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Politics › Re: FG To Introduce Mandatory Vehicle Recycling Fee From 2026 by MrSly(m): 12:29pm On Dec 22, 2025
Tinubu will eventually turn out for whom he is. A broad day robber.
Politics › Re: Presidency Clarifies Controversy Over Alleged Discrepancies In Tax Laws by MrSly(m): 11:42am On Dec 22, 2025
Burob:
From my observation, only criminal minded tax dodgers, & violators will be concerned about any purported amendments.

Or the plain ignorant people that will wail just for wailing 😭 sake.
Says a man who has never paid tax in his entire life. What do you even know?
Romance › Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by MrSly(m): 11:35am On Dec 22, 2025
Fiscus105:
You biliv every woman that good in bed is a whoorre, and if a woman not good in bed, she cannot involve in extramarital relationship?


Your reasoning is shallow minded.
You reek of cyber immaturity and poor etiquette. So because his view is not in line with your opinion which is based purely on probabilities, you called him shallow minded.
Romance › Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by MrSly(m):
Fiscus105:
Sister A.
WORKING CLASS LADY.
FINANCIAL SUPPORTIVE.
CANNOT COOK/CLEAN.
GOOD IN BED.





Sister B.

JOBLESS LADY BUT CAN MAKE HAIR.
BROKE,BUT CAN PRAY.
CAN COOK & CLEAN.
LAZY IN BED.


For me I will go for sister A and cover up for her shortcomings
Prayer is habits that can be inculcated, and maid will be hired for cleaning.
I will go for B. She has no definite destination so I can set it as high as I want. A already has a defined path , most probably limited.

As for the bed thing. After a month of good job she will brush. It easy to learn. As a man do not joke with quality home made food made by wify not some maiden.
Politics › Re: Police Take Over Azbir Hotel, Azbir Arena Linked To Ex-AGF Abubakar Malami by MrSly(m): 10:06pm On Dec 21, 2025
fuckingAyaya:
Those that incarcerated Nnamdi kanu will pay for it
What you said is no meaning. Those who jailed Nnamdi Kanu are the same people who are dragging those who repatriated him illegally. They are the same common enemy of MNK.
Politics › Re: Tinubu Commissions 3,000 Electric Bicycles In Borno State by MrSly(m): 10:00pm On Dec 21, 2025
nairalandankrah:
https://dailytrust.com/tinubu-commissions-3620-e-vehicles-other-projects-in-borno/?noamp=available
See the type of project this President is commissioning. Bicycles, kekenappep. Nigeria is a very big funny joke.
Politics › Re: Nigeria Has Moved From Padded Budgets To Forged Laws’ — Peter Obi by MrSly(m): 11:25am On Dec 21, 2025
Kuginzi:
https://dailypost.ng/2025/12/20/nigeria-has-moved-from-padded-budgets-to-forged-laws-peter-obi/
Under tinubu's illegitimate regime, the sanctity of our national institutions are being ridiculed, with the judiciary in the mud.
Politics › Re: Nigeria Has Moved From Padded Budgets To Forged Laws’ — Peter Obi by MrSly(m): 11:23am On Dec 21, 2025
TV/Movies › Re: 'A Very Dirty Christmas': CAN Condemns Ini Edo’s Film As Offensive To Christians by MrSly(m): 8:21pm On Dec 20, 2025
brain54:
Ini Edo would be so happy for the free publicity for her movie...


And can is making absolutely no point on this matter in my opinion!
They would have if they said i
Edel malud was dirty right?
Politics › Re: Only A Fool On A Suicidal Path Will challenge Tinubu In 2027 - VP Shettima by MrSly(m): 8:17pm On Dec 20, 2025
fergie001:
Vice President Kashim Shettima
Imagine what comes out of the mouth of a sitting vice president. These men are immature.
Politics › Re: Tax Laws Forgery: President Tinubu After Total Power, Says ADC by MrSly(m): 8:13pm On Dec 20, 2025
DiarisGodoo:
Except that Tinubu won't totally leave. I predict what happened in Lagos will happen nationally. Tinubu will continue rullung Nigeria by proxy, even after he leaves office in 2031
Lagos is Yoruba and nigeria is not.
Politics › Re: Tax Laws Forgery: President Tinubu After Total Power, Says ADC by MrSly(m): 8:10pm On Dec 20, 2025
iwaeda:
Tax Laws Forgery: President Tinubu After Total Power, Says ADC

—-Demands Suspension of Tax Laws Following Forgery Findings


Source
This tinubu is too petty. He forged his certificate, forged age, forged his origin even forged his name, forged election results forged court rulings and now he has forged a law that has been duly passed by the legislature. Anyways I blame the men of no integry upon whose shoulder he leaned to carry out all these atrocities, starting from yakubu.
Family › Re: Why Most Women Stay In Abusive Marriages In Nigeria, The Dark Psychology!!! by MrSly(m): 10:16am On Dec 20, 2025
Naijalegal:
Destigmatizing Divorce

