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It is good that you have a very hardworking woman as a wife but i would advise that you do not get comfortable with her doing so much and give her back her money or a part of it as soon as you can get something. Even if you do not make as much as she does, be seen to be going out of your way to contribute. That is the only way you can appreciate her.

It is no use sitting down and thinking about what to do, MOVE. There are various jobs outside. Even the bible says a man that cannot care for his own is worst than an infidel. Get something doing. If you had no one to help you or to turn to, you would still provide


DId I hear u right? "Give her back her money", Wrong statement, her money is your money too! I beleive in marriage if you love your wife and God gave your a good one (very hard to find) you should do things jointly when she helps out (as a helper that God created her) appreciate her (all women likes to be praised/appreciated) treat her like a wife and feel fee to accept that at the moment you're down financially and as most men will do pick up your debrils and find a good job to provide for your home - all women need to be secured in a man, financially, physically, emotionally etc. not only in Africa but all over the world.

Well, interesting topic, firstly u need to see your wife as a partner in such situations and then a wife, if she supports (helper) thank ur stars and pick up the debrils without getting used to this and get a job, as the head u need to provide for the home esp. shelter, in some situations the wife is even 2-3 yrs older than the man. How many men out there a bold enough to confess this

Another link

http://ca.news.yahoo.com/s/cbc/090317/canada/canada_calgary_cgy_bush_speech_calgary_15

Fellow Nigerians, it's nothing bad to express your feelings about a past leader either home or abroad, a link below shows protest of Bush visiting Canada, same treatment should accord a bad dictator.

http://www.dailyheraldtribune.com/ArticleDisplay.aspx?e=1482578

My Brother, point of advice never bring such mind bogging issue to this forum WRONG, you will be more confused, marrage as they say is a long time commitment not childs play, next time tread with caution before making a choice, you're lucky you got good advice here - leave the 2 girls and start afresh, God will guide you.

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They should all stay back home and work for the masses they took an oat for or better still get one person flown into the country to train them, it works out cheaper than the whole lot of them tailing themselves abroad and making a fool of themselves.

This is a good innovation once again, the likes of Fashola is what we need in Nigeria, imagine if all governors are like this with this kind of spirit, our country will emerge from it's darkness, may God help us all.

listen guys, this lady came into this forum for direction and opinion, why do you give comments just to upsert , my advise , your hubby is insecure, if he's your husband he should see beyond physical, though they say beauty is in the eys of the beholder but I say beauty is in the inner mind/person not on your size, bottom line - he does not love you period.

Well UjuJoan, if you notice such in your life, it means you have to step up the Ladder of getting married or better still stick to the unmarried friends as gist will change when you're around. Married guys gist about diappers, children and stuffs for the married, where do you fit in?

Count your loses and move up, as the old sayings go "if you can't beat them, join them"