as a single forever may sound appealing, but at some point, all of us feel the need to be watched by someone else, and have someone else to share our happy and sad moments.

#3 You’ve enjoyed your single life. Do you remember how your teen years and your single years were? You’ve partied and had your share of fun, almost until those one night stands and meaningless flings make no sense to you anymore. At this point, your mind’s telling you that you’ve changed, and you want someone to share your life with, and not just your bed for a night.

#4 The stages of life. As I’ve said earlier, life is a game of stages. And when you’re mentally prepared to enter the next stage, your mind convinces you of the benefits of moving to the next stage. And marriage is a pretty important stage in life. If you truly love someone, take the plunge. It’ll be a whole new experience that’ll be worth the ride.

#5 Tradition. Marriage is a tradition that’s stood the test of time. And just like how we tend to believe things that have been tried and tested, marriage is one of those traditions that has worked for almost all couples, as long as they’ve truly love each other.

#6 You’re truly in love. Have you been in a serious relationship for more than a few years with the same person and you’re still truly happy to be in love? You’re more ready than you think.

#7 A great support system. Marriage is the best support system that life offers. When you’re going through a difficult time, just knowing that you have a spouse who can share and ease your burden can help you get a better outlook towards life.

#8 Motivation. Just the thought of knowing that you have a significant other who loves you and cares for you can give you the strength and determination to become a better person and pursue your goals and ambitions with renewed vigor. If you truly love the one you’re married to, you’d be motivated to create a better life for you and your spouse.

#9 A name for your relationship. So you’re dating someone for several years. But dating someone and being married to someone just doesn’t sound the same. A dating relationship is always considered to be more casual than a marriage. And if you really do love your boyfriend or girlfriend, wouldn’t you want to be taken more seriously as a couple?

#10 The norms of society. A marriage is universally accepted and even demanded in society through the ages. And just like we’re all meant to work, earn money, live in a house and lead our lives within the unwritten and written laws of a well functioning society, getting married to the one you love is the right and respectful way to live with each other. It may sound archaic, but marriage is still the norm and not the exception.

#11 Maturity. With marriage comes maturity in life. A marriage requires trust, faith and commitment which makes a boy grow into a man, and makes him feel more responsible for himself and the relationship. At the same time, it gives a woman the emotional security of a stable relationship because her man’s commitment proves that he truly loves her and won’t stray into another woman’s arms.

#12 You want children. Do you stare at those commercials on
the telly where they show happy kids doing cute things and running around a park? When you’re ready for marriage, you’ll find yourself getting drawn to children and babies with curiosity and affection.

#13 Marriage gives financial
dependability. As a girlfriend and boyfriend, you can definitely share each other’s monetary good fortune and deal with tough times. But when you’re married to each other, there’s more financial security because both of you lead your lives and aspirations keeping each other in mind.

#14 You respect values. Values in life give more meaning and make you a person of principles. Marriage is an
ethical bond that defines your relationship with your partner as more than just a casual fling. Your parents were married, and their parents before them. And you want to continue that legacy and follow the same principles.

#15 Your achievements feel empty. You’ve achieved what you want in life so far, money, a house, a fast car, and what not. But all of these are material
possessions that give happiness, but don’t give meaning to your life. Knowing you have someone who loves you and unconditionally cares for you waiting for you at home will always give you more happiness than any material possessions that surround you.

#16 You have someone to call your own. The world is filled with billions of people. But when you’re single or still just dating someone, you’re just an individual living the lonely life with no one to call your own. But when you get married, you have someone else who’ll share your life with you legally, and have someone you truly can call your own. And when you have someone who sees life through your eyes, your
life will feel more meaningful and important.

#17 Growing old with someone. This may not make much sense if you’re still young. But as you get older, you’d enjoy the pleasure of spending time with a special someone that you love more than anyone else in the whole world. Just knowing that you have someone to take care of you, understand your
preferences and your principles in life, and vice versa, can make you feel more satisfied in life and give more meaning to your existence.

#18 You found your soulmate. Have you found the one who makes you feel more alive and happy? If you’ve met your true love and can’t wait to spend the rest of your lives together and grow old together, what better way to make a serious commitment than by proposing marriage?

#19 Your parents. A marriage can help your parents feel more reassured about your future. Even though they may not voice it, getting married to the one you love is reassuring for both families because it makes them feel happier to know that you and your lover have found happiness in each other, and would always be there for each other through thick and thin. And let’s not forget the joy of playing with their grandkids.

#20 Meaning to life. A marriage can make you more focused in life. When you’re married to someone, you’re not just responsible for yourself. You’re responsible for your partner too. Together, both of you have created a new entity that breathes life as a couple. Like a bigger, better job, a marriage means more responsibilities, but it also gives you more satisfaction and meaning to your existence. When you’re ready, you’re ready. It’s as simple as that.