Destigmatizing divorce is a necessity in this generation. Divorce is not a sign of failure. Marriage is not the ultimate purpose of this life, being married is not the biggest achievement and the purpose of marriage is to enjoy it and not to fight for it. If you find yourself fighting for your marriage just know that the war may never come to an end and even if you will win few battles you may still end up not winning the war. A turbulent home is a war without end where a woman will be forced to walk on egg shells every single day and simply issues that can easily be resolved with maturity turn to a time bomb. Living in a turbulent home feels like living in a war front. The slightest issues gets over blown and misinterpreted and used against the woman. Every effort is made to belittle her and degrade her and strip her of every dignity. In a turbulent home, there is always an obvious effort to make the woman not to enjoy the home. The man is hell bent on not letting her enjoy peace of mind. Abusive partners take everything personal, seeing you triggers them and once you accept it you are simply expected to soak it up and get used to it without complaining and see it as a way of life. What is not easy to understand is why some women choose to stay in an abusive marriage instead of running away.

First, is the Stockholm syndrome. Psychologist have discovered through series of research that when women are abused and they stick with their abusers for too long they tend to become very sympathetic to their abusers. If someone abuses you and you refuse to leave them after a period of time you will develop sympathy for that abusive person, you will tend to overlook their abusive tendencies and start to manage the situation and keep adjusting and squeezing yourself to adapt to the abusive behaviour. The human mind is tricky and it accepts whatever is dished out to for a long period of time. For instance if you keep calling a child stupid or foolish after a while the child wills tart to exhibit stupid or foolish behaviour. Women who refuse to leave abusive marriages gradually develop Stockholm syndrome which makes them love the abusive partner and trauma bond with them deeply. They become a partner in crime in the abusive dynamics. It becomes part of their love language. They start to expect it and start to see it as part of marriage. You will hear them say something like no man is perfect or that it is better to cry in benz than to cry in keke. They will come up with so much excuses to defend the abuser. They may even start to believe that the abuser loves them so much that he loose control and starts to hurt them. They simply brainwash themselves to continue with the abusive relationship and cope with them. Stockholm syndrome is simply a coping mechanism borne out of mental manipulation. As a woman you must be able to identify Stockholm syndrome and deal with it before it destroys you. There is no defence or justification for abusive and even if there is it should not be coming from you as the victim. A victim must not defend evil or make it lesser. Once you stop seeing the boundaries between an abusive behaviour and a love behaviour then you are simply suffering from Stockholm syndrome.

Second, the fear of being alone or the fear of walking away from the marriage is what keeps women in abusive marriages. After a while women build their life around a marriage, the society expects them to leave their own parents, jobs, house, surnames, identity and get absorbed into the world of the man. Women sacrifice a lot in marriage, they are forced to sacrifice their friends, relatives, families, siblings, career, health, cities they grew up, their womb, their heart, their business, their career, their social support system and a lot of basic survival mechanisms in the hope that their husband will be able to protect and provide for them but sadly many husbands do not understand the difference between being a husband and being a girlfriend. They demand submission without responsibility, they refuse to face the reality of their office as a husband. They misunderstand the loyalty and submission of their wife and take it for granted. Submission and loyalty of a woman is a heavy sacrifice that must be compensated with huge responsibility and management to ensure that things work out well. A woman who submits to an irresponsible man is like someone throwing gold jewelry to a pig. It is a complete waste of time, emotion, life and resources. It is a very dangerous move that has led to the death of many women. The purpose of submission is protection and provision. It is against human nature to submit to what will kill you. The only difference between a tree and a human being is that a human being will run away when he sees something that can kill her while a tree cannot run away from whatever is coming to kill it. This is a natural sensation that is even present in animals and more developed in human beings. It is a natural reaction. Women who get killed in abusive relationship have been converted from human beings to trees.

The goal of abusive men is to convert their victims from human beings to something less than a human being. The whole essence of abuse is to degrade and reduce the potential of the woman. There is nothing that a woman will do that will justify abuse because abusive men have a deep problem inside themselves. Abuse comes from deep inside the oppressor and not from the victim. Do not let any man to convince you that they abuse you because of how you trigger them. They abuse you because of their own internal issues with themselves. Nobody goes around abusing everyone they see on the road, abusive people simply seek for the perfect victim and when you find yourself in an abusive relationship you should remind yourself that you have made a mistake and fallen into the trap of an abusive person who sees you as a perfect victim.

