₦airaland Forum

My people perish for lack of knowledge! I honestly don't feel sorry for him. Too many men come to USA/western world and believe that the only way they can get their documents is to be married! Totally wrong and misinformed! I don't get he is saying he goes to church, pray to God, give testimony and do those things. God honor the union of marriage and it should not be used for selfish benefits. If he truly know God, he would seek him and ask God for direction prior to getting married. Yes, of course he is married and the woman has all right to tell him to move in, it doesn't matter if she is nigerian or not! It does not matter if she marry him to help him get his stay extended or not, a marriage is a covenant between a man, a woman and God...so if you ask me, he is married! It breaks my heart to see men and women too come to this side of the world, use women/men for papers then go back to their countries to marry their so called "babe" leaving the woman behind that helped them to be somebody or get established. That "babe" that he is talking about is one stupid idiot! How can a woman allow their man to marry another woman to get documents? If she knows anything she should know that's a ladder for problems and it says a lot about the man character! I mean if he knows the history of himself, he would know that the ancestral and foundational problems he probably have is already too much to be dipping his penis in two women and collecting their troubles on top of his own problems and his foundational woes! So what if he goes back to Nigeria...isn't that his place/country of birth? Why does he feel he has to live in USA to make it in life? Ignorance is certainly ugly! For a silly mumu like that, if he has any brain, he could go and read the immigration websites for USA, call the immigration centres and they would tell him how to get his papers. Also he don't even have to live in USA after he finish school, some countries will grab him depending on his educational background and pay him top dollars and give permanent documents to stay in their country. Canada is one country that does that and guess what it is close to USA! As a student, he can for sure secure a work permit, get a job and if he is smart he would know that having good grades will land him lots of scholarships and grants. There are so many associations and people out there that are looking desperately to send someone to school for free...some of them support African students and will even pay for living if they maintain a certain grade. The reason I can say that is because, I came to the western world as a student and never marry anyone for papers. I worked while in school, travelled anywhere I want, got scholarships grants and surely got my documents without marrying anyone. lt is clear to me that this man is in a very negative atmosphere and he does not know better and that's why he makes these decisions. It's such a joke that the woman is playing him that she is smart enough to use the immigration to manipulate him. This is just total ignorance and I hope all of the non-skulls pitying this man, go educate themselves and tell that stupid guy to go and READ!