These 20 reasons to get married may not make sense to you if you’ve made up your mind to stay single. But if you can gives these reasons to get
married a serious thought with an open mind, you’ll understand just how meaningful and satisfying a happy marriage can really be and how easily it can change your life and a special someone’s life for the better forever.

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No matter how bad it hurts or how
bad you feel, it's time to stop
thinking about that person who
played with your feelings, who took
your love for granted, who never
appreciated your care, who wasn’t
contented with what you could give
him or her. You can't stay at that
hurtful place anymore. You can't
keep shedding tears over someone
who doesn't deserve the love you
gave. You can't keep feeling sorry for
yourself and thinking if only you did
more. You can't make them want the
relationship because if they wanted
they wouldn’t have let go of you.
You deserve better now. You deserve
someone who appreciates all the
good qualities that you offer. You
deserve someone who won’t play with
your delicate heart, you deserve
someone who won’t be all about
knowing your body, you deserve
someone who will be serious with you
and who will be with the fear of
hurting you & losing you. Just like a
cut on your hand will take time to
heal, your broken heart needs time to
heal as well. Many people before you,
who thought they couldn't make it,
have survived and made it. Just like
they made it, you will make it too. Be
strong and try to move on now. That’s
not the end of your life. You will get
over that pain you’re having right
now and one day you’ll be happy

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You can mock me after reading my article.
If you want your
children to have a GOOD father, then
choose the MEN that you have SEX
with MORE carefully. Why are you
receiving SEED from WEEDS ?? Sex is
the POWER to create life, but you are
sharing that with any Tom Dick or
Harry. If you can't see the man as the
father of your children, or a
HUSBAND....if you can't see him
providing, then keep your legs closed.
Condoms break, birth control can
fail...and MEN who don't care about
you LEAVE you with babies, that they
don't care about. STOP IT.
Respect the Power to Create LIFE. If
your children didn't see their father
today...or hear from him, think about
the circumstances under which you
had SEX with that man. There are
EXCEPTIONS (so don't go there with all
the scenarios) I am talking about BAD
SEXUAL CHOICES...admit it, fix it....and
heal.

It's hard for a girl to leave the guy
she truly loves. People would tell her
to do it like it's such an easy thing to
do, but they have no idea how hard
it is because they're not the ones
who are in her position. She doesn't
want to give up on something that
she believes so strongly in, something
that she's so passionate about,
something that is so special to her.
You can't just expect her to drop
everything she's been through with
this guy & walks away like it never
meant anything because it means
everything to her. She could force
herself to ignore him but in the end,
he's all she wants to talk to. To know
how he’s doing… She could force
herself to stay away from him but in
the end, he's all she wants to see
because her heart feels at home when
she’s with him. She could force
herself to move on but in the end,
she'll come back to him because they
belong together.

The fact that a girl is a VIRGIN does not
mean she's INNOCENT and the fact that a
girl is NOT A VIRGIN does not mean she is
a LovePeddler.

A WOMAN IS MORE THAN WHAT IS
BETWEEN HER THIGHS.

So guys, don't just look at one aspect of a
person and think it is everything. There's
more to most people than you will ever
know or understand . So don't judge,
assume or conclude because you might
end up missing an ADDITION to your life
that could be of GREAT VALUES.

NO one is PERFECT and we have all done
things we are not PROUD of... If you think
it is necessary to judge people by their
past, don't get mad when they also think
it's necessary to put you there.
So don't judge people because you are not
God, the fact that you go to church every
does not make you a qualified candidate of
heaven.
So judge no one because you
don't have heaven or hell to put one
inside.

If you are SINGLE and keep on saying"I DON'T TRUST MEN OR WOMEN!" remember... your mates are getting
married every Saturday. Let me ask you, are they marrying spirits? Wise up!

If you are MARRIED and keep saying "I HATE THIS MARRIAGE!" OK! Is it not married people like you that are celebrating Gold, Silver and even Platinum jubilee?

If you keep on ranting, ''I'M LEAVING MY MAN, HE CHEATED ON ME!" Please, go to town and see all the fine, cute, hot, hungry and desperate chicks waiting to snatch your man's money and property, they don't even mind sharing. Make it work, my friend!

Stop saying "I HATE MY JOB!" Look! 20
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You keep saying "I HATE WHERE I LIVE!" Oh please! *tears* Try visiting those locations that are flooded now, people leaving in tin/zinc shacks in winter or people living/ sleeping under the bridge at night and you will be grateful to God that you even have a
place to stay!

