I see no reason Reno is trying to defend the FG. When the Chibok girls were kidnapped by Boko haram, Jonathan major blunder then was to attend PDP rally and he was busy dancing while our school children were in the hand of Boko Haram. Everyone were so angry with GEJ then.
Tinubu and his wife, Chief Oluremi Tinubu did far worse than what Jonathan did then.
This is what I just noticed in my friend's house each time I visit. His mother in law actually came to do omugwo, taking care and staying with the baby when his mum has gone to work. but to my surprise, I discovered she is the one doing the house chores, sweeping, watching both the husband's (my friend) clothes and the wife's clothes together with the baby's clothes.
She cooks and serves everybody's food while the wife only give the food to the husband. The wife seldom enter the kitchen even on weekends when everyone is around. I told my friend about my observation and he said he feels it strange to him too.
Please nairalanders how do you understand this scenario whether is normal or abnormal. The mother in-law is yoruba and my friend also is Yoruba.
They figured out what works for them and everyone is OK.
Goldrosewine: Lol there are sure a lot of good guys here who knows how to keep the convo going. Too bad I have exams, would love to keep up with the mentions. Enjoy your day sir
Of course, wisdom demands we seperate corn from chaff as always.
Goldrosewine: This does not imply sexual interests, abeg o just bored today on this holiday and I have decided to rant here, since I saw a similar post recently about a guy saying confidence is what a lady cannot resist in a man. I won't appreciate any unsolicited messages🙏
Dentition: Gap teeth (you know what I mean, especially a small one right between the central incisors) or just between the lateral incisor and canine)
Thick wrist (not fats deposit, just wrists with a wide circumference)
Minimal or no bodily hairs. Yeah a lot will hate me for this, just my opinion which may change or not. But those beards, chest or armpit hairs? Taah!
Height. However you must not be too tall. I am 5:9 so anything from 5:6 to 5:11 is perfect.
Modesty and awesomeness (not extreme masculinity) I am not a feminist abeg. I like guys that are gentle, pull the chair for you at the restaurant, hold an umbrella for you, hold the door open for you, just being a gentleman. Absolute modesty and simple too. Not a show off dude haha!
Healthy lifestyle. There is nothing I dislike more than a guy who smokes or drinks or do both. I don't just dislike them, I h-word them. Take your good health seriously guys, go for rehab if you need to.
Small inner circle. Guys with few or no friends. The introvert who enjoys his own company.
Respectful. The guy that still prostrate to greet his dad at 30 years, still run errands for his mom at 35 (not necessarily because he is living with them, but maybe sometimes when he visits or when they give him an emergency call) that level of respect is the norm for every omoluabi.
Not bald. As much as I dislike body hairs, e no reach head abeg🤣
Belly fat. (Not pot belly) I love belly fat in a man, especially the type that gives him the wealthy boy vibe when he's in a native. I don't know but in Benin republic, I once saw this muscular, six pack guy that bullied people and he had an altercation with this gentle guy who looks ordinary, he even had a fatty belly. Against what people thought, it was the muscular guy that needed saving o, see blue black beating. Lol. It kind of left an impression on me.
Speech intelligence. Even if you no know book, just have good oratory skills and be eloquent. I would like to see my man on a podium speaking with great eloquence while I sit in the crowd or assembly just admiring him and looking at how other ladies are admiring him😊🥰🥰🥰 aiish
Phobia. Scared of snakes or rats or spiders or cocroaches lol even my cousin would tell me I will never find this trait in a Nigerian man. But I am not scared of those things. So I would really like a guy that has such fears, that way I would be able to do something for him and it would make me feel good🤦🙈 it's hard to explain honestly.🥲🥲
Ambitious. he dreams big, not jealous of success, just envying it and ambitious to reach the top too.
Laughs a lot. That would be golden!
He cries. Like, weep Take this from me. If you ever express your sadness in tears while in your girl's arm, it does something to her heart... she'd start clutching to you so hard. Don't be manly all the time. Sometimes, just let the feelings flow. Life is already hard for everyone, talkless a man.🥺 I feel u guys.
Straight legs No vex but I dislike wobbly legs... and many guys have come to have a sort of disfigured legs due to bad walking posture, trying to copy one silly trend or so, etc.
Gentle with kids and pets That would be another golden trait!
Extremely decent with words and actions when in public The way he eats, talks, interact, just everything. Especially in Nigeria where people judge you by your countenance and how you 'carry' yourself.
You know the sort of guys that gleefully talk about women's body parts in public? That's so uncouth and all ladies detest such.
Privateworld: Don't get this wrong but this aint nollywood though. Lets drop emotions aside. How about we split and i find someone else, get married and have kids. While, she finds someone else get married again and have kids.
Too many things playing in your head.
We believe you know who you married more than anyone else here. If you are tired, go ahead to avoid domestic issues brewed from years of regrets and frustration.
Justnation: Obi cubana made the worst mistake of his life by joining and supporting tinubu a man that hates Igbos with passion.
tinubu didn't contribute anything to obi cubana wealth so I don't see why he sold his bourgeoisie reputation and love his fellow Igbos had for him to follow tinubu. It was a very big mistake indeed.
Cubana should join PETER OBI now and make a massive impact to his campaign so that Igbos will forgive him.
I disagree.
No business man with sense,will openly support a politician. As a business man, every politician is your friend. Power is transient.
Dangote cannot come out openly to tell you to vote for Tinubu or Peter Obi.
Same as Otedola, Bua or anyother.
Elon made that dangerous mistake in USA, and pulled back when he realized. Trump has only 4years, And a democrat might win next election and revisit and review Elon's case.
No serious business Man/Woman associates with politicians in open.
dominique: It's so baffling how nobody sees nothing wrong with a man leaving his house dirty. He must have kept the environment dirty in expectation that his girlfriend is coming to clean it up. Total pig! If anybody dodged a bullet, it's the lady. Women! Add value to yourselves so men won't see you as maids to clean up their mess.
So it's only women that are required to clean up their surroundings when they wake up? Men are expected to stink up the whole place till a woman comes in to clean it up? It's very easy to spot a male disguising as female, and some imbe men go don slide into his DM to get to "know him better"
Did you just made this comment to stir up gbas gbos?
To the bone of contention, A lady must come over before commitment, now she has come over, and committed worst of mistakes from a lady a man is considering a future with.
A man may have many ladies visiting his apartment, but one cool action of a particular lady will make him commit to forever. This lady should take her L in peace.
Everyday, life opens a new chapter of life to us. My own chapter had been opened and and it read... "it time to get married.
In the church I attended, there I met this girl so mature enough to be taken in as a wife. I approach her for the first time and I started asking her out. Seem she knew my intention, she started asking me about my church life, my family, my business and all that not.
To be honest with her, I did my best to answer every question in the language she could understand.
She seems not still satisfied with my account, she sent me this message at about 5am. Said until I respond to those questions, she won't have anything to do with me again.
I'm truly confused on wether everyone that finds love 💕 really goes through this rigorous question.
And more about her life, she spent almost everyday in church after work. She said if I'm truly serious, I should also be as serious as she is in going and participating in all weekly activities in the church.
Please help, how do I answer this questions, since it the only options she said can bring us together?
Simple advice, you will cry soon or later.
She is not into you. Men marry a woman that is deeply into you for your peace, joy and happiness.
Aston villa has been exceptional this season. With what they played liverpool last week, I knew this final is a first half win for them. Bundesliga is not as competitive as EPL.