MrBrownJay1:


It's not about saying NO, it about viewing the borrowed money as gone/lost, and the reward is being paid back.

I'm already seeing it as lost. Its the guy's attitude that pissing me off.

MrBrownJay1:
Rule #1 of borrowing money: NEVER BORROW MONEY THAT YOU AINT READY/WILLING TO LOSE.

I find it hard to say no when i know i can help.

sinaj:
I've learned to help people without expecting any reward or a thank you.
I help for the sake of humanity nd God coz people are really wicked nd unpredictable.

Yea, people r really wicked. I guess i learnt the hard way

ifex370:
Too many Joshua okoros on FB

Before i created this thread/account, i had the sole intention of calling him out through nairaland. I don dey pity am small, so FOR NOW i wont tell u which is the thief. Key word is 'for now'.

Ok here we go. Why do people try to steal from people and claim they need help and when you go ahead to help them, they threat you like shit.

So this guy came with the cockandbull story of losing some money and plenty bla bla bla and how his people were on his neck and all that so he ld be pitied. I sha bought the whole story and helped him. This was on christmas day, lol as father xmas dt i am na, mshhheewww. I never had any money then except for someone's accomodation money that was sent through my account and i gave him from it. Ok o, dude said ild get back my money the next week.

Fast forward to today, May 31st. I am still waiting for 'next week'. Instead of my money what do i get? He doesnt pick my calls, if i hide my number to call or use a diff number, once he hears my voice he ld hang up. He even blocked me on facebook. Hian! On top of my money kwa. There was one he even said he ld deny owing me.

Yet same people would be the first to term you wicked when you refuse to help them when the ask for help. How then would those who are genuinely in need get help if this is the reward people get for helping others.