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DISADVANTAGES OF LATE MARRIAGE....

"By late marriage, I mean from 32 years for the woman and 40 years for the man.
Honestly the disadvantages are numerous For a lady.Menopause now starts earlier.I don't know whether to blame it on dietary habits or environmental factors, women now experience menopause earlier; some as early as 35. Women who marry late panic and fret about having children. Their anxiety can also delay achieving
pregnancy. Women over 35 also miscarry easily and experience more complications during delivery.Again when women don't marry early,they become fearful at the prospect of becoming spinsters that they abandon the search for Mr Right and accept any Mr Available.
Desperation can lead to wrong choice and failed marriage. When a lady is made career-wise, men get scared of her.They feel an inherent sense of inferiority. Those that muster the courage may be seen by her as gold diggers and opportunists.
Better to marry when you can get genuine love and grow with the person than wait to be on the begging end."
Reality things.

Baby ope say nobody harss u over driving licence abi?well this is truly d job of the nigerian police.If u carefully study the Police Act u will come to understand that d nigerian police has immense powers.The Motor traffic division of the NPF is responsible for inquistions on any kinda car plying nigerian roads BUT FOR the kinda way naija is being run places like FRSC,VIO and NSCDC wer all carved out from NPF.all na police work,including EFCC and ICPC thereby creating duplicities in a job soley for the NPF.
BUT if any of the above mentioned ask u jejely and wayoly giv them o! U nly argue right when ur in court,on top street them go mess u up.

Make e happen 1st

That was in d 90's when indian films wer making hits in d nigerian market,when our gurls adopted d indian romance..they will slap u and d mugu will just be der,cz then it was big guts to woo a gurl,infact if a guy writes a love letter to a gurl in skol,d whole class guys go chop serious beating.. "den den den i will tell teacher for u" NOWADAYS it rarely happens,BUT if a gurl SLAP U EHEN...just thank am and jejely and wayoly walk away ther are better ways to make her regret than retaliate.

Ask urself d rationale for watching such?what is new in it that uv not tried out?then ask urself also d subtle pyschological side effects porn may hv on ur hubby.

OP..I may not want to be too inquisitive as wht lead u into an early matrimonial home.however this is my opinion..weigh d pros and cons of d marriage,how mch good than evil has ur hubby done during ur cohabitation days?aside frm his temper does he in anyway make u hapi..do u see urslf changing him?is he d listen and apply type,ask urself inwards cz u knw better.any counsel u may get on NL is nly a guide which may or may not work with what ur mind may tell u.In Africa women generally go tru a stigama when de pull out or are being pulled out of d matrimonial home,even if it is apparent that its d man's fault.elements of blameworthiness will b pointed at d woman.
Look inwards plz and seek guide from the almighty..coz a refusal to choose in itself is a choice made,not to choose is a fact to choose not to choose.
Hardluck ma..

Guy just be urslf,honest and sincere with a mind to forgive "tolerable misdeeds" of ur gurl.however he who comes to equity MUST come wit clean hands,so ur intentions that ushered u into d relationship should b "clean" if not,tit for tat na fair play o! Even d baddest gurl in d world loves an honest n sincere guy..just don't allow the mistakes to come from u.

Is this an essay in literature?

OP lemme tell u "English" as a language was ment to be used to play mischief..eschew any dictionary meaning that may confuse u more and plz tell me a gulf of difference btwn "like" "admire" "adore" "love".all no be one feeling them connect to that u have a certain feeling for someone or something?u like d guy,he likes u,u go to his place una de touch ich oda just dt una never "chaw" one anoda cz up and till d tym u wrote this piece no spark to ignite d flames of sex..my dear una like ich oda jare and ur cheating on ur respective spouses aswell..

derz noting lik i adore him,i admire him,i like him,i love him..love is one forget all d synonym as long as u feel it its love baby

OP i may agree with your writeup coz what we eat this days are purely GMO (genetically modified objects) and that has been d gateway to series of illness novel to our land.Injecting chickens wit steriods is just a fragment,even d fruits and groceries of this days are not normal..little wonder d ones in d village are better than d urban ppl health wise cz they eat d unadultereted food,cz its natural n grown under normal conditions.physically exercise themselves by treking miles to der farms,some self d farm de on top hill and breathing d mcoy fresh air,not d one in cities dt carry fumes from non roadworthy cars n bikes,industrial fumes etc.
Nice piece dear.

A heatbreak is not an essay in literature.Any person can fall into its grasp.Its only tym that will heal ur situation,cz its something u say has been recuring.but by and large u may giv ur heart again if and only if you are ready for marriage and with good intents,cz most a times relationship fail cz d mode of entry (intention wise) was corrupt abinitio.

Ethiopian girls r no 1 in africa,i had a friend dt went der with his wyf on an official visit..she had to slap him on two occassions just to remind him dt dey wer married,cz d guy couldnt hide his mind.

For those who believe that B.H was an innate creation,its time you have a rethink of what Nigeria as a country then was and how Nigerians all sit to brainstorm and agree even in the dark to stand aloof from the grip of the western world.If they had predict that our beloved country will fragment in 2015,it is their own nation that will go down the hall of shame and divide into 2015 pieces by the special grace of the almighty...
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Awww..shz gd reasonably wouldn't mind dating her o!