₦airaland Forum

durentboi:
I'm 27 this year.

I've always been a bright kid from my childhood. But since I turned 16, I gave into vices, stealing, fighting, alcoholism and different sexual acts.

I wasted my years. I could have learned online skills or even real life skills.

I just started learning digital marketing. How can I make up for all this lost time??

Just why me!!

What different sexual acts are you talking about? Can you explain?

AntiChristian:
But we get electricity now o!

I no dey live for GRA nor Estate!

You better shut da Fvckup!!!!

What is really the problem? Can't Tinubu declare "State of Emergency" on this power grid What the heck is he doing

All the Multinationals have exited the country finish. I hope all this indigenous companies will pay their staff very well

Okoroawusa:
Whenever I hear a rape case involving a black man (especially African) and a white woman in the UK I get suspicious.

UK'S definition of rape is racist. I rarely see a case involving a white man and a white woman or a black man and a black woman making it to the news and making me ask questions:
Is it only white women that get raped or molested in the UK?
Don't white men rape white women or even black women?
Is it that black women enjoy rape so they don't report it?
So many questions on my mind...

You're indeed an animal. Go and rape or sleep with any woman without her concent and get jailed. Fool

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MadamVanessa:


Tithing has never been a guaranteed path to wealth. Preachers who manipulate their congregation into paying tithes with the promise of riches are, in fact, exploiting them. Interestingly, many of the world's wealthiest individuals are not Christians and are unfamiliar with the concept of tithing, yet they have amassed generational wealth.

Do not be deceived by charlatans masquerading as God's servants. They distort the true nature of God by emphasizing tithing, portraying Him as a financial multiplier or a Ponzi scheme where you invest and expect a larger return. This misguided narrative undermines the true essence of God.

You said it all. Nigerians are always emotional when it comes to religion yet when they go back to their places of work on Monday,they continue with their bad character.

spiceadole:
Unbelievable that a man can sound this concerned,even passing off as being worried because of inability to be in a relationship with a Nigerian woman.

Same women you men detest and classify as devils, labelling unprintable names especially on social media..this platform,inclusive.

Wonderful something

That's the wonderment of God. We castigate each other yet we can't do without each other

folake4u:
Seriously Naz?

This reasoning of yours is flawed.

Firstly, why would you add the age of 16? Pray tell, what are you doing with a child at that age? The legal status of an adult in Nigeria remains 18 and above, 21 in some other jurisdictions.

In addition, just because a guy has a job and nice place, a lady starts making future plans with him? What planet are you from? Pluto, I suppose.

Why wouldn't "he" want to spend a dime on the lady? God abeg oh.

🤣🤣🤣 You're so funny

wunmi590:


Don't limit your search to only your area, there are alot of women out there more than men, some guys even date 10 women at the same time...

Lol me I am presently dating 4 Ladies at the same time and I sware it's hard work

Nazgul:
Bro. Unless you're dating a girl within the age bracket of 16-23. Those are the ones that can waste your time and resources.

But any girl you meet who's above 25 in today's Nigeria, she visits you, sees your place, knows you have a sustainable job...etc.. My brother, you won't spend a dime on her, she's the one who would start planning to build a future with you.

Girls aren't stupid o.

This is very very true indeed

Of what benefit is this to Nigeria economy So opening a bank branch in France is development abi. Why can't the French open a bank here Rubbish!!!!

Onegai:
Let me share more about why your mum and I may be on the same page, concerning the age gap.

Because I've experienced it.

My relative had that type of age gap and it didn't matter that the wife was from a wealthy educated family in the 1950s, she was still unsophisticated when it came to her 15 years older husband who had schooled in the UK. It ruined her self-esteem and she withdrew emotionally for decades. He spent his entire marriage cheating on her with older women and more confident women.

Think Charles and Diana.

My friend, 14 yrs age difference with his wife. He said the first 2/3 years were very sweet, but it eventually became boring. His friends would visit and he will ask her to excuse them because it felt like a younger sister was hanging out with them. He said he was happy when babies started coming so it would keep her busy, and give him space. So his ego was getting pampered and he also got distance. Win for him, not for her.

I see several of these types of marriages around me. And those women are usually the ones cheating with their young boyfriends. And yes, married Nigerian women cheat well.

Same thing happens with older men and young babes in Lagos.

Me, I was 41 and a 62 yr old was on my case. I am an extremely intelligent and exposed woman. Yet there was nothing I could say, no wisdom or insight I could drop to impress him. He had heard it all in his 60 years of being on this planet. And he was one of Nigeria's big men, so there was no gift I could give him to make him feel loved. It was almost a Father-Daughter relationship with se.x.
If I had married him, he would have been bored shitless with me.

No self-assured 20-something wants to be married to someone over a decade her senior, who came with baggage of a kid or 2. Not unless she has insecurities or money issues and is looking for a father-daughter relationship. So you'll start out being her hero and stroking your ego. Then as she gets older and more confident, you're ageing and she stops needing you emotionally. So she focuses on her kids and you lack companionship. And that's several men I know.

You can't grow with her and no, you can't nurture her. She doesn't want it (I'm a woman, we're very strong-willed particularly after we've had children, which is a life-changing event).

Your age mate is about 3-5 years older or younger than you. You have things in common. There are insights that she can see, you can't. And vice versa. You grow together.

Companionship is more important in Marriage than anything else. And true companionship starts when the marriage is at least 4 years old, prior to that is the honeymoon stage.

