tasalanoni:
Nl folks, pls your opinions are needed.
I'm currently 31, earning reasonably well and with greater prospects for the future.

The pressure to settle down is getting stronger by the day. However, I don't consider myself psychically fit for marriage in the midst of the deterioration that the marriage Institution is experiencing.

Judging by my current perspective and disposition on the subject of marriage, I don't see myself setting down even in the next 5years. I try to carefully look at the pros and cons of contracting a marriage in today's world and I always come to the conclusion that there are more cons than pros.

I'm also not a very family oriented person in the sense of creating familial bonds and deeply cherishing them hence I derive my fulfillment and pleasure in doing the things I love to do, acquiring wealth and giving help wherever I deem necessary.

The thought of opting for an adoption is beginning to occupy the greater part of my consciousness and the reasons are few and in my opinion very valid.

1. Progeny is very important in social arrangements especially in the Igbo society. I'll definitely be needing someone to carry on the family's name and legacy when I'm no more.

2. If my perspective on marriage changes for any reason and I decide to take the step towards contracting one, I may have become a little too old then to handle the perculiates of marriage and family life( parenting, school runs issues etc). But with a child already in picture and almost a teenager by then, that part of the problem would have been kicked out..

Nb:As for raising the adopted child, myself, parents, siblings and a helper will be involved while financial responsibility will be exclusively mine.

Kindly help me with insightful and mature advice that is based on direct or third party experience.

guyboss:
The Poster of the device self no serious. Quoting high and weird prices for a locked device.
Receipt, him no get,
Oya come bring phone make i buy, bring means of ID sign undertaking, no
Him dey request Transport Fare.

Dem go soon flag off this thread shortly.

Laughnow419:
So make I gist una how I suffer
I am a cartoon animator before I spend about 60k a month on fuel... Because creating a cartoon requires atleast 12 hours work from morning till night to drop just one video on YouTube a week.
Below is one of my cartoon videos so you don't think am here to do a paid advert.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=59Mrk6f8ux0?si=MAZDGoKgYzXQd7tB

As at September 21st. I was so so frustrated I posted on nairaland that I could give you my eye if only you could show me where to buy Yoobao en1200q

https://www.nairaland.com/7848972/give-eye-show-me-selling

Yoobao then was out of stock... my fraustration increased. So I told my self instead of going for a lower stock I rather complete the money a million the next month to buy the Yoobao en2200q....


The next month being October Yoobao en2200q was also out of stock in the whole of jiji. I called everybody. Only two sellers gave me 1.390 the other 1.385 this doesn't include delivery to Port Harcourt.
So I calculated my odds.

Below is my call log 24th of October I made a screen record on October. Calling every single human being selling Yoobao on jiji.

I sold a laptop on nairaland here is the thread. Delivery with GIG was 9500 for a laptop I declared the value just 30k how much more this solar generator. I was scared of delivery maybe 70-100k outside the 1.4 million of Yoobao.

https://www.nairaland.com/7881746/laptop-owner-just-50k-other

PraiseGod4u:


Which recent iPhone will u see with180k?

The best ull get is Xs or Xr

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Olufhemy:
When people regard money than values

Obainoman6:
They banned nairaland for 4 days because of the unseriousness of its owner.
They asked him to take down an abusive content but he refused causing the site to be taken down after that he took it down but forgot to clear the cache so the site was restored but quickly taken down again.
After which he rushed to clear the cache but now cloudfare was determined to punish him prompting the commencement of another extra 36 hours ban, truly it's humbling in his own words.

But seun lied, at first he tweeted that nairaland was taken down due to unscheduled maintenance but when he found out he could no longer sustain his lie he decided to say the truth on his Twitter handle.

Please Mr seun take your site seriously and stop running it like the way Nigerian Politicians are running Nigeria.

Seun:
Dear Nairalanders and Advertisers.

Nairaland's server was taken down by our host's abuse team because of an abuse report that wasn't attended to on time.

After rectifying the error, we brought the server back for a few minutes, but they decided to take the server down again. Since then, we haven't heard from the abuse team, yet the support team keeps insisting that only the abuse team can help us.

So we had to transfer Nairaland to a temporary host in order to bring it back to you. A VERY time-consuming process. We are not fully back, even though most features of the site are working. We still have a long way to go. Additional downtime is likely; don't let it alarm you.

There's a lot more to say, but I have to go back to work to ensure that our return is permanent. Please forgive us for the stress we caused. We appreciate the love and support that you showed us during the ordeal. Nairaland is too important for us to let this happen again.

Best Regards,
Seun Osewa.

tetula123:

Check around you will see one to do without the mom. I had to ask another one after the first one refused without the mom’s consent.
I see dna like a must, before I got married I always told myself I was going to do dna for my kids it’s not about trust. I just feel it should be a must do. I did tell my wife I would have one after she gave birth in her words na me go waste my money she no get wahala. Later told my wife I did one, her reply was it’s a lie. I no even stress the matter my own is I have done what was on my mind. It’s expensive though

Dotinacircle:
I'm a 24 years old junior software developer working at a it company in nigeria, I don't come here to brag!!!, I only need advice from you guys to be successful more. I don't have girlfriend, I only focus on hustle. I need advice on how make my life better. Advice me like how a father will advice is son?? Thanks very much guys

Jewessgratitud3:
Soft life to hard life.

I guess when he got there and saw the pile of bills staring him in the face he had no choice but to grab the next available job.

If you are gainfully employed in naija, you don't need to japa. Japa is someone who has no hope of ever getting a job in Nigeria. He'll appreciate any kind of job he finds there.