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Thank you I'm a very private person, but I do chat with people online. I've just experienced the pain once also.

miraclebaby:
@mummycandice Sorry i'll be harsh on you. You're not married yet and you're already provoking your system in the name of ttc. The stress alone could prevent implantation and even ovulation or you might have false ovulation pains and think you actually ovulated. My advice is to go and prepare for your forth-coming wedding. After that take a vacation and enjoy your honeymoon. Don't ttc and don't prevent. I bet you'll be back here for bfp announcement before you know it. Your only worry should be if you've been having irregular cycle or other discomforts before now. This pain you experienced after bd have you ever had it before now? Even if you decided not to see a doctor why not do a scan in any lab and clear your heard from the stress. You can also ask dh to run SFA if you think sth might be wrong; at least you guys will have enough time to treat it before people start poking into your marriage. Your're already asking people whether to visit the hospital? Hmmmm. I reserve my comment but don't run to us crying tomorrow that she/he was your best friend. TTC is not an experience you share with your bestie. She also has another bestie who has her own bestie and the chain continues. My dear, even when you start ttc, if you don't need external stress cum poison, let it be between YOU nd YOUR DH. No 3rd party should be carried on ttc bus unless you want to regret ever telling them. An exception will be those who actually passed or are passing thru ttc, they're the only ones to trust as they already saw hell and wouldn't want even their enemies witness such. Other than that, even your mother and mum inlaw shouldn't know every every. May you return with your bfp after honeymoon IJN, Amen. Happy married life in advance; awaiting my cake. @marcjane congrats. God will surely see you through this time around. H&H9Mths and beyond. @all good day and thank God its WEDNESDAY. May God grant the desires of our heart. Fertility blessing.

I don't want to spoil the present good mood on this thread but I need advice from you mamas. I've been viewing this thread for a while now and I prayed I won't have to register officially, but I need som1 to talk to. I'm getting married next month and dh and I have been ttc for 4 months now, although he's just telling me not to stress myself that a baby will come at the right time but I'm scared. For 4 years now we've been having intercourse but we never plan to have a baby b4 wedding, so I thought dh was very good at using cds. But now I can't help but think dat I might have been ttc for longer than I thought. Last cycle at ovulation day, during and immediately after intercourse I started having this severe stomach pain, I was weak and couldn't walk, dh was crying lik a baby, he thought I was dying. Lol. I would have gone to see a doctor but people are saying I should wait for 6 months. I'm sad cause I'm just 22 and I've never been pregnant before as my dh is the only one I've ever slept with. How can I be having ttc issues at thus age, I wish I started trying before my introduction last year, pls help the baby of the house. I can't even focus on my upcoming wedding.