franchasofficia: The number one reason poor or struggling guys in Nigeria remain poor or become poorer is because they marry anyhow, mostly out of pity and emotion claiming its love.
When making critical life decisions like marriage, you must take pity out of it.
Royal families that have all the wealth to carry any amount of load will never allow their Prince or sons to marry into poor family or ordinary family, but poor guys born into poor families will cheerfully go and marry poorer girls born into poorer family and hoping on luck to shine on them to survive the tsunami they started in the name of love. This is why we have too many poor families and hundreds of millions of poor Nigerians today.
As a struggling young man, when you want to marry, marry a help mate, marry a lady doing something that will support you financially. Marriage decisions are not made based on big breast, big buttocks and hot pussy alone, you must consider the financial future and implications. Marry a help mate not a baggage because both of you will end up crashing. At the end, both of you end up not helping the other's situation but rather complicated it. That is why in Igbo dialect, there is an adage that says: "onye akwo n'azu anaghi akwo onye ozo", meaning someone that is being backed cannot back another person or someone that is being carried cannot carry another person. Don't try to save a poor girl out of pity through marriage when you as a guy is still looking for who to help you or how to come out of your own financial and life mess. Always use your wisdom in this life if not, you will end up at the bottom of the ladder of life struggling to survive.
You guys will see mature ladies that are gainfully employed, that will support you in marriage and you will abandon them in the name of she is an evening newspaper and you go and marry small girls that have no financial or career or skill bearing and tomorrow when things become difficult for you guys, you now carry the wahala to Church to disturb God that gave you wisdom and common sense to use to maneuver through life.
Go and read the book of Proverbs on how Bible described a wife, that should give most of you an idea of the kind of ladies to marry.
And to every single lady reading this, try and equip yourself for marriage, get a skill learn a trade, take away pride and learn something and also get a small job and save. Prepare for marriage, don't wait until you marry a rich guy, rich guys are scarce now and the competition to get them is very high. Prepare your mind to support any man you would be getting married to.
To all men reading, help your daughters, sisters, nieces and cousins to have something doing in preparation for marriage. Don't let your single female wards to be empty without any skill or career or something to go into marriage please
I don't know. I've been listening to this guy for a while now. Kevin Samuels. I think he was a relationship adviser. He puts the roles of men and women into clear perspective for this modern age. He began giving advice to men. But women seem to have hijacked his channel and he started giving advice to women as well. (he died some time last year or so). Basically he tells women that their feminist stuff is bullsh1t. Their job, qualification and money is bullsh1t, after all, they won't give the man their money. That men just want cooperative, humble women, whom they can phycially carry. No orobo/overweight. Here's a sample of some of his conversations.
toonbee: Good morning everybody I have a Brand new Ac available and come with full Kits. It has never been opened or used before. Just like the way it is In the picture that’s the way it is.
Location. Lagos state
New Haier Thermocool 1.5hp tundra Supercool
08138100720. Am selling it because I want to relocate.
Choose between new federal polytechnic in abia state,new federal collage of education ebonyi state and new federal polytechnic in delta state , make your choice and communicate to me through the mail i will send to you. Please do it before 12noon tomorrow.check your nairaland mail box. Communicate only your choice and your CV please no other messages or writer up. Have a wonderful day.
Typical example of "big dogs don't bark". I greet you Ma and God bless you.
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Very good games.... But here are some potential pitfalls
Union Berlin have one the highest clean sheets or NG scoreline in the competition....
As you can observe they also maintain such trend in their league... So the possibility of replicating the clean sheet dynamics is high.
Only saving grace might be ajax will Force them to place their style of mostly counter...
So there's a possibility that Union concedes first, union locks up and poach for goal... Or union scores first they lock up and ajax will find a away of clawing them back..
I see more of under 3 or under 4
Sheriff game is more liken to eastern European slug fest.... Moldova v Serbia, expect defensive mechanism from them both.... If sheriff carried the ginger from ucl group stage, then they might win... But trust partizan to frustrate them and try to take a one goal lead or draw back home..
Trabzon more fresher than Basel due to rest of weekend games due to the earthquake.... They will want to use this game as an avenue to lighten up turkey through this dark period... Expect high defense and at least 2 goals to kill off basel...
Basel on other hand dy log off sometimes... If they're composed then they would try get something from the game to take back home.
Sevilla are still going through their depressed state..... Expect PSV to defend well while seeking a goals.... But if Sevilla scores first they might lock up, thus reducing goal tally.
General trend is since after the world cup club football have taken another dimension.... Something not understood.
Expecting low scoring events across board
Good analysis, drop your edit, i want to verify something.
I can confirm she's legit, I've bought 2 shoes and a half shoe from her but every other thing is correct, she's very slow to answer messages which I think she does on purpose cause most times she doesn't have the answers to many questions as she's clearly a dropshipper but I'll still reiterate that she's legit, her products are as described and she sells cheaper than most other sellers of those same products
Thanks for this. She could have mentioned the bolded though. It wouldn't have mattered. All i needed was someone to confirm that she was legit. I'm sorry if you found my post offensive @ Anuoreangel , i had to be sure. More sales.
Don’t you think there is a reason her product are never available for you and not responding to your messages? I’ve seen what I wanted in a shop before and the seller told me, e no dey because he knows I’m a palaver person, do I now go around calling him a thief? Her peace of mind may be paramount to her.
What's the reason for the bolded? At what point did i mention that she's a thief? Like you rightly stated, you be wahala person so i won't give you the appropriate response you deserve. Kindly go back to my post but this time, read slowly. Thanks
ericuzor: all you do is post shoes for sale that are never available, you are the worst sales person, you don't respond to request of available shoes, so why posting shoes here for sale that are not for sale.. wasting people's time..
Wow! I thought i was the only one! This woman don show me shege this year! Had to run away when she nearly turned me to a mad person on top my own money o! Her products are NEVER available. she NEVER returns her messages, the list is endless. But she will never stop posting. Noticed the pictures of her shoes on other platforms that other sellers use too, so it's hard to tell if she's legit or not. We should thread with caution.
hagjay: Okafor law of congodynamics states that Any congo that has been shined ONCE can always be shined again and again provided it was shined PROPERLY the first time.
Nairaland / General / Re: Things That Sound Like Compliments But Are Actually Insults. by MrOreo(m): 4:56pm On Oct 06, 2023 
