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I ws moved to reply ds thread. @ poster i feel u. A married woman must know how to cook,else its a shame!! no matter how much of an xpatriate she is in other things. i see nothing wrong in d Poster forseeing a change when they were dating,cos dis can b learnt and easily changed.(for all those blaming him). PLS IT WORTHS COMPLAINING
   yes, cooking can worsen,if its nt in ur routine. Iam nt a perfect cook either,sometimes my dishes are nt ok and my hubby wil jokling tel me""sweety,ds food no be am at all"". Though i wl feel bad dt he didnt eat d meal,next time i wl try 2 cook beta. i see no reason why d posters wife should be getting angry.
   Dnt forget d saying dt ""howeva a man moves away frm home,his stomach wl always bring him home"". dts how one loses ha hubby 2 another woman.

His wife sees nothin wrong wt ha cookin n you think she would want 2 enroll in2 a cateerin skul?

@poster frankly talk 2 your wife abt how you feel,if it continues,eat b4 comin home.bt its a pity  u mentioned ur pocket nt being sufficient to, , so u cnt help it. jst go on tea n bread,for sometime n see if,

@chaircover,i av always appreciated ur reponse/advices on post bt 4 ds u dsappiont me.

[b]THIS IS NAIJA ,NO B ONYIBO. CULTURE DEMANDS COOKING SHLD BE D WIFES RESPONSIBLITY no matter ha class!!.([/b]else go n hire one calabar girl 2 cook 4 ur husband) . Only  few husbands get into kitchens.

@mutter. m nt callous as u sounded. my parents are nt dependent on any of their children,neither v they complained to me nor did i complain to him. yes! some things are nt covered by mere monthly allowance bt wat covers my own needs,his own kids? how come al of a sudden i want 2 b in control of wat he sends home,y nt long ago? i js dnt kw wat 2 say 2 u. al dsame 10ks,u only aired ur view

@mutter i wil appreciate if u re-read my post. i never said he shouldnt cater for his family,in my post,i mentioned dt most time i remind him to send a compulsory monthly allowance to his parents. i sometimes send mony to his parents,so dnt see frm one side. judging from wat u said, didnt my parents suffer to train me up too. so does it mean dt my parents are good to neglected while his s nt?. Beside they are only 5 in dia family and he s d 4th. all of them are married. C'mon,God forbid,if something shld happen to him,do u knw dt nobody in dt family wil stand for me?

@CHAIRCOVER, dis s my story. m d wife. there are js no two ways to ascertain figures on deposit slips
d figures on d deposits wasnt going into a casino A/C or, ,it was actually going to his family's A/C.
m nt evn bothered abt he nt caring for my parents,bt y shld others b cared 4 wen m nt cared for.

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@acidosis , i would have bin happier if he was an igboman,cos an igbo man will save evry dime n invest evry bit.

10KS ALL. atleast now i know i wasnt bin sentimentaL

@ujujoan ,i dnt tink its inferiority complex as u said bt rather ego as @Brownjay said. i have started nagging and all sort, i did it last month,bt he stil repeated it,
evn after he begged for forgiveness. i think i have to milk him, bt i dnt hav the heart to.


@Godalone, its not as if he is xtravagant, but he sents the mony to his parents and married siblings. how else do u want me to checkmate dat?
he has forgotten dt he s no mor a bachelor,evn a bachelor saves for his future

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