Another reason that makes women to stay in abusive relationship is that they get suckered in by the abusive dynamics. Abusive men are not ignorant of their evil behaviour. They simply hone their abusive skills and trap their victims with an emotional roller coaster of up and down emotional triggers. The brain works with some chemicals called dopamine and it is easy to manipulate and get people to become addicted to it. Nobody gets addicted to cocaine or weed or cigarrete they simply get addicted to the chemical reaction that it triggers. Abuse partners are experts at triggering intense dopamine reaction in the brains of their victims. Most abusive partners follow up their abusive actions with some charming and loving actions to encapsulate their victim inside a confusing situation. With an abusive person you will always feel confused and not know what next to expect and naturally the brain finds this to be very exciting. The brain hates calm situations and always loves up and down peaks in mood. That is why great movie producers always add suspense in their movies. Research has shown that humans do not like what always stays at one point. Abusive partners are experts at making the woman's mood to go up and down in an extreme pattern. One second an abusive partner is very very sweet and the next second they are so mean that you as a victim will not mind sticking with them until they become sweet again. This is going to be like a heroine addict, always waiting for the next high. Even though human beings are rational, nobody sits down with a calculator to calculate the rationality of their behaviour.

The best way to escape from abusive behaviour is to break the patterns and this can only be done by identifying abusive behaviour. Once you can identify abusive behaviour then your next job is to set clear boundaries and be firm about it. If you cannot take a firm stand against abusive behaviour then you should get ready to continue to suffer from it. Another thing you should do is to seek outside help. You must build a strong social support system and refuse being isolated by your abuser. Most abusers try to isolate their victims so that the abuse will not be detected. But once you build a strong social support system it will be very easy to find help. With a strong social support system you will become less vulnerable to abuse and will be able to take a firmer stand against any abuse. Abusive marriages and relationship does not know education, wealth, age, location or any status and it is something that can happen to anyone. We have seen it happen to professors, rich women, and even women living abroad. You must find help and support if you are in an abusive relationship. There is nothing to hide about it and you must be strong and firm and see it as a battle for your survival. Type marriage partner in the comment section to receive a link to join my special WhatsApp community for regular updates and our monthly webinar. Send me a DM if you want to book a session for private and confidential consultation.
And men don't experience abusive marriage. Only women do. All that's women this women that won't pay. Let's train our female children to be productive. Every other thing stems from there.
Crime › Re: Missing Police Officer Found Dead In Benue by MrSly(m): 7:50am On Dec 20, 2025
Nonso92:
This kind of super story ehn!

He was found in a nearby bush where he was last seen and has been missing since June.

Since June none of the 13 officers thought to check in the nearby bushes where he was last seen for the past 6 months till now.
And the body decomposed with no odour.
Crime › Re: Missing Police Officer Found Dead In Benue by MrSly(m): 7:48am On Dec 20, 2025
matify83:
The remains was found close to where he was last seen and he remained missing for all this 6 months.

No smell to draw the attention of villagers or passerbys until he became a skeleton?

This is super story......
My dear. Brain no go kill you.
Politics › Re: Without Lagos & Rivers: Check The VAT Generated By Each Geopolitical Zone by MrSly(m): 7:46am On Dec 20, 2025
LegendHero:
Without Lagos and Rivers, here is what the geo-political zones contributed to the VAT pool and received in November 2025


source
Let those who want a separate country have. Stop beating around the bush.
Politics › Re: Without Lagos & Rivers: Check The VAT Generated By Each Geopolitical Zone by MrSly(m): 7:41am On Dec 20, 2025
LegendHero:
Without Lagos and Rivers, here is what the geo-political zones contributed to the VAT pool and received in November 2025


source
Lagos should not be boasting about VAT. They are actually under productive considering the whooping I during advantage they have. Unreasonable concentration of all business facilities in it is enough for them to have the VAT of fully developed nation. But no, Africans must be Africans. They must be proud with one eye even though they can actually have two and more.
Crime › Re: Woman Wrestles Policeman To The Ground In Benin (Photos, Video) by MrSly(m): 5:22am On Dec 20, 2025
SpencerForbes:
I don’t see her getting out of this mess anytime soon. Even if she has a point, they’ll definitely find a way to flip the narrative against her.

