₦airaland Forum

Wealthyonos:
You were making 6 figures without plans and savings. Omoh, where una dey receive una training from? Na like this you wan take be Dangote?
What I was looking for in your story if it's real is for you not to invest your hard earned money into the relationship. You flopped big time because she was the one who came for you. You should have acted broke, eat her money, borrow lots of money from her and by now, na she for dey cry blood. Na ur money wey u waste dey pain u so not any mumu love

Any pay up to 100k is 6figures. So with the current nigeria situation which part it can he save. Or do you think that 6figures is million?

ErnestNc:
It was a bitter sweet experience I'd not advice any young man to engage in. It's a game and the only way to win, is to be the user .

I knew this already but unfortunately I was blind sided and disarmed by the love I had for her 13yr old child. The child was so bright. I tutored her in mathematics til she became the best. I saw a lonely bright child who took me as a father figure in her school.

I was so attached and one day I was opportune to meet with her mother. I met a very beautiful young woman in her early 30's the day she came to drop off her child at school. Prior to this, our chat engagement was official and all about her daughter's growth. She requested that I drop all formality and desist from caling her "ma" . She called me babe instead and We both became informal with time and got very close. There was constant calls and communication.

She told me alot about her past , her 4 exes and how she's been alone. It turns out she was always the victim in all her stories . She's so pretty , why would any man leave such a woman? I kept asking myself. She learnt about our 5yrs age difference which was shocking to her but she was already deep into it and ready to go down.

THE ROMANCE

We became sexually involved and things were going down fast. She had great sexual appetite . She wanted me to marry her and was fond of calling me her child's soon to be father and how we were gonna get married. She's a fashion designer who is financially stable.


CRISIS

She had sudden financial crisis after embarking on a huge project. To assist , I tutored the child for free and I was assisting her occasionally with finances cuz I had lesson gigs fetching me 6figures.

Soon, I started to realise her sudden change of attitude. The calls soon dropped and we started to have alot of unresolvable fights , reason being that she would rather not like to settle the conflict when I want to, but make it linger so I'd have to beg her even when she was wrong. She never likes to talk about the unresolved issues, so we could trash it amicably and make amends where necessary.


POINT OF REALISATION

I suspected she was sleeping around and one day I decided to pay her a visit . On that faithful day, I heard her elder sister over a loud phone conversation " Jane, u really have my time today that you didn't go to man's house"
". I cringed on hearing that . This is someone who said she doesn't sleep around because of the stereotype attached to being a single mom.

They both laughed about it and she told her sister that she was currently with a man. The sister said further " what of bros? He say he no do again or when he go engage u?
" .

This time I felt the ground should open up . "Bros" is an elderly man in his 50's who wants to marry her. We had a fight that night and she denied that she had anything to do with bros and her sis was joking about her visits to men. We trashed it and made up with sex.

Next morning she was on call with a male friend who wanted to borrow money from her and she called him babe.

Note that, she's called a different male friend babe accidentally too and she quickly defended that she calls all her male friends "babe" . I told her it wasn't cool. She got defensive and even called another male friend and she told him I was jealous, they both laughed and she ended the call with " I love you and he replied too". We had a fight . I left and still came back to check on her. I was ignored while she was on call with her male friend for 30mins after which she invited him over with 2 other guys.

I asked why and what for. She boldly told me "whatever activities I have with my friends is not your concern , even if we have 10some
" .


I was saddened because this was someone for once I was ready to risk it all to settle down with. She was probably entangled in something I never understood. I discovered that she clubbed on Sundays , and would never allow her daughter come live with her. The poor child has been living with her grandparents for 13yrs. My girlfriend also abused weed and alcohol. I saw all these in her fridge

THE PREGNANCY

I was broken by everything and kept my distance but we still spoke. Early this year, we both suspected she was pregnant since she missed her period. We did a test and I found out she was pregnant. 4weeks 8days but I doubted it was mine after all the recent discoveries. To cut the long story short she removed it and bled for days.

