Food / Re: My Breakfast This Morning by motionarena: 6:42pm On May 29 |
Queengee: Everything here is worth 2k Bread 800 Milk 600 Beans 300 Milo 300 Sugar 50
Believe me tinubu and APC has finished this country, eating healthy meal this days your account balance will feel it You eat too much for a lady Haba bread 800 milk 600 for what See the cup sef na bowl 4 Likes |
Romance / Re: Does This Legs Really Worth 20 Million by motionarena: 6:22pm On May 29 |
illicit: I no dey fvck ashawo but if I go do ashawo I no fit do this one pass 1500 Mumu wey still dey write JAMB You no fit follow am talk |
Business / Re: Ice-Block Sellers Use Freezing Chemicals Over Epileptic Power Supply by motionarena: 11:36am On May 29 |
Trials of Tinubulation |
Romance / Re: Betting Don Show Me Shege! by motionarena: 11:32am On May 27 |
Jerkbaba: If I don calculate all the 100 naira I don use waste for this betting, he go reach 6 figures. Chai! Betting don deal with me finfish! I don use over under strategy, bookings strategy, all kinds of strategy! Used all prediction sites, still I no fit get one! Hmmmm. Like this, na to just drink water sleep. U haven’t changed yet. Hmmm I pity you |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Papua New Guinea Landslide: 2,000 Buried Alive by motionarena: 11:06am On May 27 |
Wicked Leaders is our own Natural disaster 1 Like |
Phones / Re: Samsung S10 Plus 128gig by motionarena: 10:15am On May 26 |
MrWest02: [color=#000000][/color] Samsung s10plus 128gig Black 240k
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God punish APC Phone wey I buy 140k |
Education / Re: 340% Tarrif Hike: Darkness Looms As UNIBEN Says 'We Can't Afford N280m Bill' by motionarena: 6:24am On May 26 |
mightyhazel: Where are their professors in Engineering? Can't they generate some form of electricity? Solar? Provide funds na 1 Like |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Russia Is Building Africa's Largest Solar Plant In Mali (Photos) by motionarena: 8:40pm On May 25 |
mbahdi: The druglord is a curse to Nigeria you sick in the brain. Right? Its the President u calling a drug lord seems u wanna be unfortunate 4 Likes |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Manchester City vs Manchester United: FA Cup Finals (1 - 2) On 25th May 2024 by motionarena: 4:32pm On May 25 |
SyrusdeHansome:
U reason like someone with no brain cell. Na tru na Think say this useless Man utd will beat City on a usual day |
Food / Re: Economic Hardship: Plantain And Beans I Bought For 1000 by motionarena: 1:22pm On May 23 |
Sorry to say this OP but this looks like Excrement |
Phones / Re: What Is Tapswap? Why Nigerians Are Tapping Their Phone Screens by motionarena: 8:18am On May 23 |
Antoeni: Free Cool Cash. EFCc Please Stay Clear This is Not Yahoo, Even Police & Army Don Follow dey Tap too How do you get the App 1 Like |
Romance / Re: What's The Idea Behind The Tap Tap Tap Thing .. by motionarena: 6:38pm On May 22 |
Prettygirl200: Me I don't know if it will pay or not , but as long as I didn't put a dime in it I decided to try, do if it pays fine, if it doesn't fine, I didn't loose they didn't gain. Simple!! Well you lost time and energy 1 Like |
Health / Re: Margaret Oyibo Atayi Allegedly Commits Suicide Over Failed Marriage by motionarena: 9:08am On May 22 |
Naija police don run assumptions 7 Likes |
Crime / Re: Army Reacts To Attack On Soldiers At Banex Plaza by motionarena: 9:22pm On May 21 |
Make una stay for your Barracks 52 Likes 1 Share |
Crime / Re: Soldier Slaps Woman Into Coma At Banex & Takes Her Away by motionarena: 3:32pm On May 21 |
Abi Nothing Good comes out of dat banex 1 Like |
Politics / Re: ’40’ Shot Dead As Bandits Sack Plateau Community by motionarena: 11:45am On May 21 |
Na normal thing for her We sweep it under the carpet and move on but if na Palestine matter we sabi chook mouth for that One 1 Like |
Food / Re: How Much Will Get You These In Today's Nigeria Market? (SEE PHOTO) by motionarena: 11:11am On May 21 |
money121: How much will get you these in Today's Nigeria Market?
