₦airaland Forum

30th july

Hi,

I have been to different part of the United Kingdom and have discovered that Nigerians girls in the United Kingdom are snobbish.Well now I just avoid them and don't waste my time.

I am a down to earth guy and my desire was to hook up with my African queen here,now I understand why most Nigerian in the United Kingdom get married to jaimaican ladies and white ladies.

It is really terrible.The funniest thing is that most white guys dont like black girls.So in the end who looses.

I THINK THE ISSUE HAS BEEN PROPERLY ADDRESS.

I REST MY CASE.

THERE HAS TO BE AN INITIAL ATTRACTION FOR LOVE TO BUILD.IN MOST CASES THE ATTRACTION IS FINANCIAL STABILITY.

Yep,

You have said it all,,there has to be an initial attraction for love to develop.It could be anything.Financial Stability,being handsome ,smart etc.

Samething applies to men,there has to be an initial attraction for a man to be attracted to a lady and to finally fall in love.

A man will not wake up one day and marry and ugly ,neither will a lady wake up one day and marry a poor.

This raises another complex question.Does Love at first sight exist?

Love is like life,very complex.

Love is spiritual and cannot be explained.It is unconditional,no one ever understands.

I do agree anyway that a woman who is in love can still cheat.But this is under extreme condition.Like you being out of the country for five years and other reasons.Not that is justifies her action.But that is reality.Some women will claim they can stay without sex for five years.But I know that is a bloody lie.

It is good for a man to be financially stable ,poverty is a disease and can create lot of challenges and temptation for the woman.

Attention and love is different .

When if you have money you have many friends and girls fighting over you.Try to imagine what happens when the money is gone.Although money can get attention.Attimes Attention can develop to love.

I have to be sincere some Nigerian girls think that a man is to carry the whole faamily burden and tend not to go for love but for wealthy men
,Not that i BLAME.If you dont love a man there is bound to be problems in the marriage.

Yep ,

There is unconditional love.But both parties should be in love.In some cases one party can be in love and the other is just faking or catching his fun.

Hi,

ORP

ASL PLZ

Money can get you the attention of a lady.Can buy sex,fake friends,popularity e.t.c

If you are in luck and if she is meant for you, love might develop.This is only a probability 80/20.In most situation.The woman is with you because of the money especially if she comes from a very poor back ground .

Money can never buy you love.If a woman marries you because of money,there is high tendency she wil cheat on you after marriage.But when a woman loves you,she will not do such.

My brodas money can never and will never buy love.

I am talking from experience.

Perhaps God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right ones, so that when we finally meet the right people, we will know how to appreciate their gift of friendship.

When the door of happiness closes, another opens, but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us. Life is not about "never falling", but "rising" everytime you fall. When life gives you "mud", make "mud pies" with thanks.

The best kind of "friends" are ones that you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had. It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until we taste it.

Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they'll love you back. Don't expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their hearts; but if it doesn't, be content it grew in yours. It takes a lifetime to forget someone. Don't go for looks; they do deceive. Don't go for wealth; it can develop wings and fly away. Go for the "inner" person.

There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real!
Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be all you can be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.

Always put yourself in others' shoes. If it hurts, it probably hurts the other person too.

The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life such that when you die, you're the one smiling and everyone around you is crying.

Perhaps God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right ones, so that when we finally meet the right people, we will know how to appreciate their gift of friendship.

When the door of happiness closes, another opens, but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us. Life is not about "never falling", but "rising" everytime you fall. When life gives you "mud", make "mud pies" with thanks.

The best kind of "friends" are ones that you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had. It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until we taste it.

Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they'll love you back. Don't expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their hearts; but if it doesn't, be content it grew in yours. It takes a lifetime to forget someone. Don't go for looks; they do deceive. Don't go for wealth; it can develop wings and fly away. Go for the "inner" person.

There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real!
Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be all you can be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.

Always put yourself in others' shoes. If it hurts, it probably hurts the other person too.

The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life such that when you die, you're the one smiling and everyone around you is crying.

sorry for the error.

I just moved to london from scotland

HI JUST MOVED TO SCOTLAND TO LONDON AND VERY BORED.Is there any nairalander babe in dagenham.Holla at me

hi,

Just moved to scotland to london

Hoping to make friends send me an email if you are in london messiahagain@yahoo.com

Don't Worry If you have problems or if you have failed, which is easy to say until you are in the midst of a really
big one, I know. But the only people I am aware of who don't have troubles are gathered in little neighborhoods. Most communities have at least one. We call them cemeteries. If you're breathing, you have difficulties. It's the way of life. And believe it or not, most of your problems may actually be good for you.

Let me explain. Maybe you have seen the Great Barrier Reef, stretching some 1,800 miles from New Guinea to Australia . Tour guides regularly take visitors to view the reef. On one tour, the guide was asked an interesting question."I notice that the lagoon side of the reef looks pale and lifeless, while the ocean side is vibrant and colorful," a traveler observed. "Why is this?"

The guide gave an interesting answer: "The coral around the lagoon side is in still water, with no challenge for its survival. It dies early. The coral on the ocean side is constantly being tested by wind, waves, storms - surges of power. It has to fight for survival every day of it's life. As it is challenged and tested it changes and adapts.It grows healthy. It grows strong. And it reproduces."


Then he added this telling note: "That's the way it is with every living organism." That is how it is with people. Challenged and tested, we come alive. Like coral pounded by the sea,we grow.Physical demands can cause us to grow stronger. Mental and emotional stress can produce tough-mindedness and resiliency. Spiritual testing can produce strength of character and faithfulness. So, you have problems, no problem. Just tell yourself, "There I grow again."

When a man or woman is not gainfully employed.He will be a gossip.Because only idle people gossip.So its not a woman thing.Most Jobless men are gossips likewise women

hi,

I am Nigerian and am presently in UK as a working holiday.In my own case I schooled in the United Kingdom cam back to Nigeria and applied for the working holiday.

You have to prove to the ECO.

1.Benefit of taking WHM
2.Intention to return (very important)
3.State places you intend to visit
4.What you plan to do after WHM
5.You must be 17-30 30 inclusive
HOWEVER I WOULD ADVISE THAT YOU GO FOR HSMP.BECAUSE ONCE YOU GET YOUR HSMP APPROVAL FROM UK.GETTING ENTRY CLEARANCE IS MUCH EASIER

@Muyiwabank

I am new to this thread and I am encouraged.My appeal for entry into UK as a working Holiday Maker has been allowed since the 18th of April.I am yet to receive my Visa.Please can you send me the email address of the secretary immigration messiahagain@yahoo.com.

Thanks

I have been trying contact the visa section about my appeal success can someone Please email to me the email address of the second immigration secretary. My email address is messiahagain@yahoo.com. Thanks

If I am called what am I to expect.The Visa type is WORKING HOLIDAY MAKER

I HAVE JUST BEEN INVITED FOR TEST AT EXPERT EDGE FOR THE POSITION OF TECHNICAL CONSULTANT.

CAN ANYONE ADVISE ON WHAT IS TO BE EXPECTED.

MY TEST IS SCHEDULED FOR THIS SATURDAY.

WILL BE GRATEFULL