The disrespect and devaluation kept on going . I was mentally unstable for a while and took Ill. I couldn't resume to teach and I lost my job. My mother was angry with me for having anything to do with her.

I broke up with her cuz I realised what I had wasn't real. I realised I never did anything that bad to deserve all the treatments I received. I was supporting and loving and was even a father figure to her child .

I'm without a job now but I'll be commencing a technical training for a better job offer. I'm still unstable and hurt but I'll bounce.

I'm one of those guys who don't believe in playing nice because ive been hurt before. I broke my rules and was disarmed by the love I had for a child and I fell in love with a lie. But it's all good. I learnt my lesson.

Whenever I see red flag I act once and for all. I don't excuse red flag even for once. That one excuse is a silly but detrimental mistake. A woman does not joke with love so once the red flag pops up just know it is serious.

SmartPolician:
Talented people like Peller, right?

You need to understand that foolishness sells more than wisdom among black people

Of course, black is known to value white product more. Evidence of inferiority complex.

celestineteryim:
is Obi that helps them achieve this milestone nah according to you, which party have good leaders?

Tinubu must go.

DrMB:
Is Nigeria really an "Energy Giant," or are we just scratching the surface? 🇳🇬⚡️
According to the International Energy Agency, Nigeria is the 5th largest producer of electricity on the continent.
Nigeria’s position among Africa’s top five producers is a profound paradox: despite being a "top" generator, defined by chronic energy poverty. While South Africa and Egypt use their massive outputs to sustain industrial economies, Nigeria’s similar total output is diluted by a population of 240 million, leaving the average citizen with 20 times less power than their South African counterparts.
This creates a "Giant with Clay Feet" scenario where Nigeria’s grid provides just 170 GWh per million people, a staggering contrast to the 3,522 GWh available in South Africa or the 2,001 GWh in Algeria.
If you could solve one part of the energy chain: Generation, Transmission, or Distribution, which would it be?
Let’s discuss the future of the grid in the comments! 👇



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Yet Ghana the 7th has 247 electric supply while Nigerians are still praying for average of 12 hours daily in the so called band A.
Nigeria is always opposite of every good news. Thank God for life and good health he gave us.

Nigeria has talented individuals, a lot of them. It is God's gift not an APC achievement.

Nigeria needs good leaders but APC offers it lots of the very global worst.

dre11:
https://leadership.ng/rewane-pegs-nairas-true-value-at-n1257-says-currency-undervalued-by-11/

So this is APC's achievement.

placeofallure:
Oh! The great war where the brave Ojukwu fought and later ran away to a foreign land. How brave! Bravo!

Don't force your cowardly Ojukwu down our throats too. He's not a national emblem. Rádaràda! Getatt!

May be awolowo who drank poison out of fear is the national emblem.

richiemcgold:
Sango and oya should be adopted into short storybook for kiddies of this generation to know the story and learn sone lessons. The end of the two was a serious tragic flaw.

BTW, I read some comments up there and laughed at people's ignorance. Sango was once a king of old Oyo empire.

Strictly for your tribe. Other tribes have their own stories. The story you speak of is alien to us both in language and in content.

There is no national love story in nigeria. What you posted is known only to your tribe. We don't even have an indigenous national language let alone national story.

Please OP be guided and stop misleading the public.

DrMB:
Behind every great nation is a love story that shaped its history. From the tragic end of Romeo and Juliet in Italy to the eternal monument of the Taj Mahal in India, these tales define what it means to love.
Which of these legendary romances is your favorite? Is your country’s story a fairytale or a tragedy?
Check the list below and let us know your country's story in the comments! 👇




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Please what is Sango and Oya? We don't have country tales in Nigeria. We have such in our different tribe. Don't come here to force your tribe's story and as a national story. No story is ever national apart from that of war fought by great Ojukwu against the Islamic cells of British caliphate.

Validated:
Nigeria separation will be the best gift from God. 90% of all Nigerians in Diaspora are Southerners who got fed up with the entity called Nigeria. Most of these professionals will be back to transform the Southern country.

Does this south include the Southwest. Southern Kaduna is more South than Southwest.