1.6m Bubu and Tinubulation has really destroyed this economy |
Politics / Re: Japa: Proprietor Collects WAEC, NECO Fees, Sells School, Flies Abroad by motionarena: 6:53am On May 21 |
SalamRushdie: A country without a single honest person Very disgusting country Nigerians don’t deserve good things 1 Like |
Phones / Re: Low Purchasing Power: Nigerians Go For Swapping As Prices Of Mobile Phones Rise by motionarena: 4:31pm On May 20 |
slivertongue: APC destroyed the economy Don't worry I will fix it son |
Phones / Re: Starlink Is The Third Largest Internet Provider In Nigeria In Q4 2023 - NCC by motionarena: 1:18pm On May 20 |
MTN, Glo spectranet and d likes are just lucky if starlink can just be affordable
Dem go cry for customers 26 Likes 3 Shares |
Romance / Re: How Do I Fix My Marriage, It Has Crashed - Family - Nairaland by motionarena: 8:09am On May 20 |
tomi4life: Not sure if this is the right forum, but I am unhappy, as I type this message, I think it is usually too late to cry when the head is cut off, but i will cry anyways.
I have been married for 6 years now and brethren it has not been easy, I think I married a wrong person, am not a perfect neither is she, i just think we are not compatible. There is is no love between us. Our values are different. Me and my wife dont get along, well.
We have just been tolerating each other. I only realize what i am missing because i recent caught feelings for this colleague of mine. So there is this colleague of mine, we have worked together for almost 2 years now but more related to work. I have started catching feelings for this girl o and it all started in a party we attend together. I know she too has feeling for me. I see it in her eyes. She comes to sit with me, and we talk about alot of private stuff. She tells me all that is happening in her life, i also do same. she knows I am married with kids but i am sure if i make a move she will agree. I never could imagine I will find myself in a situation, tempted to commit adultery. When i have a wife at home, this opened my eyes and push me to want resolved the relationship issue with my wife. I approached her some days ago to voice my concern that the marriage is not working, we dont communicate, there is no love, what can we do to resolve the matter. My wife said she is used to our situation. I asked what can we do differently and she says we shd go see a marriage counselor. I said fine but can we even discuss and she tells me she is tired she wants to sleep and then stops responding to me.
My wife prefers to sleep alone, despite me telling her we shd sleep together as a couple. if she is in the room and I come to the room she will immediately goes to the parlor, we rarely have body contact. The few times we have sex she never kisses even when i try, she puts her mouth away. Even in the car we can be on a drive for 1 hr, without mentioning a word to each other. Most times it is either the car radio or my kids that break the silence. What surprises me is she is very comfortable with it, you just see her on her phone. The only saving grace is I have a source of income and provide for the home that why she listens sometimes.
Reflecting back on if i had to opportunity i wont have married her, she has caused me alot of pain. she doesnt play that supportive role expected of a wife, she has this feminist tendency. She also has this ego issue and find it difficult to take feedback, whenever i raise an issue, she just get very upset and in many times it turns into a fight. There are days I fall sick, my wife no send o. Even cooking for me is like stress. She goes out without telling me, does things without getting my consent or even carrying me along. When she brings people to the house, she wont even introduce them to me as her husband. she doesnt send respect or regards me. I tell you an example of something that happened last year, we were travelling November last year to the UK on holidays with the children, because of our luggages we took two uber vehicles, I sat in one with my daughter, my wife sat in the other with my son. While on the way to the airport, do you know my wife asked the driver to take a detour to shoprite that she wants to give someone the left over stew and food items we had. Shoprite is not on the way to the airport, we had less than 2 hours to go for an intentional flight. It was me that noticed their car going a different direction, I had to call the uber driver to tell him to turn back immediately. When the uber guy came he told me he had asked my wife to mention it to me, but she said no need, I dont need to be told. We got to the airport while offloading the luggage from the car, my wife suddenly disappeared. I had 8 boxes , 2 children to move with. Thank God for those people that help with the luggage at the airport. I passed through customs and NDLEA and began to clear with the airline before she showed up. I was so mad, even a custom lady was yelling at her, how can you just disappear leaving your husband with all the loads and children. My wife didnt even apologize, she said she went to drop the food items with the person she asked to come to the airport, after i asked the uber driver to reroute to the airport. That is how disunited we are.
