Lerato9: Ok i am a female and my best friend is a guy. We are extremely close and theres nothing we dont share with each other. We are there for each other during our highs and low points. I have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend. We met during nysc in Nasarawa state in 2006 and have remained close since we both relocated and work in abuja after youth corps.

Recently, though, we have been cuddling alot. When i visit him, or sleep over at his place, we end up cuddling. On the couch, bed etc,. Sometimes he is in only his boxers and i in bra and underwear alone or lingerie.

The thing is we dont even kiss or have sex but he strokes my back, neck, thighs and stomach. I also run my fingers everywhere but never touch his pe.nis.

I derive immense comfort and pleasure from these cuddles and i dont intend stopping. I absolutely trust and adore him and he treats me with utmost respect.

Are we cheating on our partners? Is it a bad thing? Is it a sin as we are both christians and fear God.

OMG i am sooooo confused!!!M

dearbunny: This is another episode of super story from wale adenuga production

Inosenduatall: You've got to be kissing me!!!

OP, can you solemnly swear that you don't know where all this will lead? Haba... I put it to you that you both know what you are doing. The two of you are looking for something, that something, and if that male friend of yours wasn't such a dulling guy you guys would have slept with each other a long time ago. Na wa o...

So you will sleep on his bed in your bra, the guy in his boxers, and you will start touching each other everywhere. Everywhere apart from his John thomas abi? Clap for yourself, you have tried well well. In fact continue in the act, I can assure you that nothing will happen. Shebi your best friend is made of firewood?

To answer your question: No, you are not cheating on your boyfriend. Not at all. It's me you're cheating on.

Make una no vex I just hate it when people refuse to be honest with themselves.

lezz: you have a boy as your best friend... you spend the night in his place with only your undies...he strokes ur back,neck etc etc. And you ask if you're cheating? You dare insult the sensibility of people here to ask that needless question. Copy-paste your post as an sms to your boyfriend and ask him if that's cheating and let his reaction answer you. As for me, you are socially maladjusted, a relationship hazard, emotionally numb and intellectually incapacitated. Your heart is one big hole.

addictiv: Hehehe.....just a matter of time.

Eeja Nla01: Hehehe you both likely gona fall in love soon
Dz kind flirtationship sweet o

Yes you are cheating
It is Bad
It is a lesser sin cos you haven't penetrated

You derive immense comfort in it and do not intend to stop?
Your bF is a gonner

dabossman:

We are nothing but pencils in the hand of the OP

Aphrodite4: All it takes is one quarrel with your boyfriend and you'll be bouncing n grinding on ur cuddle-mate's d*ic*k like there's no tomorrow..