Some say "I AM TIRED OF THIS LIFE!"
Well, go to the hospital and see people fighting for their lives! Go to the mortuary and take a look then tell me what you feel after that!.....

Mypoint is, No Mater Ya Situation As Long As Ya Have Life AKUNAMATATA, be positive, THERE IS ALWAYS A REASON TO GIVE THANKS

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Never waste anyone’s time if you aren’t
gonna love
them
forever. Don’t even date them because it’s
of no
pride you
having a huge list of Ex-boyfriends and
girlfriends.
It
doesn’t even portray the man or woman in
you.
Always
speak out your heart to someone, don’t
keep that
person
around because you feel pity for him or
her. If
you’re busy
loving someone else, utter it out rather
than
keeping that
dude or babe around you as a secret close
friend or a
substitute, Fine it hurts but it helps a lot.
Stop
fooling that
innocent person who spares his/her time
for you,
who
sacrifices anything little h/she has for you,
who
ignores all
other chances of beautiful ladies and
handsome men
because h/she has hope in you. Think
about it my
friends
and act accordingly.

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I heard u like Bad boys.those boys who act like thet don't kia abt Yhu,which makes U try harder to make them like you.those boys who wouldn't reply to ur text until later on,which mks u wait around &miss him more.those boys who act distant from you.which makes u try harder to get their Attention..those boys who know that they can get a lot of Gurls,which mks you more afraid to lose them.Those boys who wid show u they are interested One day then act Different the next day,which mks u too confused to make the decision to leave him.Those boys who make you fall for them bt they can Careless which makes you stuck coz u kia toomuch..Has anyone eva Told u u deserve betta dan that ?You probably have&you knw wat?its abt tym u realize that if a GUY likes you,he wll meet you Halfway...Simple as that...Don't settle for a Bad Boy when you deserve a Good Boy...

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SOMETIMES IT’S BETTER TO BE ALONE
Sometimes it's better to be alone
than being with someone who makes
you feel alone. Someone who doesn't
return your love, someone who
doesn't appreciate your effort,
someone who takes you for granted,
someone who sees no value in your
care, someone who doesn't love you
for who you are, someone who
doesn't spare time for you, someone
who always makes you cry, someone
who always accuses you for being
wrong...
If you are in a relationship with such
a person, think of letting go no
matter how painful it may be. Such
people only care about their heart
desires but they never mind of how
you feel, what you need and what
makes you happy... Be strong and
move on, that person was not meant
to be the love of your life trust me.
He or she is a time waster in your
life; He or she will never change.
That person’s happiness is when you
fulfill what he or she wants but for
them they will never mind about the
pain you have at heart. Think about
it.