Let Nigeria separate but the Southwest should remain with the North in Nigeria.

IkeOnyia:
Forget the crowd. Kwankwaso is steadily losing relevance in Kano local politics the same way Peter Obi was losing it steadily in Anambra local politics up to this point when he is not even sure of winning his own polling unit.

Once the governor teams up with Ganduje and deputy Senate president Barau, they will comfortably overpower Kwankwaso in 2027.

Yes you are right.

Simplest answer to avoid argument with an olodo.

Kemetian:
This is the type of cultural influence nations go to war to have - pay billions of dollars to have.

CHINA and INDIA would be looking at this and thinking ''Damn! Wish we had this type of cultural permeation power in the USA." - and yet we have some absolute dunderheads here pushing for the ''break up of Nigeria'', to become little Togos and Sierra Leones - voiceless, inconsequential, zero influence, and easy to bully by foreign powers.

Nonsense.

If you want Nigeria to 'break up', move to another country and break up yourself there.

Just view your own head full of excretre. Just because you don't want to little as Togo and co, you would rather prefer that human lives are lost than dividing Nigeria.

Tell me anywhere the current nugeria is better than Togo. I want 2025 facts.

CyynthiaKiss:
https://nypost.com/2026/01/24/world-news/irans-supreme-leader-retreats-underground-warned-of-likelihood-of-us-airstrikes-report/?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=nypost&utm_sf_cserv_ref=134486075205&utm_sf_post_ref=658713889&sr_share=facebook&fbclid=IwZnRzaAPiAtVleHRuA2FlbQIxMQBzcnRjBmFwcF9pZAo2NjI4NTY4Mzc5AAEeP6iHekjA2zr4Vg592DR0YPtVNeNDvY0u3HG_lvbK4QHExnOvgT2PFVbjTnA_aem_3kqzgcwhTr7Y4zdmCTD31w

He cannot escape paying for the blood letting his selfish regime brought upon the good people of Iran.

abc115:
This is not AI, this is Enugu-Onitsha Expressway.

This is being proudly done by President Bola Ahmed Tinubu.

The PDP government failed to touch it for 16years.

https://x.com/Equityoyo/status/2013158030322397336

May be I should have been the one to come and construct it. Keep singing unneeded praise.

abc115:
President Bola Tinubu Govt Dualisation of Abakaliki - Enugu Expressway

Things are getting better ❤️‍🩹 pic.twitter.com/HLKg3dSbZm

— Ayekooto (@DeeOneAyekooto) January 24, 2026

Tinubu s tenure ends in 2027. Period!

Olofofo247ng:
Pat Utomi Was ADC (african Democratic Congress) Presidential Aspirant In 2006


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Someone had said tinubu was the tink tank that birthed political coalition in Nigeria. He only copied what was there and they succeeded with Thierry rigging because Obama was there for them.

SlavaUkraini:
https://www.thecable.ng/obi-or-nothing-not-helpful-adc-warns-supporters-against-divisive-politics/

I don't need to partake in your polls. PO is not supported to any form of VP. You guys in ADC knew that. Anybody hoping to receive PO so as to inherit his supporters is already lost. PO will not deputy anyone.

AMINDA:
Where is Fayose who told us Makinde went to beg Tinubu in Aso Rock? It appears to be Vice versa, seeing that Tinubu also met Olubadan the next day. Makinde continues to swing at Tinubu and appears he won't be taking any prisoners. In Osun, Tinubu is withholding local government allocations to strangle Adeleke while Lagos state remains a swing state. Tinubu cannot win the Southwest in a landslide come 2027.

If he cannot win Southwest where on earth can he ever win?

nairalanda1:
The above is representative of how most Nigerian governments think.

Nigerian governments are voted on the principle of 'its our turn' which is why any problem is seen as an attempt to undermine the government and not as an opportunity to solve the problem and shine overall

Am not a fan of most of our first ladies past and present, but the former first lady of edo state, the wife of the governor elected in 1999 , when it was shown that edo was exporting lots of girls as prostitutes did not respond the way this government is responding. Of course we know that as a result some changes came about. Not long lasting change but something did happen.