The good side is not cheating, and she is spiritual, she can go to church 10 times a week, currently serves in 2 units and hold leadership roles in those unit. I have told her if she give 20 percent of the time in church to our relationship and family we would be happier. The major complain she mentioned from my side is we shd go out together more often, she wants me to organize morning devotions, that we shd pray more with the children, this was something I believe her dad did when they were growing up, the experience is different for me. I have told her I will try. She also mentioned I like to complain, which is not true.
This whole thing is hitting me hard cos I dont want to cheat with my colleague and i just experienced a glimpse of what we shd be enjoying. I also have the chance of relocating to the Australia but i knw if we do, I will enter one chance.
Does anyone knw a good marriage counselor, that can be recommended, I saw one done by one of this popular pastor they are asking for $150 for a 1hour session, I also dont want to involve my family or her family.
I am tempted to just leave the house for 2 weeks and go stay in an hotel, but how will that help it will only make matters worse. Forget Anoda man dey chop your wife wella. She is enjoying a better diick and can’t wait to get rid of you No stress urself go enjoy ur life with that your Colleague when you show her your weak signs she will continue to take advantage 1 Like 1 Share |
Religion / Re: I Struggled With Pornography – Pastor Isaac Oyedepo by motionarena: 8:54am On May 19 |
judedwriter: Virtually every man struggled with porn at a point in his life....
Porn is one of the greatest evils of this century! I never did. I can tell you never in my life have I seen a porn video or knows what it looks like |
Phones / Re: What Happened After I Bought Nokia 6300 At Wuse Market by motionarena: 10:30am On May 18 |
CountinBlessins: Go to school Una no go gre. Kai is os dead .
It's a dead os so even if you got the original why I earth would your waste your money ? Did little research and it seems the OS is still active |
Crime / Re: Lady Confronts New User Of Her Stolen Phone After Tracking It (Video) by motionarena: 10:38am On May 17 |
Localgrandpa:
Brokelyn forming dangote because nairaland is faceless Your Mama Am not in your broke category |
Crime / Re: Lady Confronts New User Of Her Stolen Phone After Tracking It (Video) by motionarena: 8:52am On May 17 |
bemeruca:
She treks and stand in bustop for one aboki to steal the phone. Learn how to use common sense. Majority of the stolen phones are done because the owner they trek or enter one chance Keke.
You use almost a million buy stupid phone only for someone to steal it and sell it for 30k. Dundee United Is buying a car among everyone priorities. So if she chooses not to get a car that forbids her from buying the phone of her choice as if dem no dey break into cars too. I know many business ladies that can afford to buy a car and choose not to. 1 Like 1 Share |
Crime / Re: Lady Confronts New User Of Her Stolen Phone After Tracking It (Video) by motionarena: 8:41am On May 17 |
Localgrandpa:
See who is saying someone has poverty mentality. Have you ever heard of money management? That's what makes you rich. When did an iphone become a status symbol for being rich. Una poor people go just dey use una mind dey go more into poverty and dey talk poverty talk. U no get motor u dey use phone way reach 500k or even more than a milli or you dey buy used phones of more than a 100k you are poor and you will stay long being poor Minimum you can use to get a good phone now is 200k so what if she choose to get a phone above 500k. If getting a car and its hassles is not among her priorities for now? So because I cannot afford car I most get palasa phone, your poverty mentality alone no go make you enjoy like. You keep feeling basic things of life are above your reach. 1 Like |
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Business / Re: World Bank Blacklists 58 Nigerian Companies, Individuals Over Corruption by motionarena: 9:27am On May 16 |
Alpha Beta should be number 1 on the list |
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Celebrities / Re: Policemen Dragged Portable To Police Station Over G-Wagon Debt (Video) by motionarena: 10:41am On May 15 |
Its just skit |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Tottenham Hotspur Vs Manchester City (0 - 2) On 14th May 2024 by motionarena: 8:49pm On May 14 |
lol
I laugh at you all. The match is just an illusion.
Man city not playing well to make it seem spurs are in the game. Man city will end up scoring a late goal is all pre planned 4 Likes 1 Share |