But on a more serious note, we all know many of our police officers are completely unprofessional, but that still doesn't justify getting into a physical fight with them. There are better ways to handle these things without putting yourself in a tight corner.
The police should be dismissed. Too much for trained officer.Shameful!
Politics › Re: North won't vote Tinubu in 2027 - Arewa Forum by MrSly(m): 5:17am On Dec 20, 2025
nairalandankrah:
Says North Marginalised In Budget Allocation, Infrastructure Under Tinubu,



https://www.channelstv.com/2025/07/30/north-marginalised-in-budget-allocation-infrastructure-under-tinubu-acf-chair-alleges/
I stand with PO but the North can go to hell for all I care.
Politics › Re: Bandits, Armed Groups, Militias, Political Enablers Now Terrorists – Tinubu by MrSly(m): 5:14am On Dec 20, 2025
RollinTNDA:
Watch as South East will support Tinubu now
On this yes! Who would not? Except those who deliberately call white black to suit their emolakan mantra.
Politics › Re: Bandits, Armed Groups, Militias, Political Enablers Now Terrorists – Tinubu by MrSly(m): 5:12am On Dec 20, 2025
AhmedPeacemaker:
https://businessday.ng/news/article/bandits-armed-groups-now-terrorists-tinubu/
Thank you US. You are indeed a big brother. The carcass of nigerian politics have done one sincere thing. Thanks to you, US

Please still watch them closely. The carcass may still lack the will power to implement this.
Politics › Re: Nigerian Air Force C-130 Crew Continues Mission From Burkina Faso To Portugal by MrSly(m): 8:43pm On Dec 18, 2025
Chucks13:
Where ate those Nigeria Emergency Citizen?

Ntoor, shame on you!!!

You see how Jehovah is disgracing you all? Anybody that always seek the fall of this great nation(Nigeria) shall fall and his or her generation shall fall as God live. Izeeh!!!

Dem go start crying now. The next you will hear from those geneticay cursed losers is oh the crew released are fake or say oh they are not Nigerian or say Traore collected cash or say Tinubu begged or say we need photo and so on shit...Losers have no joy.
You should be ashamed of your petty existence.
Politics › Re: Nigerian Air Force C-130 Crew Continues Mission From Burkina Faso To Portugal by MrSly(m): 8:41pm On Dec 18, 2025
Salewa97:
Our crew are back home safe and sound. That's what matters for now.

We can then start asking questions later
Please read before commenting. They are never back to Nigeria.


Imagine! This one is also a tinubu supporter.
Politics › Re: Nigerian Air Force C-130 Crew Continues Mission From Burkina Faso To Portugal by MrSly(m): 8:39pm On Dec 18, 2025
Pakute:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2025/12/nigerian-air-force-c-130-crew-continues-mission-from-burkina-faso-to-portugal/
Nigerian govt is the most funny of all jokes. So it is no longer a journey to forestall a coup attempt in Niger republic?
Family › Re: Lady Shares How A Friend Warned Her After She Addressed Her Hubby By His Name by MrSly(m): 6:00pm On Dec 18, 2025
doggedfighter:
That friendship is as good as gone from that day for me.



What could she have called the man other than his name ?

Even if they have children

The universe knows I hate calling people 'mama this ' or Baba that .
What is wrong with calling him by his name with prefix 'Mr' you girls like to overdo.
Family › Re: Women Don't Have Rules, They Make Them For Men They Don't Like– Man Says by MrSly(m): 5:55pm On Dec 18, 2025
Myrrhis:
Any woman who can do those for a man on the first day she meets him has no self-worth.
You are talking trash.
Travel › Re: Top Ten List Of Affordable States In Nigeria 2025 by MrSly(m): 3:39pm On Dec 18, 2025
manuelkel:
How much is the cost of accomodations for both states ?? These are stats nobody cares about your certainty.
How can you say Lagos is way cheaper??
Have you experienced both states?
Politics › Re: Wale Edun Contradicts Tinubu, Says FG Didn’t Meet 2025 Revenue Target by MrSly(m): 9:55pm On Dec 17, 2025
treesun:
https://dailytrust.com/finance-minister-contradicts-tinubu-says-fg-didnt-meet-2025-revenue-target/?noamp=available
Who would ever take bulablu serious? With all these borrowing here and there. The minister is correct
Travel › Re: Top Ten List Of Affordable States In Nigeria 2025 by MrSly(m): 9:51pm On Dec 17, 2025
I live in Anambra and sometimes visits Lagos. I am am certain Lagos is way cheaper.
Fuel
Food stuff
Fruits
Transportation. Name them.
Politics › Re: Bishop Ugokwe, 30 Other Bishops Who Stood For Tinubu Election Seek Inclusion by MrSly(m): 9:49pm On Dec 17, 2025
Bishops ordained by tinubu. Why demand from your master? Muslim Muslim ticket is evil and should not be supported by anyone given the own chant of nigeiran islamic fanatics to kill for weird religion sentiments.

No cake for una. Period.
Politics › Re: People Take Photos With Peter Obi At Lagos Airport by MrSly(m): 9:42pm On Dec 17, 2025
Samoka1:
He's a Nigerian....anything special?
Why are they not lining up to snap with your tinubu?

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