₦airaland Forum

As Salaamu Alaykum,
Then young sister who said sdhe is waiting for the brother with all this criteria that is just foolish and yes Granny would be upset. The is no perfect man sweety no not and as time goes by more in more qualified men disappear. You want a man that is Religious Religious Religious because you have to obey him and if he is of no Tawa of Allah he will ruin you. Money is important as long as he can feed you cloth you and place you in a home or apt its good Allah will provide. But if you young Muslims struck with this mind of you want a perfectly finicially and educated husband and men theory want a perfectly beautiful wife you gonna look around and be old and alone. Sisters our life is not complete without families of our own. Women with pickiness end up with no husband and no children working all their lives living with cats. And I live in America I see it all day long. Young sisters waste their childbearing years chasing colloege and jobs its massive brainwash. We need to turn off the T.V and music Authu Bill ah and pick up the Qurand Hadeeyhs and find our roles as some. Muslim women. Do let your youth pass you by.take my advise I'm Muslim 9yrs its how Allah chos me but I'm tell in you at 14 I needed to be married. But Allah chose me at 26 by that time I was just figuring it all out. I can see why you still want freedom. But that freedom gonna get them dishonored. Get married my young people dont waste your youth and risk commiting zina. Fear Allah and no muslim women can never marry a christain man. In African they do but in Islam it is Haraaam . an a picky girl shouldn't be talking to any boys her father should be talking to boys not her. Obviously she is a virgin? I'm praying because only fast girls choose there own husband and for a virgin in Islam that is haraam and the marriage is invalid? So in truth these vvirgin boys and young girls should be online even talking about marriage. A young man if he is not financially stable and a young women if she is a virgin simple. Third party is Shaaytaan. And Im a mother and and Elder. So Fear Allah young people

We shouldn't be afraid to follow our hearts
Marriage is the nature of mankind every human desires marriage. Why if we believed we found a empathetic man not to follow our love for him?
Not only that I think most of us have been trained already in the field of ifedelity, deciet, scams, abuse. By the black American man. So we have that think layer of skin already so what's new? One thing thing the black American man don't have is compassion and hard work ethics most not all now. And are not paternal and they are feminized. We want masculine! So yes if my African man works, gives me healthy babies, tells me he loves me daily and nightly.
I really can't be to damn angry. As opposed to an American man who won't work, get you pregnant and leave the childrenand never had compassion I will never tolerate such a man.respect for women is lost here in American its simply gone. That's why I looked outside my community. But again my Religion has helped saved me from becoming like the manly women losing my role as a women. Just as most of the men here have lost there place and they could never satisfy me. I'm so grateful what I have so I have to cherish him in order to keep him Ameen

;DI'm like a year late on this forum maybe because I just met a Yoruba man? I don't understand why it is so hard to understand that a women can fall in love with the speech of a man before living with or marrying him. Its not impossible. Not only until she lives with him she finds out what type of character he really has
. that does not make a women less smart or her eyes blinded it just makes her a women. We are prombed to be received. Satan received Eve she then convinced her husband. Being received have been the trait of a women since the first women was created. So what's makes it different cause its 2014/? Every trait a women has was given for a reason. Doesn't make her stupid. You never know what you will get when it comes to choosing a mate their is no perfect mate. I've met a Nigerian man online and yes for just 7. Months I love him deeply I don't even desire another man. Period. Does that make me stupid nope! It makes me all women all women %100 women. One gift that a women has is intuition you can feel if a man or anyone opus using you it is a feeling. I can choose any man for marriage but I've made my decision to choose My African King. So all the talk of we women from the west shine our eyes good etc... OK then what
? Leave him? Give him up? If a women is emotionally strong which most black women from all over the world are she can handle the situation but in a certain manner not like a beast. So if my man which we have yet to even meet is a fraud oh well I have yet to discover that.but I know what my stomach is telling me. I'm a mother as well and the stomach don't lie. And for whatever reason western born Black women want Nigerian men doesn't matter at all but trust once we taste its hard ha ;Drd soooooo hard to let go! Does it make me a fool nope just a women with feminine needs as The Creator created me to have. I never want him to leave me. So whatever he desires from me I shall give willingly. If there is no trust you have nothing and keep questioning the sincerity of an African man makes him anger. The best way I handle him is submission. Eventually he will confess to me like I'm his priest. Im all women and the more obedient I am the more he gives me. And no man has ever gotten this from me or even knew how to get it. He brings out femininity baby! My sentual side and I love it! So I'm glad to bear what some African WO in really think about a union between Nigerian and western born American black African women most is ridiciolus. All those tricks and kinks and whatever else My African man has for me I'm gonna enjoy them all and as soon as The Almighty allows us to meet yeah we going Religious then Registry. Imma be his SLAVeeeeeeee. Forver until death do us part. Oh and I'm a Muslim women so we believe and understand marriage is slavery to our husbands and we are rewarded with paradise for our patience and submission to him. He is Muslim. Also newly any how so I'm sure he will enjoy many benefits of the muslimah. We already talked about polygamy so. He swears his devotion is to me alone. I have no choice but to believe him.

Single muslim religious women from US
looking for African Muslim male who resides in US already if any please contact me ASAP. Not looking for fornication.

Any Strong African Man live in USA
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