Plus. You're a single dad, you have baggage, she's fresh out the box. She gets pregnant, you're paying for baby items and then getting ready to pay for secondary school (shey you know that schoolfees increases with time, uni being most expensive).

You don't have breathing space to plan with your new family unless you're loaded and even at that, she'll resent it because that money should be focused solely on her and her kids.

Also, you need to parent an older child as well as young kids, not easy. It requires patience (if they had given 26 yr old me a child of 10 to care for, we would hang out for a bit then I would disappear on her because kids are a lot of work). And if you try and force a bond, resentment breeds. And guess where that resentment will go?

Yes, others have done it. But it wasn't easy and required maturity that no 26 yr old can summon up by herself.

So have all this in mind.

Wow wow. Thanks a lot for this great advice. You have really opened my eyes alot to some things I never really thought about. Thanks again for this beautiful piece!

Onegai:
Bros, I support your mother.

That babe is too young but lust and infatuation won't let you see road. 13 years ago difference is not a joke and you don't want to enter and meet another gbese that you can't leave.

Let her stay for a while and vet her thoroughly, how well will she become a Stepmother. You need to think with your head, you're a package deal o.

Young people tend to not be as patient as older people.

Vet this babe.

Thank you very much for the advice

Business is booming for the UK. Nice one

Vikto17:
My mother is becoming something else honestly... l don't know if it selfishness or something else...

l will be 30yrs next year ,have a business that is paying me well , my fiancee is also doing well for herself .....

l realize that each time l raise issue regarding marriage. my mother keep on emphasizing on building house first and riding cars...l feel she is either not in touch with reality or she is afraid the help l am giving the family will stop once l get married...

In either way l am gradually smelling danger...my parents may disapproved my marriage because of their selfish reasons...

The thought of it annoys me honestly,, because l intend doing this marriage with or without their concept.. how do l start handling this issue? l intend getting married highest by 2026.please l need ur advice nairalanders..

I am facing the same problem with my mother. I am an only son although I have two sisters. I married early and had a daughter via that marriage although unfortunately that marriage was dissolved because of so many issues. Now I am 39 years old and I have found love again with a 26 year old beautiful lady but my mum has refused me getting married saying why I am in a hurry. I'm so angry. She said if I must marry this new girl she will not come for the marriage

abobote:
That road alone will tell you that Nigeria is the most corrupt country in the world.
If you are coming from Abidjan, the road will be smooth, till you cross the Seme border.
Without being told, you will know you are in Nigeria

Keep quiet. You're a liar. I ply that road all the time. The major corruption is between the Ghana/Togo border

blamingthedevil:
Bluesky has “blown past” its user growth projections so much that it’s racing to get more servers to keep the site running smoothly, Insider reports.

https://politicalwire.com/2024/11/25/bluesky-has-more-than-21-million-users/

I have been on Bluesky since January and I must say it's the best. Twitter is the most useless app. The shadow ban I got there made me leave.

sharpwriter:
And Australia and New Zealand... People rarely talk about Australia, why?

Because entering Australia is very difficult. Their visa process is something else

Kirigidi:
That's not true! Morocco, Algeria, Egypt, Tunisia,are by far more developed than Nigeria.

We are not talking about developed oga. We are talking about ease of getting a job and living a more fulfilling life with good health care and the rest. It's only Europe, Canada and America that can give you that. Not those racist North African countries

004gist:
Nonsense thread
Greed will cost u ur life.

U look finish na that kind country u wan enter

Listen... All African countries are same. Nonsense.

All aarab countries.... Nonsense.

Europe or America or stay in Nigeria

God bless you real good for this advice. Yet the average Nigerian will never listen. If its not Europe or America, you're on a very long thing. Nigeria is one hundred times better than those shithole African and Arab countries. Na suffering full there. Talking from experience

DeeScan:
. sentiments apa

rt, south africa is not better than Nigeria ..


Try Mauritius, rwanda , cape Verde ...


Those, i believe are better thsn Nigeria...

Bro see I have been to all those countries you mentioned above. There are no jobs for immigrants in those places. Even when I tried setting up a business in Cape Verde and Mauritius for where, their conditions for a foreigner to set up a business is so strict.

princepee:
before you Japa to anywhere make your research.
A friend sold his house and order properties to travel to Japan he is now stranded in UAE.
He was duped.
He said he can't come back to Nigeria because he has nothing to fall back on.
He is full of regrets,
he was doing fine here. But wanted something bigger..

The problem with the average Nigerian is GREED!!! I have never seen a greedy set of people like Nigerians. You will see them driving fine cars and living in a comfortable house yet they are still complaining about bad economy.

I really wish all the youths mostly men can leave Nigeria. I will be so happy. The population is too much. They should all leave

Kelechi009:
Those cases are far different, those ones already had kids in those countries. She is referring to 40+ newly coming to struggle from the beginning.

Any 40+ that travels abroad at that age is setting themselves up for failure.

Big fat lie.

Alakoriomo:
Is 500M naira enough to relocate to these countries at this time?

Indomie Brain

No single job in that so called Uyo. Everywhere you turn na Keke nappe drivers. No good business except Keke business which is so saturated. I prefer Portharcourt one thousand times.

You're very right. I have the same issue with my Samsung always saying low storage. Na Samsung Galaxy S20 oooo.... So annoying

Wike once said he is a career politician. I have never heard that anywhere in the world.

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