While I don't think that christians are the prime targets of the attacks by the bandits, because Muslims have been kidnapped and attacked for over ten years by the same bandits, and while I don't think that the government is doing zero, they are, the issue is that they can do more and they can deal with the trust issues . But because they came into power on the it's our turn motive, they can't.

CHRISTIANS ARE THE MAIN TARGET. Boko Haram, Fulani herdsmen, terrorist renamed bandits are all for same purpose; conquer them and Islamist them by force.

If you are a Christian I would advise you to call a spade by its name. Aiming at sounding politically correct at your own expense is the greatest form of self deceit. Don't be deceived. Though I doubt you are a Christian.

Oluwabash:
https://dailypost.ng/2026/01/24/nigeria-treats-religious-violence-as-attack-on-the-state-nsa-ribadu/

Yet Keller's of Deborah are yet to be sent to their 72 virgins. Lying old man.

Arkmanbuddy:
I also think Mr. Deji should also talk to his sons to stop sleeping around. This is not a flex that your son's been accused of not accepting a child that's thought to be his, though DNA tests have proved otherwise.

The man shouldn't be out here defending his sons. That's my take.

No!!!! He should out there defending you. Correction is private. Adeleke family has shown a very strong family tradition and principle.

Kuginzi:
By Sunny Green Itodo

Popular Nollywood actress, Nancy Isime has revealed the type of man she would like to marry, disclosing that character is more important to her than material things.

In a candid conversation with media personality, Morayo Afolabi-Brown, Isime stated that kindness is a non-negotiable trait for her when it comes to choosing a life partner.

The movie star explained that she doesn’t mind marrying a man who is kind regardless of their status or any other deficiency as she believes that they can be corrected.

Isime said she is ready for marriage, emphasizing that she is now 34 years old.

“I am of marriage age. I am 34. Yes, I am a very attractive lady and men can desire me. But I have to choose what I settle with. First of all, I like kindness. I find kindness one of the most attractive traits.

"Before you can be my friend or even relate with me, not to talk of getting married to me, you have to be kind. And I don’t mean performative. I mean genuine kindness. Once you are kind, everything else can be worked on,” she said.

https://dailypost.ng/2026/01/24/im-34-ready-for-marriage-nancy-isime/

Okay.

Lifestone:
But he said the truth. No Region can single handedly win the Presidency

Yes, no region but Igbos will never form alliance with serial betrayers.

obcpascal:
This Man is always fool of himself, thinks he knows more than all Igbos, how did he contribute to the Peace in Igboland. All credit goes to the security agencies and Igbos who chose to embrace peace and security especially this festive period. Election is close by, he now wants to align with Abia Government. The Tsunami is coming next year.

He is living in limbo and he will discover very soon.

Lifestone:
The best solution, the best way out

In your dream. Igbos don't need una alliance.

chiagozien:
What Igbo need is a separate country where they will build to compete with civilized Countries.



Nigeria with only Yorubas and Hausafulanis will be a wonderful country 🙄🙄

Yes!!! Very wonderful indeed

Kuginzi:
https://dailypost.ng/2026/01/23/igbos-need-political-partnership-with-south-west-north-for-the-future-deputy-speaker-kalu/

Never shall Igbos have any form of partnership with yorubas. Never!!!! I mean NEVER!!!!!

Economy better? Words of men who has politics as their only source of survival. Rice is now ₦57000 and above. Evil era of Buharis govt sold at ₦30000. Something that was sold ₦5000 when Nigeria last had a president.
Is it the dollar naira rate or the fuel or anything. What exactly made the economy better. Delusion seems to have acquired a new name such as senator arise.

alphonsoolajide:

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7598061696699190548?_r=1&_t=ZS-93KuaBNAzkz




https://eyesoflagos.com/2026/01/24/woman-gifts-9-year-old-daughter-iphone-17-for-coming-second-in-class/

More like a woman amputated her 9 year old for coming first in 1500m race.