In the world Today We all have the mentality Currently or Maybe once in our lives that popularity equals=Success, So we find ourselves doing things that will makes us known Rather than doing the productive things that You can make a living and build a legacy in your name from.
These 2 Words have very different meanings Of their own , People believe that once they attain a certain level of popularity there's nothing stopping them, They think : Since iam known iam successful already, With this kind of mentality you Start to get too comfortable and Stop working on yourself...
➨(You should never Stop working on yourself until you're perfect, YES and That's never, Nobody will ever be perfect).
-Because you think you are Successful but in reality you are lost, Popularity is being Recognised around the average crowd of average people, yes.
WHY?
BECAUSE:
Successful people only pay attention to successful People, not attention seekers (unsuccessful loud people). But, What are you recognised for ?
1000 Likes on facebook pictures
Sleeping with other women's husband's
Having 12 hot girlfriends in ghana?
I know nobody reading this now will like their biography to read he was a very nice and caring man who always had 2000 likes on Facebook, We will miss her...
➨Your Life On earth should be very threatening to people who hate you. YES, When you're successful people begin to hate you for No reason at all, that's the irony of life. Its a good thing tho,
(cause your haters motivate you to work harder.)
➨Your life on earth should be Complete Inspiration and guidance for people who want to Do the same thing as you did.
For instance : Steve Jobs the creator of the Apple product. He is the role model of so many computer analysts and developers.
Success is so Underated, If you don't Work on yourself now
You'll find yourself at 40 lost and jobless waiting on a government job
And betting to feed yourself
(Will make a series on Working on yourself in the future)
➨ TO THE POINT :
This is a very confusing state, People often confuse popularity with success, that's a big mistake. This is the truth nobody ever told you :
Being popular only ends with the few people who know you for you. But when you succeed you're known to an extent you don't introduce yourself in places.
A productive person who wantd to suceed cares about things like:
*How many interesting People did I meet today, *How would these people benefit me?
*What Should I be Doing with my time?
Because whether you like it or not the main principle that differentiates successful Ones From the ones who are still fighting to get there is.
➨"The Ability To Network with people, Not just average people but also important high class people.....
The person who has a lot of productive and interesting friends is more likely to succeed than the person who has 15friends who smoke and drink all day.
How do I do This? NEVER get tired of meeting new people ,every new person you meet is a potential helper in the future, never discriminate anybody, even your bad friends, cut off from them but don't make them your enemies.
(I TALK ABOUT THIS IN ➨ MLSH 0011)
"How to network with people: build a large circle of friends"
➨Are you a photographer ? Want to network ? Get out and Take a lot of people photos, Trust me the best form of marketing is "Word of Mouth" From An average person it isn't as effective as from an important person let's say a Rich politician, The most important thing is that you're networking.
➨ For instance A Rich Politician going for another Tenure in office will be invested in the people who will cast votes for him, right?
Yes.. He will be invested in his Campaign manager who is coordinating his campaigns right? The campaign manager will also be interested in the photographer taking the politician his photos for the posters...It continues (Its just about value). Can't be stressed enough. ➨ Expect that great post on value, its going to be lifechanging, I promise.
THIS IS A SECRET IM GOING TO SHARE WITH YOU:
"you don't need to be known to be successful, but you Definitely will be known when you're successful... Because Success is louder than 1000likes and 20 girlfriends in ghana. Yes, I know you agree with me.
➨Simple :
(A): You're a model, You Work hard enough to get on magazines and manage to land a deal with a Company to do an advert for them ..
•= You get very popular, Your modelling career shoots up ➨ You earn a lot of money
(B) : You're a model you place all your focus on getting more likes on instagram, twitter ,Facebook and increasing your snapchat views (popularity) You loose that focus ,because you have placed it in so many places .
•= Now you end up with 12,000likes on your hot photo but an empty bank account screaming help ,help ,help!!! Yes
SO WHAT SHOULD YOU DO?
➨ LEARN HOW TO PRIORTIZE.
___________________________________________
➨ expect MLSH 0008
"SPEED YOUR SUCCESS : Simple art of prioritizing " Next post...
If you enjoyed this post leave a � in the comment section to encourage the writer.
I'd advice bookmarking MLSH profile so you check to see when new posts are published.
Thank you and keep reading mylifestylehacks.

Many People who know me Think that I'm a natural born extrovert ,outgoing, Optimistic, Talkative , adventurous and always in action. The reality is much more sad, With me being a mini introvert if that's even a word,Over the years I've acquired some traits that extroverts possess and somehow developed my social skills, But deep down I can't survive without regularly having time away from the world.



THAT BRINGS US TO
INTROVERTS [b]
We are all bold and Loud all day in life ,and even on our social media, it is normal everybody wants to be heard. The corporate Nigerian environment favours the Golden boy or Girl,the one who is very socially connected,Of course he or she wins people over with very daring ideas and charming outgoing personality.
But what about the other side of the spectrum?
What about the introverts? The ones should who would choose a quiet evening at home reading Over A night out partying with friends..
SOME OF YOU DONT KNOW WHERE YOU FALL,
before diving into the nub of this thread let me quickly help you identify that.


➣ An Introvert is More Productive When Working alone Than with a team ,This kind if a person prefers doing his tasks and work alone as he trusts and only believes In what he does. While Many people avoid addressing and liking into their problems and Introvert Embraced this problems as it helps them Analyze their self better ,An introvert will choose to Observe in a meeting,discussion or gathering with friends and might half of the time be quiet.
Just few points of mine from my perspective ..I don't want to waste your time ,you are all busy and important people ....


NOW TO THE NUB. WHY ARE THEY THE BEST?
As Discussed above ,Introverts are observers ,their observation of people can lead to better understanding of them.This is why quiet people are more likeable because of their observable nature, In a world where everybody wants to be heard , seeing a person who is just ready to listen to you talk is a very attractive and charming trait.I'd adive anybody reading this to try and back their selves to this trait ad it is not only irresistible but people will respect you more when you learn to listen.


Also Spending Less time Socializing means coming up with so many things to occupy time.
there's always a skill to learn, a book to read, Something to learn e.t.c Spending less time socializing means increase in productivity, Its normal in The Nigerian Society that people tend to be so sucked in the Pleasures of life ,Partying, Gaming, Porn, e.t.c But Introverts Due to decrease in social activity tend to be less vulnerable to all this pleasures because they spend more time trying to develop their so selves , Some may see it as loneliness but I believe Introverts will attain some level of greatness in the future..




(P.S
AS IN NIGERIA IT IS ALMOST IMPOSSIBLE TO MAKE IT WITHOUT THE RIGHT CONNECTIONS IN THE RIGHT PLACES ,THAT CAN ONLY HAPPEN WHRN YOURE EXTROVERTRD AND SOCIALLY ORIENTED. WELL YOU CAN ALSO BE RESERVED AND SOCIALLY CONNECTED ,BUT DONT LET THE WHOLE INTROVERTED THING TURN YOU INTO A SOCIAL OUTCAST.....



(I will update this in the near future) thank you for taking time out of your precious lives to read this♥