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How to Get a Girl to Fall in Love with
You
If you want a girl out there to fall in love with
you, chances are that you'll have to go that
extra step to win her over. That's okay, though,
because you're probably willing to do anything
it takes. Follow the suggestions in this article to
get a girl to fall in love with you. Love is an art,
not a science, so try to think of these steps as
fluid guidelines.
Show her your lovable qualities. People
don't just decide with whom they want to
fall in love. Love happens because the
people involved have lovable qualities.
Love often develops over time, so your
job is to show the girl that you're worth
being around.
Get a sense of humor. It's no secret that
girls love guys who can crack a joke or
be funny. Practice jokes on your friends
every so often, and learn the jokes that
work and the ones that don't work.
When you're alone with a girl, telling a
joke can be a great way to break the
tension. Remember: if you're not good
at jokes, you can still have a good sense
of humor––you just have to love
laughing and being around people who
are funny.
Be playful. One of the most important
things girls look for in a partner is
playfulness. So you want to be playful
because she probably thinks that
playfulness is attractive. How can you
be playful? Make a boring routine, like
studying, interesting by turning it into a
song, for example. Don't take things too
seriously. And most importantly, be
able to laugh at yourself.
Have confidence. To be genuinely
lovable, you have to believe that you
are worth being around. Most girls
aren't attracted to people who are
constantly putting themselves down. So
be confident, but not cocky. Know what
you are good at. Don't brag about it or
show off, but put these things into your
routine and don't be afraid to let them
shine every once in a while.
Eliminate all expectations. Love lives in
the absence of pressure. Letting go of
your expectations will help you to relax,
which will make you more appealing to a
girl than if you are uptight and worried.
Teach yourself to expect nothing from
the girl so that you cannot be
disappointed. If she does fall in love
with you, you'll be pleasantly surprised.
Remember that there are plenty of fish
in the sea. If this particular girl doesn't
work out, there will be other girls. If
you don't get that special girl to fall in
love with you, try not to get mopey and
sad about it. It may feel good to pity
yourself, but girls don't really think it's
attractive.
Find out what she likes to do. Then do it
with her. Doing something that you know
she likes has the added advantages that
she feels comfortable and safe doing it. If
she's comfortable when you're out on a
date, she's more likely get close to you,
hold your hand, or even kiss you.
Whether she likes surfing, horseback
riding, shopping, or baking, it's a good
idea to try to involve her in what she
likes doing best. Ask her friend what
she enjoys doing in her free time, or
ask her yourself if you're feeling brave.
(Fortune favors you.) That way, she'll
know that you've taken the time to find
out what makes her tick, and that
you're ready to go that extra mile to
make sure she's happy.
Bonding over something she likes
doesn't need to be a date, but if you
want love to blossom, you're going to
have to ask her on a date at some point.
When you're ready to take that step, try
someplace familiar like the movies, a
coffee shop, or a dance. Maybe try
taking her to an amusement park or a
haunted house; studies suggest that
excitement or a sense of danger on a
date helps release a chemical in the
brain that bonds the two people
together.
Be strategic about whether you call it a
"date." Generally, if you've already won
the girl over, you want to make it clear
that you're going on a date. That's
because she expects you to take the
next step, and she wants to make sure
you're both on the same page. But if
you haven't won the girl over yet, it's
probably best to slow-play the
courtship, and win her over as a friend
before you move on to the romantic
relationship. Sometimes, the girl will
resist a romantic relationship if she's
not sure about whether you're good
friends.
Give her space. This doesn't mean
playing hard-to-get, but give the girl
control over what happens next.
Suffocating her and bullying her into a
relationship will do the opposite of what
you're hoping for. Show her you respect
her life outside of you; when you give a
girl room to breathe, she will often come
to love you on her own terms.
When you give her space, avoid being
too distant. Keep calling her regularly
and showing her that you're interested.
If you're shy, don't give her too much
space or she'll think you're not
interested. You're going to have to
come out of your shell a little bit if you
want to get her attention.
If you've just gone on a date with her,
and everything has gone really well, tell
her you'll call her before the weekend
is up if it's Friday. Let her do her own
thing on Saturday, and then give her a
call on Sunday and tell her you had a
really good time and you'd like to do
something soon, perhaps next
weekend. This would be a great time to
ask her out to any parties or dances
that are happening.
Giving her space is all about showing
her how confident you are. What
you're basically saying is "I had a great
time with you, and I like you, but I'm
not going to come on super strong
because I'm not desperate." Girls and
guys are both attracted to people who
are cool and calm, who don't jump the
gun, and who aren't desperate.
Open your eyes to the possibilities. Girls
are everywhere, and many girls are
looking to fall in love. Don't get too hung
up on getting one particular girl to fall in
love with you, and don't try to "force"
love on a girl who just isn't feeling it!
Get to know more girls and give love
more opportunities to blossom. Go to
school socials and functions. Don't be
afraid to go to a different school's social
if a friend invites you. You never know
when you might meet that special
someone who'll knock the wind out of
your lungs.
Sometimes, when you stop looking for
love, it hits you right in the face. The
universe works in weird ways.
Especially if you've tried really hard
recently, or you think you've just run
out of energy, don't be afraid to pull
back from the fray. It sounds counter-
intuitive, and it's frustrating to do, but it
works: when you stop trying, girls tend
to find you.
Be adventurous for her. Maybe the girls
you know all have boyfriends, or
maybe they don't cut it for you. Plenty
of guys these days are finding love
outside of their immediate circles. If
you're old enough, try internet dating.
If you're interested in extracurriculars,
get involved on a wider basis so that
you could potentially travel. When
looking for that girl of your dreams, it
helps to keep an open mind and try as
many different adventures as life
throws at you.

Strengthening Your Love
What makes a healthy love relationship?
Staying involved with each other.
Some relationships get stuck in peaceful
coexistence, but without truly relating
to each other and working together.
While it may seem stable on the
surface, lack of involvement and
communication increases distance.
When you need to talk about something
important, the connection and
understanding may no longer be there.
Getting through conflict. The key in a
strong relationship is not to be fearful
of conflict. You need to be safe to
express things that bother you without
fear of retaliation, and be able to
resolve conflict without humiliation,
degradation, or insisting on being right.
Keeping outside relationships and
interests alive. No one person can
meet all of our needs, and expecting too
much from someone can put a lot of
unhealthy pressure on a relationship.
Having friends and outside interests not
only strengthens your social network,
but brings new insights and stimulation
to the relationship, too.
Communicating. Honest, direct
communication is a key part of any
relationship. When both people feel
comfortable expressing their needs,
fears, and desires, trust and bonds are
strengthened. Nonverbal cues—body
language like eye contact, leaning
forward or away, or touching
someone’s arm—are critical to
communication.